Help !!

Not a wild mind but just thinking of lying to get help!! Or being an honest guy how shall I excuse receiving help bonanza!!

How to break attention of a driving gentleman or lady to get lift? I am afraid of being fail in exam for few marks and I need some words to copy from nearest scholar. Wanted to make a girl as a girlfriend and need my dear sister help to put starting words!! Want wife to prepare some delicious dishes at least one day in a month if I call my boss at home for dinner! Let my girlfriend obey my commands and make myself best lover in the world when I go against my friend!

At least once to say "I Love U"!! Need advice, need money, need muscles, need brain, need thoughts or bubbling ideas!! All time I NEED HELP!

Help is a word used to indicate agony or the need for assistance. If a thief tries to rob chain or purse of a woman, the first word comes out is "HELP". Help has many forms and it solely differ person to person. Help could be countable for example scholarship or non countable for example sympathy or physical help for no money.

Crossed Views

There has always been crash in between lazy people and principled active people. Few believe help as god gift and always look for someone to do task on behalf. Where as there are some who prefer to loss rather gaining someone else help.

Learn to help yourself first. Probably you may need not anyone else need. But later don’t be self-centered. If you don’t need someone else, that doesn’t mean someone may not need you. We are anyhow helped by nature. We cannot deny this fact. Who knows that we are empowered by heaven to help others? Power comes with responsibility. May be you are responsible to help needed!!

We of course need help. Taking help should be seen as positive way. We must become synergic humans. Teamwork or co-operation is the keywords to toss here.

But looking for help should not be right for every second. You are more on positive side when you count to how many people you have helped today. Balance is always preferable. To be able to help your parents in their old age, you need to grow with their help. In case of giving help, help other if needed. There is no use whatever trying to help people who do not help themselves.

Comes from Heart!!

Don’t feel glad if you can’t solve problem of needed but you tried to help. Help should come from within deep heart. It is an emotion and scarification. Help is symbol of ‘Love’. Mother Terressa rightly said, "There is hunger for ordinary bread, and there is hunger for love, for kindness, for thoughtfulness, and this is the great poverty that makes people suffer so much."

Builds Relation

Asking or giving help builds natural relations. The helpful life is the holy life, says Collyer. We all need assistance. Teamwork should be principle of life rather being selfish or lazy. We all can grow with one another’s help. The world has given enough to satisfy our needs. Rightly said by Shinn "There is no such thing as a self-made man. You will reach your goals only with the help of others." Most of the time I experienced building good relationships with helping person or getting help in return. We do not expect but it happens. And always be open to accept or offer – thinking you are building beautiful relations!!

Gender and Help

I am not sure but I noticed two points when She helps you. Either she understands you comfortably and trusts you or you are making her fool by impressing her or making false temptations. She rarely comes ahead to help you. However he finds open and very comfortable to move ahead to help. He thinks less and is single directive in case of helping person. However his help may not build always long term relations. He forgets once help out somebody. But it is really accepted that he loves to run to help her in few cases. This could be his openness. No different!! He also can be foolish to help. But we should not stop help in either case even if we don’t prove ourselves smarter or find ourselves fool at end of story!!

Don’t make fun of Help!!

Probably I have said much on this in earlier paragraph. Although you find yourself fool in helping out, help and forget what you have done and for whom you have done. You did a good job by giving your hand. Don’t feel shy even to help someone because of this reason. Further if you cannot help someone, don’t make a fun. As Reverend Jesse Jackson said, "Never look down on anybody unless you're helping him up"

Words from Last Para!!

One should not expect something in return while helping out someone else. Let your help be sacred and reach to your god!!

"Those who bring sunshine to the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves." - Sir James M. Barrie