Just Married!

Give her two red roses, each with a note. The first note says, "For the woman I love" and the second, "For my best friend." Love, friendship and companion forever are three wishes that can be granted as a sweet present – Wedding.

"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies" says Aristotle. Indeed, it is very difficult to express love in any other words. "Will you merry me?" is statement full of expressions and emotions that delights lovers’ hearts after listening "I love you". It is fact - Successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Marriage is holy relation to couple two loving hearts and to marry you need love.

Let’s marry!

In the presence of God our Creator and before these witnesses, I ask you, Will you take who stands beside you, as your wife?

I will.

Will you love and honour her and be faithful to her for better, for worse, until death do you part?

I will.

Likewise I ask you, Will you take who stands beside you as your husband?

I will.

Will you love and honour him and be faithful to him for better, for worse, until death do you part?

I will.

Then join your hands as a sign of this.

In the presence of God and before these witnesses you have promised each other that you will live together in matrimony, and have joined your hands as a sign of this. I therefore declare that you lawfully are husband and wife.

Reading itself gives immense pleasure to our hearts. That’s joy and magic in words of "Weddings". But everything needs to be with down-to-earth proceeding although love is hidden for every task. People get stuck with wedding ceremonies. When two hearts meets among crowd, crowd needs to be handled. And that’s what called "Wedding Planning".

Well guess my love is granted. It took great courage to ask a beautiful young woman to marry me. She agreed for my proposal.

Date is 15 August 2005 somewhere one year later. Then what shall be today’s scene?

Now join your hands, and with your hands your hearts.

1. Engagement!
2. Announce engagement to family and friends.
3. Engagement ring and set wedding date and time.
4. Now plan for wedding day. Budget.
5. Hire wedding consultant and elite wedding attendants.
6. Select photographer, videographer, DJ or band, florist, and the wedding service caterer, emcee and schedule planning meetings.

15th January 2005 (6-8 months before)

1. Get designed and order your bridal gown & confirm delivery date
2. Finalize invitation wording
3. Decide on reception decorations
4. Discuss & reserve wedding transportation
5. Register for wedding gifts

Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on Earth.

15th June 2005 (2-4 months before)

1. Shop for wedding rings (Oops! Marriage is a three-ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffering.)
2. Complete guest list
3. Plan ceremony decorations
4. Meet with organist/soloist to select music for ceremony
5. Pick up printed invitations and address them
6. Finalize menu & confirm all details with caterer
7. Select flowers for ceremony & reception
8. Finalize living arrangements for your new life
9. Research passport & visa requirements
10. Coordinate accommodations for out of town guests
11. Select & Finalize ceremony music
12. Experiment with makeup & hairstyles
13. Discuss reception traditions you plan on using

Well this day I will marry my friend, the one I laugh with, live for, dream with love!

15th August 2005 (On your wedding day and week)

1. Make final checks on everything (Hmmm. live the life you've dreamed)
2. Contact your "must-attend" guests who haven't responded.
3. Pick up wedding attire and make sure everything fits.
4. Confirm all honeymoon reservations and accommodations. Pick up tickets and travelers checks.
5. Give your honor attendant the groom's wedding ring
6. Have programs delivered to the church
7. Assign someone to transport flower arrangements from the church to the reception
8. Don't forget to bring marriage license to ceremony
9. Enjoy a great time and best luck. Don’t get nervous. Relax! (Oh no! She is crying! Well the woman cries before the wedding and the man after)

And finally….

O Merciful God, we give you thanks for … and … for their love for each other. Bless their life as husband and wife. Help them keep the vows they have made to each other, so that their marriage may be filled with trust care and joy.

‘Just Married’

Marriage - a book in which the first chapter is written in poetry and the remaining chapters in prose