Love + Hope = Life

Abstract

Read N numbers of book or articles. Feel it personally. Work it out in whole life. Name it any thing. Consider it positive or negative force of your life. Is it in relation of your heart or your body? You can mean it any way. But truth is that no body ever can spell it out "Love".

We read so many love stories. What generally be our conclusion? Excellent – a great love story.
We just hide ourselves some where in whole story. For few minutes you like to be alone. You smile but you don’t know for whom. You cry but you don’t know the reason. It is very emotional. Yet you don’t fine it practical or feasible in your life.

Success or Failure

I have seen so many love stories in my corner of street. We call it " Unsuccessful love stories". Then what is so successful in love? Is it marriage? Marriage is seal of happiness and love. Is it so? Tell me what’s your religion’s opinion?

It may be just my perception. But I have seen it as most happening end of love story. Take it as an example. I loved a girl. My age is 19. I felt it first time. I dreamed her a lot. I failed to talk her. Or say I couldn’t express my love. It could not cross my heart’s boundaries. What shall I say it? An unsuccessful love story. Feeling very bad inside. Are we making any movie? True but it happens with every one of us first time.

Every one of us lives most common life. We may face different situations if not above one. But we love. We fail. We get success. We marry. We again fight and cry. Is it successful love story?
Oh my heaven, what am I writing?

Hope – Backbone of Love

We pray God only because of Devil. We love ‘Love’ because of ‘Abhorrence’. It is nothing but "HOPE". Even if you fail first time, we hope for next love to be successful in life. And we really mean it. If husband clashes with wife, there is still hope after successful marriage life. Hope is the destiny of every life.

Sara Paddison wrote "Hope is a higher heart frequency, and as you begin to re-connect with your heart, hope is waiting to show you new possibilities and arrest the downward spiral of grief and loneliness. Listening to the still small voice in your heart will make hope into a reality."

It happened with me also. I am no exception. I don’t word it exactly ‘Love’ but I really liked a girl in my earlier life. I couldn’t express. I am one of those persons whom Battista has criticized. "The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they're still alive." I got doubt. Am I imperfect? Or I tried to love some perfect person. Am I looking for something-best person?

Love makes everything perfect.

Jason Jordan quoted " True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." If it is true I am hopeful for true love. Anyhow failure makes you bold. Martin Luther King said "We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope."

Then what is my disappointment? Am I going to live alone for a whole life? Doesn’t my heart know how to beat? Our disappointment is similar on every lost.

Our neighbor felt really embarrassing, gloomy and shocked on death of their small one-year child. I had seen even more bitter. My uncle and aunt just forgot the meaning of life on death of their young son.

We are afraid of death or lost. Shall we stop to love? Shall I stop to dream one girl who really understand me or love me? To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead. Bertrand Russell said.

Love & Life

Our life is like a tree. Time is the root and hope and fear are the branches. Hope and fear are inseparable in your life. And we wait for blossoming flowers called "Love" in our tree.

Mary Baker Eddy said, " Happiness is spiritual, born of Truth and Love. It is unselfish"

Probably I also need to be unselfish. Pray for your love - wherever she is, should be happy. I hope there is a ring made for my finger also.

Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart. - Washington Irving