J. Lo’s Ex Speaks

J. Lo’s ex, Ojani Noa, claims that the fact that she has turned into an "out of control diva" is what broke up her relationship with Ben Affleck. Noa says that the more famous Lopez gets, the more she changes, keeping her from finding true love. Noa also claims that he does not think that Lopez is happy. He said, "She has changed so much since I first met her. I’m sure her romance with Ben failed because she changed."

Noa is currently working on putting together a calendar of semi-nude pictures. It seems that Noa is just trying to milk the fact that he is the first ex Mr. J. Lo. He was married to Lopez in 1997 when she was still a virtual nobody climbing the ladder of fame. Their union lasted a mere year and he claims that as her fame grew she changed. He says that he believes that it happens because she has too many people around her giving her advice – advisers, lawyers, and managers. Noa says, "It happened to me when I was married to her. There were times when even I had to go through advisers to speak to her." Yikes! Noa claims he wants to give Lopez some advice before "it’s too late for her to ever find happiness" but that she won’t return his calls. Maybe he could talk to her advisers.

Affleck, on the other hand, is promoting his new film Jersey Girl. He will spoof his relationship with Lopez on Saturday Night Live this weekend and has said that he wishes director Kevin Smith will make a cameo while Ben is doing his monologue and say "Thanks for ruining my movie and making me cast your girlfriend." There has been much speculation as to how the movie will pan out after the disastrous pairing of Affleck and Lopez in Gigli. Anything has got to be better than Gigli, right?!