Bennifer Together Again

Ben loves J. Lo who loves P. Diddy who loves J. Lo who Ben who loves strippers…who can keep it straight anymore? Since the news broke that Jennifer Lopez was hanging out with her ex-boyfriend Sean "P. Diddy" Combs last weekend while her fiancé was out of town, it has been a world of speculation. Not that is anything new for the couple that has endured suspicion since they announced they were dating. Now that Ben is back in town it seems the two have kissed and made up and P. Diddy is nowhere to be found.

The news broke last week that J. Lo and P. Diddy arrived together at the Miami hotspot Opium Garden/Rive around 1 a.m. and entered the VIP room with their entourages last Sunday. There were reports that P. Diddy was spotted leaving J. Lo’s mansion sometime the next afternoon. J. Lo’s keeping mum on the subject and P. Diddy explains it away as a co-inky-dink. Hmmm…while the cat’s away…although the cat has returned and laughs at the rumors that his fiancée is reuniting with his ex. Affleck insists that the two are serious about spending the rest of their lives together. He says of Lopez, " We will always be a pair. The future will bring a family. I believe in trust."

At least someone trusts J. Lo. Maybe it isn’t so much trust that Ben is giving his fiancée…maybe he is trying to deflect the spotlight from his visit to a strip club with buddy Matt Damon the same weekend. Sources say that the two spent the time apart, he was promoting his film Paycheck and she was reportedly working on her latest album, deciding what the future held for them. A source says that, "they love each other very much, but I think the pressures are becoming too great." Seems the two are unable to get it together…maybe it is time to let it go!