It's the Thought That Counts, But Thoughtfulness That Makes a Lasting Gift

Roopa Patel becomes anxious each December when holiday gifts begin to arrive at her door, a mix of enthusiasm and apprehension. After spending many hours reading magazines, browsing catalogs and window-shopping around Chicago to get special ideas for relatives, friends and business associates, Patel is amazed by what forgettable stuff people give.

"Last year, I received a box of gourmet brownies and coffees. They were delicious, but it set me back on my New Year's weight loss plan," says Patel. "And I know it's the thought that counts, but it's nearly impossible to treasure something so ephemeral."

This winter, as people cope with shrunken financial portfolios and economic uncertainty, they are likely to scale back on holiday shopping. In light of these challenges, there are useful resources and interesting products to help buyers select unforgettable gifts.

To start, remember that even a little planning can reduce aimless wandering at the mall. Drawing upon sentimental memories and big ideas, even with a moderate budget, will yield creative thoughts.

One Idea Unwraps a Thousand Solutions

One new book illustrates how to be thoughtful about gift giving. Donna Lang's "A Gift for Giving" teaches two lessons: the selection of meaningful gifts, and presenting them with flair. One suggestion is a money tree with dollar bill leaves, which is an excellent alternative to the ubiquitous gift certificate. The book itself makes a fun gift for anyone who needs ideas for gift giving on special occasions all year long.

No Staring Off Into Space

Choose a mural design for anyone who needs to add some visual spark to his or her walls. Environmental Graphics offers a useful present for both travelers and people interested in international affairs: a world map showing the topography of the earth. For daydreamers, consider giving a mural of clouds floating against a blue sky. Or for a glimpse of the ocean's beauty, consider the new "Dolphins' Paradise" mural. Available through Home Depot or on the Internet at www.primoproducts.com, these eight-foot by thirteen-foot images transform a room's appearance. The design becomes a focal point, transporting the mind every day.

Old Dogs Can Learn New Tricks

Whether it's surfing, needlepoint or wine tasting, there are courses to teach beginners the basics or advance the aficionados. The tuition can be your gift. Contact local chambers of commerce to determine businesses and schools offering classes. Community colleges usually offer a broad range of programs. Taking a class, either at home or in a classroom setting, makes anyone more knowledgeable and interesting, and teaches talents that last a lifetime.

Dinner and a Movie

Everyone knows a neighbor, senior citizen or buddy who would enjoy an evening of company more than a fruitcake. Recall their favorite foods, gather the ingredients and make dinner at home, preparing something together from a new cookbook. For someone who enjoys Italian dishes, give a pasta cookbook in a basket filled with gourmet kitchen staples such as dried basil, sea salt, linguine, imported olive oil and pesto, and a video of a classic film. Visit a specialty food store or farmers' market for ideas and recipes, and local video stores for a flick. These items will be used throughout the year, and will bring regular reminders of you.

By putting a little thought into it, your gift will be remembered and treasured. Don't let time or lack of money put a damper on your holiday generosity -- there are many simple and affordable ideas waiting to be explored.

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