The Big 'O'

The Introduction
Its funny how different things in this world have different meanings! ‘I am coming!’ Well for me it might be a case of someone telling me that they are arriving at a certain destination. With raised eyebrows, let me think again!!! Well I thought wrong! Its quite queer how differently we perceive things to be blatantly different from the way they are! I have a feeling, I’m not making sense…Let me explain. But a question before that! Have you heard of the term that women are known as ‘hot irons’ and men, as light bulbs…’You don’t get it do you!’ Well for the simple reason that the pleasure of lovemaking makes one depict them this way!

Nine out of ten women on this earth fake them; ten out of a hundred men feel they’ve provided their women with these and approximately ten out of forty women may actually experience it! What is it!! Sounds like the introduction of a Quiz! Well it’s the much talked about (in hushed tones, may I say!) Orgasm!!

The Big ‘O’ and its roots’
So what is it with women and their fetish for the big ‘O’! Coming to the ‘coming part’. It’s quite surprising that despite varied experiences (of sexual encounters of course!) most women tend to view the experience of "o" as pretty much the same. In reality the effect is much like that of the endorphins that take the toll on you after a really refreshing bout of exercise!! It makes you want for more!!! Trust me it sure does!! And that, leads to the innumerable problems for its scavenger hunt-like expedition! Actually the problem also accompanies with hidden solutions! Solutions that have made both sexes want more variations in lieu to achieving those 10-15 seconds of ecstasy! What actually happens within your bodies is still under research but roughly what you might experience is the absolute release of toxins and energy. In Hindu mythology, it is known as the study of the ‘Kundalini’, or the study of energy and its effect on mankind.

But for our reference we’ll take it as a release of toxins, bringing about an effervescent effect! You’d notice that across the world each couple after a great bout of lovemaking feels the light-headedness that has just arisen. But of course that could only happen when the mind and the body are totally in sync for the act to occur in a similar harmonious manner.

Moreover, it makes you feel great, gives your skin a major boost. Makes you live life with much more confidence, thanks to only those few seconds of immense ecstasy! Come to think of it, what we essentially look for in life, as a whole is a damn good orgasm! Of course there are other factors like pleasant smells, certain exotic foods that induce this feeling, all and all helping in the process ‘to get there’! Although there has been much research in this field and believe it or not there have been psychologists (who I really don’t know how they went about this study! Hats off to them!"), who have actually studied couples, for understanding the conducive environment for an excellent orgasm, that too for years together! Most of these include common and somewhat feminine factors like moods, good sleep, good food, exotic locales, all grouped up to make even that one night stand as one that lasted forever...