SOS: Do we really need it?

Against all odds

It’s strange that men tend to understand women as objects of fancy, objects that need to be used for entertainment. In a working woman’s life, there are bound to be changes. And these changes can somehow reflect on her body. In offices where women tend to have sedentary jobs, it’s quite natural for her to complain of back aches and ailments where there is more of mental exhaustion.

Men on the other hand do little or no number of odd jobs (Lucky them, I’d say!). So why are we talking about this notion anyways. Well for starters, as studies have mentioned the beneficial effects of sex, it’s interesting to note that most men seem to have possessed selective memory for the act itself. For a tired worn out woman it’s quite refreshing to indulge in a roll in the hay, but not always!

It’s perhaps because women are the antithesis of human kind. Being negative in terms of being at the receiving end, it is them who take in everything. From pain to passion it’s quite a journey for the woman. For the man on the other hand, although he seems at the periphery to be at the positive end for expelling all that he carries in terms of ejaculation, (as he may not live up to the notion of being a positive soul!

Well not all of them!!!) he lives the other antithesis of being the angry, jealous and egoistic persona. So why the fuss over SOS you may ask. Well with modern life catching up on every aspect of life, its important to note that these are some of the erupting problems that might blow up out of proportion if not handled. I say this as Sex is not merely an act of two bodies, or two souls for that matter, it’s more of a mental understanding.

Handling it tactfully

Like everything else in this world, there is no length that people can go to, for understanding this urge of ’u-know-where’. And if that means taking time off in understand this act in all its sincerity, I’d say its worth it.

It’s also because there have been couples who have almost reached the verge of a divorce only because they were not compatible in bed! Although this may even be as minor as an allergy, it may also have grave connotations in the long run. This is perhaps more true as SOS is more of a mind game and if the mind is not ready, it’s not possible for the body to be either! Food for thought! I’d say!!