Why do Women Cringe? (Part II)

Assuming that buying her a drink will get you some action. Its quite possible for you believe that spending money on her will provide you with a ticket into her panties. Right? Wrong! The best way to approach a woman in not through the bucks, but through innovative ideas to take it cool; be as easy going as possible. She might sense your casual and easygoing personality, which in turn helps you and her to relax.

Take a call on this one
It’s difficult to take a call up front. So its best if you make a head start by giving her your number, take hers too and give her a call. To ensure a positive outcome, here are few things you shouldn't be doing.

Waiting for the next three days
Even though you want to phone her the very next day, its best if you don’t; as I am sure that you don't want to seem desperate. So follow the golden rule of waiting for three days before you pick up the phone to call her. Well so says the golden book of dating….While this is far too predictable, make it happen in style by calling her the next evening. Believe me, if she's into you, she'll be happy you did.

Calling too often
The worst you could do is call her more than once a day and leave a slew of messages, hoping that maybe she'll answer one of your calls. Be logical and call her just once! A maximum of two times before she calls you back. If she hasn't returned your call after you've called her twice, move on to other prospects. There may be many a fish in the sea, and you’ll sure be glad that you did not lose too much sleep over it!

Calling her with your Mouth full!
If you're hungry, eat before or after you speak to her on the phone for the first time. If you’re like me, you’ll probably want to eat first so that your head moves in a brilliant way. Whether it's an apple or a pop tart, she won't enjoy hearing crunching and slurping sounds during your conversation.

Well nobody does for that matter! Instead set aside some time to call her when you aren't too rushed. This also gives her the impression that the moment is specifically carved out for her. Remember women need attention, and they can spot a made-up situation.

Cramming for Concentration
You need to understand that your lady needs your undivided attention. Therefore, avoid surfing the Net, watching TV or reading the newspaper while you're chatting. Most men have this typical habit of doing something other than paying attention to their loved ones. They don’t mean to displease anyone, just that, this is how they typically are.

Unless it’s their egos getting even slightly splintered, do they spring back in action! So if you are the type who gets easily distracted, allot a time limit for the phone call. Tell yourself (and only yourself) that you'll talk only for 10 minutes so that you will be able to give her your full attention, may be tough at first, but certainly not an impossible feat.

Amnesia could be dangerous
Forgetting the details about your first encounter could be killing too! Noise, alcoholic beverages and other distractions could all be a hindrance when it's time to recall her name and the details of her childhood. So when you meet your match, repeat her name after she introduces herself; this will help you remember it (hopefully!).

Make a mental note of some of the information she tells you, like what she does for a living or things you have in common. The system of pneumonics may help you, attaching the description to help you remember her name! Write it down, if it needs to be written, when you get home. Remembering some of the major elements of her life will impress her and help you to secure that first date.

Give yourself a Break too!
Talking too much about yourself without asking about her could make you look self-centered, even if you're only nervous. You could keep the conversation greatly general and ask her the same questions she is asking you. Topics of discussion can include a variation of career, likes, dislikes, and family. Avoid touchy subjects like politics and religion until you know her better, moreover, such topics are largely boring while talking to women!

Its important to note that women are always keen on noticing little details so a good first impression is paramount to getting her phone number. Be considerate; take the time to look and smell your best, and maintain a truly positive behavior, as these are some of the pointers that will help you tread on the path to of a successful relationship!