You call it madness

"You call it madness, but I call it love." - Don Byas

Whatever you call, but according to me this madness is necessary in our life. Love doesn’t care for century. Definition of love is same for every century, every region and every culture.

This article is just sharing of views, experience and thoughts on love and friendship.

Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart. It happens with every one of us. You try some ideas borrowed from friends and try all your best to talk with your love. We obey and follow all theories of love and when we meet love for first time, we forget everything in just seconds. You do whatever your high commander orders. You just follow your heart and not mind.

First love is very innocent love. We just start to believe that our first love is only going to be our life partner. But it rarely happens. To like or to love is wonderful feature of human being. But understanding of love is most necessary before taking any steps ahead. Love is to give. Even thinking of taking back something is pandemonium. Are you really ready to give?

In every love story I read this line. " It was my first day in college. And I see…" The same thing is applied in my short story.

It was my first salute to city where I learnt some theories for three years – which is called graduation. I was just new guy in college and looking for some new friends. My earlier records in friendship at my native place were quite good. I rarely like people around me. There should be only two to three very close friends in your life. This is my belief. Why? I don’t know.

Heart is one, eyes are two but fingers are ten. Meet every one but believe in two and love only one.

I love my sisters. I had spent my most of good days with my sisters. They are very simple still very beautiful. I was just looking for such girl in my life. I found her in my first class of management. I am management graduate. But I fail in love management.

Seeing is believing. I liked her simplicity. Her way of talking. She was a shining sun in my cloudy life. That was my three years journey with her. Even today also she is in my heart somewhere. I had never waited for any other moped other than her special number. I never tried to know her background. I just thanked god for introducing such wonderful moment.

"Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition" said Alexander Smith. It was moreover same with me. She was intelligent than me in study. I tried to beat her score in every subject. If she could not attend class, I was used to mark her presence. No body still knows that person. To marking her presence was something like I am adding one star in her sky. This sky is yet in my dreams. All stars are there but only moon is lost.

I got one friend who really helped me to understand her. I never expressed my love to some one else other than this friend. Love makes you building new relationships. "Love is blind, but friendship closes its eyes." Once my friends came to know about my feelings, they tried every occasion where I might have talk to her.

It was my first year’s first exam. I knew that her number was exactly behind my friend’s number. I warned my friend to see her name in register. I got her name. It is really beautiful. But her religion was different. In our society, people marry in their cast only. Leave religion. It was just like I am an actor acting for a movie. Who was director of movie? The Great God.

But I found her very lucky for me. At least she taught me not to believe in any boundary when you love someone. I was just looking for chances to make her my best friend. There is an adage.
Friendship may turn into love; but love never turns up in friendship.

Loving doesn’t mean achieving. I am just unhappy with me. Even I could not make a good relationship with her. I just lived in dreams. I never accepted reality. I believed in god who never helped me.

Her name itself taught me a lot. Here is my learning.

F- Friendship
"A friend is one who strengthens you with prayers, blesses you with love and encourages you with hope."

A - Ability to give.

T -Time
Time and tides wait for no one. Don’t be in dream. Act in reality.

E - Emotions
Actions are necessary than your worthless emotions.

M- Madness
Your intention to give everything you had.

A - Almighty
Love is the only almighty in the world. Religion is boundary that stops you to meet your almighty

Hope you get me.

"We all want to fall in love. Why? Because that experiences makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, and an afternoon. But that doesn't diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives." – I don’t know who said it.