Why do women Cringe?
You casually walk into a bar looking stylish, sexy and sleek... or so you think. You believe you have what it takes to get a woman's phone number, but for some reason it's just not working. Wondering why this is so… read on…..
Facts about you
The reality is that you may be doing things that make women cringe without even realizing it. Even if you are following all the right dating suggestions, there are a couple of additional things you must remember. First, women can be in plain simple words, absolutely, weird! Just when you think you have them figured out, they do the complete antithesis of what you were expecting them to!
Second, women have the luxury of being picky. If you do something that they dislike, they'll move on to the next guy waiting in line to pick them up. After all for them, there are many a fish in the sea. It’s your fault if you are allowing them to be that way!
From the time you get her number to the end of the first date and beyond, your behavior determines whether you'll still be dating in a week, a month, or a year. So if you are trying to put on an act, chances are that through her keen sixth sense, you’ll be out of her list, as amazingly fast as you placed yourself there!
Here are some cringe-inducing habits to avoid, through the pick-up stage and into the first date.
The Pickup
The first few minutes of the initial meeting are crucial. Performing any one of the actions below may hinder your chances of moving on to the first date.
Staring at her breasts
You are more interested in her breasts than in her face, and you can't seem to take your eyes away from them. The worst thing is that you even think she likes having her chest ogled, which I can guarantee she doesn't. Most men have this obsession for breasts and if you don’t have one, then you sure are abnormal, what’s worse is that you cannot handle your glare either!
It’s best if you maintain a consistent eye contact with her. This would make her feel like she's the only woman in the room. You may even want to compliment her eyes.
Checking out other women
You're talking to her, but your eyes are roaming around so you don't miss out on any other hotties. You always keep an eye on other options in the room. Which would really mean that she’s no good for you! What you need to do instead is to keep your attention on her the whole time in order to make her feel like she's the hottest thing you've ever encountered.
Having weird habits
Avoid picking scabs, constantly licking your lips or displaying any other little tics that make you look nervous. Some men have this habit of constantly elongating their noses. A typical habit amongst first timers! If you're nervous, take a deep breath and slow down your breathing; this will also help you focus. What would be even better, tell her that you are nervous and that it is her beauty that makes you nervous. Chances are she’ll break into a smile, as you flatter her ego!
Being badly groomed
Inadequate grooming includes smelling bad, having bad breath, botching your shave job, and wearing wrinkled clothing. What typically catches a woman’s fancy is firs the posture of her man walking, then his shoes! Coz if he claims to be the fashionable kind then he’d better pay attention to his feet too. The fragrance of the after-shave goes the next in line. So get into the habit of doing a once-over in the mirror for some last minute touchups before approaching her. All the best!
The reality is that you may be doing things that make women cringe without even realizing it. Even if you are following all the right dating suggestions, there are a couple of additional things you must remember. First, women can be in plain simple words, absolutely, weird! Just when you think you have them figured out, they do the complete antithesis of what you were expecting them to!
Second, women have the luxury of being picky. If you do something that they dislike, they'll move on to the next guy waiting in line to pick them up. After all for them, there are many a fish in the sea. It’s your fault if you are allowing them to be that way!
From the time you get her number to the end of the first date and beyond, your behavior determines whether you'll still be dating in a week, a month, or a year. So if you are trying to put on an act, chances are that through her keen sixth sense, you’ll be out of her list, as amazingly fast as you placed yourself there!
Here are some cringe-inducing habits to avoid, through the pick-up stage and into the first date.
The Pickup
The first few minutes of the initial meeting are crucial. Performing any one of the actions below may hinder your chances of moving on to the first date.
Staring at her breasts
You are more interested in her breasts than in her face, and you can't seem to take your eyes away from them. The worst thing is that you even think she likes having her chest ogled, which I can guarantee she doesn't. Most men have this obsession for breasts and if you don’t have one, then you sure are abnormal, what’s worse is that you cannot handle your glare either!
It’s best if you maintain a consistent eye contact with her. This would make her feel like she's the only woman in the room. You may even want to compliment her eyes.
Checking out other women
You're talking to her, but your eyes are roaming around so you don't miss out on any other hotties. You always keep an eye on other options in the room. Which would really mean that she’s no good for you! What you need to do instead is to keep your attention on her the whole time in order to make her feel like she's the hottest thing you've ever encountered.
Having weird habits
Avoid picking scabs, constantly licking your lips or displaying any other little tics that make you look nervous. Some men have this habit of constantly elongating their noses. A typical habit amongst first timers! If you're nervous, take a deep breath and slow down your breathing; this will also help you focus. What would be even better, tell her that you are nervous and that it is her beauty that makes you nervous. Chances are she’ll break into a smile, as you flatter her ego!
Being badly groomed
Inadequate grooming includes smelling bad, having bad breath, botching your shave job, and wearing wrinkled clothing. What typically catches a woman’s fancy is firs the posture of her man walking, then his shoes! Coz if he claims to be the fashionable kind then he’d better pay attention to his feet too. The fragrance of the after-shave goes the next in line. So get into the habit of doing a once-over in the mirror for some last minute touchups before approaching her. All the best!

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