Love Management : Make other happy

I'll never break your heart,
I'll never make you cry,
I'd rather die than live without you,
I'll give you all of me,
Honey, that's no lie.
- Backstreet Boys.

There is a letter which makes us blind. But it is not made for that purpose. We take it in different way.

Beginning of my life

Before reading it, take my words, it is just experience and I would like to make no comments. There are no principles behind it. Every one of us faces it and forgets it. But it is not so easy. It lives some moments for us.

"I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart."
- Alice Walker

Life is full of success and failures. Every one of us learns about love from family. I love my family a lot. But when we meet some unknown person whom we like, it becomes something-different story and situation to face. Our mom and dad are with us. Blood relations never leave you alone. That is our belief. So we are not worried for the love which is early god gift for us. But we worries about the relation which we need to make for the rest of life. For that we even become selfish sometime.

"Spread loves everywhere you go: first of all in your own home. Give love to your children, to a wife or husband, to a next-door neighbor."
- Mother Teresa

Just don't be selfish. When we start loving someone, we try to achieve the love from another side. If it is fifty percentages from your side, let it be. Let other makes fun of your failure. But never forget that love is to give rather to achieve. If it is yours, it will come to you by circumstances.

Love is merely madness...
- William Shakespeare

I made so many calls. I thought she had no problems. She was not wishing to discourage me and disappoint me. She was my one of the good friends but I found she had some problems with my new behavior. For her, I was a friend. But I was one step ahead. My intentions were good. Even I was also willing to help her. I was finding some opportunities where I could talk with her for so many hours. I just followed what others do. I analyzed myself. It was just my selfish behavior. It was my personal satisfaction while I talked for so many hours. It was my personal wish to watch a movie with her. Gifting a material thing without any reasons is not giving. I forget true definition of love and friendship. Anyway it makes us mad.

"What the heart gives away is never gone ... It is kept in the hearts of others."
- Robin St. John

Thank God I understood her. Let it be my failure, but I don't like to change definition of love. I have no idea what to do else. But at least I know what not to do. You are succeeded if someone misses you any day in her life. So just let life decides. Don't be cruel to get your love. Nothing is lost if you allow your love to go far from you. Love never comes if you wan to tie up with you intentionally. It is free. Try to spread happiness, help and holiness whenever you love.

"What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us."
- Helen Keller

Love makes your life full of happiness. Apart from sex and lust we need to think about its true gifts. Even if we spend our 80 % of time to get physical and material things, we are not satisfied with our life. It is not balanced. In fact 80 % of our life problems causes from our mental situations. Psychology does matter in our life. So spend time to get some free and happy moments. What we call it "Memories". Enjoy long-lasting memories of being with your love.

Ending of a memory

"If you are reading this, believe me my intentions are holy. Be happy wherever you are. If you need my help, you can call me without any hesitation. Even in your absence I will live a happy life. Don't feel any time worried about my life believing you had created my life alone or difficult. You had always given pleasant moments to me." We really need such thoughts flowing in our mind for our true love.

Reminder

"The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
They're in each other all along."

- Maulana Jalalu'ddin Rumi