What if your love rejects you?

This word is not at ease,
We seem to hide the truth,
Thinking there’s only so much we can really do,
It’s up to you and me,
To fix our destiny,
The jury’s here, so let’s take the stand,
An we’re not gonna take anymore,
Can we try to erase all the pain....

- A stanza from a famous song

Falling in love is very difficult exercise. That is what I felt. Shall we stop loving?

Jason Jordan said, " Love is fire. But whether it's gonna warm your heart or burn your house down you can never tell."

Writing positive statements about love make interest for new lovers to read and sharing failures of love may get tears in broken heart’s eyes. But truth is a truth. You can’t live without it.

" I am not interested. We are good friends. Let me clear myself I have never encouraged such feelings" is very common statement I heard from any beloved to break heart. Please say it directly " I am neither your friend nor beloved." Don’t get friendship in between. We hardly understand the meaning of a friendship. In real life friend is to help and love is due to physical attraction. Probably we are changing original definition.

Daphine Rose Kingma said "Today, see if you can stretch your heart and expand your love so that it touches not only those to whom you can give it easily, but also those who need it so much."

I believe most of us faces such situations where one finds oneself standing in the graveyard looking for someone to solve problems where actually no body is there to listen.

Love is a ethereal gift from God that commences from your mind and finds its way to physical expression. But the emotional feelings we call love have very little to do with what love really is all about.

No one is either too bad to reject or to good to love. It is you who decides. We generally fall in love with a person whom we have dreamed earlier. It means you are looking an another soul like yours. Oh! It is being complicated. Personally what I feel about love is to like someone without no reason. It is called unconditional love.

Once mind makes room for love. I have hardly met with my beloved still I felt that I really loved her much. We ourself creates imaginations and start dreaming about beloved. We find everything good about her as we bring our dreamgirl’s soul in her body. Actually it may not be the truth. We are much happy till our dreams break.

Rather we accept the reality. It is nothing bad to dream your love. At least you will get time to know your self. But be ready for every result. Be brave.

Bill Ferguson wrote in one of his article " The experience of love is an inner state. When this is present, you are happy, alive and free. You feel good about yourself and good about life. As you bring the experience of love into your life, life works effortlessly and great things happen.

The opposite of love is fear and upset. When this is present, you close down inside. You lose your creativity and your ability to see clearly. You get tunnel vision and you interact in a way that almost always makes your situation worse."

James Earl Jones said " One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter."

Our understanding of love not only affects our present but also future. If you can spread love in your marital life, your children will be happiest and most lucky to born in your family. Love less life may lead you on wrong way.

Then what to do if you fail in love? What to answer your beloved if she said she had no interest in you. Today she said no to you. Tomorrow you will resist someone’s love. Threatening or suicide never works. Just forget it. Because if you don’t love yourself, you are unable to love someone else. Love is to give away. If your love returns, then it was your true love else it was your imaginations.

Bill Ferguson expressed, "To live in the experience of love, and to create a life that works, you need to stop the fighting and resisting. You do this through a process called "letting go." Letting go is the inner action that releases the fear and upset. The moment you let go, everything seems to change. With the fear and upset gone, you see your situation very differently. You become creative and discover solutions that you could never have seen before."

I learned the meaning of ‘let go’ from love only. According to Gloria Gaither "Love is the seed of all hope. It is the enticement to trust, to risk, to try, to go on."

Dear, you stop meeting me till date thinking you would encourage love towards you in my heart. Unluckily in your absence I dreamed you a lot which encouraged me to love you. Thanks for openings my eyes. My dream ends here. Don’t think that you hurt me. If possible forgive me as I touched your heart. If you want me as a friend, I am always beside you. You love me as a friend. And I will love my divine. This is a way my life goes on. Believe me I am neither feared nor upset. I will wait till my dream comes true....