Ogling – A man’s favourite pastime!

The absolute Turn-on

We’ve noticed a man’s exclusive interest for the female Breast! Phew! I said it! But to tell you the truth that’s not what really tops his list of fantasies. I guess it has more to do with anti-gravitational theories! Ok! I’ll explain, the frontal view, being the second most famous part of the body, men seem to ogle at; the first being a great pair of legs. Which is shy I said anti-gravitational theory! Actually, it’s not so bad to stare, I mean, as my husband would put it, ‘we need to appreciate beauty in every form!’ Especially if the beauty truly is a raving beauty! What puts most women off is the fact that the act of starting (or ogling as you might sophisticatedly put it!) is not one of the most comfortable things to put up with especially if you are a woman.

The Truth

Men who stare are actually viewed as people who lack the guts to muster up a decent conversation with women. It actually boomerangs in your face guys! Think about it. You stare, the lady disapproves, and you loose out on the one great body that crossed you! Sure there are many fish in the sea, but why stare alone! I mean, it’s not that I’ll give you company or any such thing, but look at it from a woman’s angle and you might get even better clues on dating! As I see it, not every man’s eyes look that innocent for a woman to give him the awaiting nod of consent, on the flipside, if he were to strike up a conversation, well, then that might be allow you to break the ice!

There have been many instances that have led simple staring to graver accidents. Psychologists say that while it is normal for any action to receive the human reaction, like too much of a good thing is bad, similarly too much ogling, besides readying you for a spank to be planted on your face, can also lead you to the first paths to voyeurism. But then men are men! And men will stare! To top it all, women are no less to look into that compact box to suddenly feel the need to freshen up, on catching a glance too! But then let’s not get into that! Basically, for all women to know the one thing that men will never disclose is that, they are loved and appreciated. And I can tell you from experience that a man is almost always too chicken to tell that you look good! The ego needs some instances in life to prove its worth right! According to Osho (Also known as Osho Rajneesh!) a brilliant thinker and philosopher in his time, people live their lives only trying to detach themselves from the art of lovemaking. How? I’ll explain. We are all born out of it, so it’s quite natural that this forms and looms large over our souls. So when you stare and are even more attracted to the opposite sex, you are actually initiating the act and following it through, sub-consciously! Today, this is termed as a ‘natural’ aspect of human lives, more with boys and less with girls!

So it you love looking and staring at people, don’t worry, it’s not such a bad thing after all!