Relationship Advice For Men - The Nice Guy Vs. The Jerk

I've talked to many men who claim that being a nice guy just doesn't work with women.
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Jose Does your opinion also applied in the Asian context? 8/19/2009
Elaine where are the nice guys? Women seeks men who have their life together mentally, physically and emotionally. The one that can differeniate work from play and play from work. If they loosened up that tight wearing tie sometimes and will realize that life could be fun both ways, meaning he's flexible in all areas. If men stopped being so up tight about working so much, maybe they will then figure out why the jerks got the girl. A woman desires to have a man that does not work 24-7 or says that he does. Men are always talking about "how did jody get her. The same way he could have gotten her. If men really want to meet women in this world, loosen up the tie and leave the leather gators at home. Loosen up and stop trying to be the business man after hours ,but rather be the lover, friend and significant other. Listen sometimes and stop proposing business when you meet a woman. Instead try to be friendly and speak sometimes.The reason why you can't find a good women is because you always have your face in the newspapers under stocks section or you're tapping away on your lap top trying to beat the next bidder. If you spend a little more time loosening your grip from trying to make more money than you already have. Maybe you will find a few good women who's just waiting to spend some time with you. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to venture out at the grocery store yourself and browse the shelves, believe me you're be amazed at what you find there. There are plenty of good women who's just waiting to find a good man that smiles and can tell a few good jokes and don't mind cutting of the cell phone when in the company of a woman. Believe this if you like, but most women don't want want your money because most women today is very much independent on making their own money. 9/10/2007
T These types of games would do nothing but annoy the hell out of me, the complete opposite of seduction. I know what I need and want from a man in a relationship and a man that gives it to me is the one I want. This behavior only benefits a man who has probably given too much very soon in a relationship and now he can't keep up with his Mr nice guy act. Be true to yourself and don't be someone you are not in the beginning of a relationship and you won't feel pressured and have a woman who expects anything from you. 8/28/2007
Anonymous This helped figure things out about a man who I romanced. Thanks. 4/15/2007
Dan, UK Great article! I agree with the whole lot of what you say! So many people don't get this right. Keep up the good work! 10/2/2006
Arjun absolutely esssential for a person to have knowledge about these when in a relation wid someone..
understanding eachother and the right kind of actions and gestures is the key to a successful relation.
this article helped me understand women better.		 5/19/2006
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