Why He May Be Cheating On You!

There could be all sorts of reasons known only to your man on why he may be cheating, but there are also those reasons in which women sometimes contribute to, such as: You Let Yourself Go Because You Got A Little Too Comfortable In The Relationship, You Lost Yourself In Him and Forget About Your Life’s Goals and Aspirations, or You Are Just A Pretty Face Without Any Ambition, along with many other reasons. Many women live their lives for their men and this is most certainly a big mistake! They spend all of their waking time taking care of these men, and at the end of the day, they still haven't accomplished anything for themselves. You must always have a purpose for something in your life. You should always have an open mind to knowledge, because it is power. You should be ambitious with your own agenda and your own identity, outside that of your man’s.

Women get caught up too often trying to be the woman that they think their men want. You catch him eyeing the little skinny pretty girl in the store, so you stress over how you’re going to lose your weight and look more youthful to your man. And, sometimes, it’s not about how attractive or skinny the other woman was, it is simply that your man wants you to be who you were when he fell in love with you. The person that you have become, is someone that he’s no longer attracted to. You may need to go back and think about what attracted your man to you, and proceed to recreate this. Was it a special dress, was it a nice poem that you’d written him, find out what it was and recreate it, in order to revive the life back into your relationship.

Never pretend to be something or someone you’re not in the beginning of the relationship, because you’ll have to keep up this charade for the remainder of the entire relationship. That’s hard to keep up....it takes too much time and energy. You start to get relaxed and too comfortable in the relationship and that’s when the "real you" starts to gradually come out and he probably won’t receive the "real you" too well. Be yourself in the beginning of the relationship, and eliminate the future problems of him going out and maybe cheating on you because he thinks you’ve changed; when really, you were pretending to be someone that you thought he wanted.

Women also essentially end up resenting their men, because they have put their goals and dreams aside for him. These women make their choices, but somewhere in between, they become unhappy with the choices they have made. They start acting depressed, miserable, and sad all the time, because they are not happy in their relationships. This is when your man starts to get tired of looking at you miserable and sad everyday. It is your own fault. You made your own decision to put your goals and aspirations aside to take care of all your man’s needs.

He notices how miserable you have become and he probably wants to help you, but there isn’t any communication between you two anymore, so he really doesn’t know what to say or do for you. Then, he meets another woman who starts to make him feel good again, makes him laugh again, and he’s happy again. Where does this leave you? Still at home miserable and sad, thinking that he is feeling sorry for you. And he is. He is feeling sorry that he has to tell you that it’s over.

So, in the initial beginning of the relationship, both parties need to be in agreement of what they want and expect from each other. And most of all......Be Yourself In The Beginning and Throughout The Relationship’s Entirety.

This Article is Excerpted From My New Advice Guide Coming Soon...."Your 2007 Advice Guide to Fashion, Beauty, Image, Relationships, and Self-Development." For More Info Visit http://fabulouslifeimagemag.sm4.biz

Copyright 2006 Monica M. Burns. All Rights Reserved.

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Monica M. Burns is a Writer, Expert Author, and Image Consultant/Fashion Stylist. She is President and Founder of Fabulous Life Image Consulting. She is also Founding Editor and President of Monica M. Burns Inc. Publications and Fabulous Life Image Online Magazine. She is an Expert in her field with over ten (10) years of experience. She has authored several eBooklets and other reading information materials and is a featured Expert Author and Writer on many websites and in many In-Print and Online Magazines. She has also contributed to several poetic anthologies and won awards for her work.

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