What Women Want

Editors and writers galore, have tried time and again to understand with their genetic qualities the reason for their unpredictable nature. There have been abundant arguments to figure out the "perfect" man for women, all in vain. Contrary to what men think, women don’t always go for the rippling biceps, or the perfect "V" shaped body structure, or even the best dressed male. Security, compatibility and home loving nature in a nutshell is what a woman may seek out, almost always in that order.

What maketh a Man

What’s also important is for a man according to a woman is to have something up there… More often than not, women seek the overall personality, rather than mere looks. This may also be because visually since a man is more stimulated, it is quite possible for women to expect that a handsome man may have copious pairs of eyes other than her own staring into him. Brains have had women getting floored time and again, because this is one factor that supersedes all other perishable qualities. What follows next is big money.

Men all over the world agree that if its not the face then it’s the money that can lure women into almost anything. Although some women may or may not agree on this, this is true in most cases. Potentially, all men with a huge bank balance are known to be the most prospective suitors for women. Being in a male dominated society, it is not difficult to find such women, where it’s the survival of the fittest. And money for them is not such a factor that brings in the halo of money, its much more than the colour green,; money for women represents security, one that is unmatched with any other relationship in the world.

Other Factors

Social status is the next in line after money. A position amongst the elite though not always required but is one that is often desired for a woman. Power games are most reflected with women, as they are with personalities. In our age, this is more so with power attached; power that brings in everything, prosperity, good health, money, social standard, a great family with a couple of kids thrown in, and (sadly) seldom peace of mind.

The next in line is the Age factor. There are many who would agree with me on the fact that men take an eternity to mature. It is also a fact that many women retort to older men, for all of the above mentioned criteria, namely, power, social status, money and a great family. Though there are many who out of sheer respect for a man’s age fall head over heels in love with a man, it is also true that with age comes the much needed wisdom, making the woman a lot more younger than she would otherwise be known to be. It comes as no surprise then that artists and their kin seem to have more muses than people who prefer to call themselves romantic.

Moreover, the world understands a simple logic, well, rather simply, that older men make more money than their younger breed (although this may or may not always be true), so if its not for love, then its almost always for money that women can find themselves amidst the progressive upper society. Last of all is the factor of love. Although this should have been the first and many women choose to believe so, its always after a series of millions made, that love makes a back door entry.

The trouble with women is that they many a times lack the art of effective communication thanks to their overactive and imbalanced hormones. The lack of communication simply adds fuel to the fire of a wobbly relationship. Being feelers rather than speakers, they fail to understand the path to financial freedom and make up their rankings for the "perfect man". This makes the factors of what they actually want in life, rather in comprehensible! So if you’ve ever wondered what is it that women want, try asking her with loads of patience, you might just get to know before its too late!