Does a Cheating Wife Inevitably Lead To Divorce?

To avoid a divorce, instead of confronting your cheating wife, try asking yourself where YOU went wrong. After all...women don't leave GREAT GUYS.
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Tower This article is so full of IT , one of the most sexist articles I have ever read and for your information the only thing men and women can do to have a healthy marriage is give 200 % everyday , and even in that situation , cheating CAN happen for a ton of reasons (for example the thrill of the chase, etc).

And then you have some woman here saying that a great guy = DOORMAT .

Make yourself and the world a favor and get proper counseling , not this garbage .
8/28/2009
Gary There may be some truth, but you have to read between the lines. Women may not leave "great guys," but cheating women will ignore them, humiliate them, and manipulate them to get what they want. As long as he continues to be a great guy, they'll stick around and reap the benefits while destroying them. You don't have to read the article, the title alone tells you what garbage is being spewed. 5/15/2009
Sarah This article is the most absurd sexist thing I have ever read. 5/8/2009
James Okay woman does not leave great guys. I am in the army. I am depoly in Afghanistan. I been here for 11 months. I have cheated on her ever. I never thought about it. She have prolbems I listen to her. She told me that she cheated on me. So tell me experts, what did I do wrong. Maybe joining army, maybe have bills, maybe being away from her or yes it my fault. I join army and I put a gun to her head and made her do it yes. I am getting shot and putting my life in danger. So tell me what did I do wrong? 1/7/2008
Joe Elizabeth,

I went through Larry's course and I was able to save my marriage with my wife. Larry's program saved my marriage throughout the course of 8 phone calls...and yes, this was in 4 WEEKS. If Larry was making everything up, he wouldn't be in business..nor able to make that kind of claim.

Have you even visited his site? Did you see all the comments from happy couples? Those are REAL. And I am one of them.

OR...are you just making assumptions based on a measley article?!?! If you don't believe Larry knows what he's talking about, try his free consultation...and you'll see what I mean.

I know first hand that there are a lot of "gurus" who THINK they know what they're talking about, but are just reciting what they learned in a book somewhere. Larry, on the other hand lives what he teaches every day with his wife.
8/10/2006
Elizabeth Great WOMEN don't cheat on their husbands.
Larry, you think you know all the answers dont you? We live in a society where women put all the blame on the man and you believe all of it. "Women don't leave great guys" is such a ridiculous overgeneralization. Some women are selfish and expect their man to do everything they desire. To all the cheating women out there: take a look at how you have treated him badly which caused him to treat you badly. There, now the blame is back on the woman. Or here is some better advice, don't play the blame game. BOTH are at fault. Yes, the man should look at what he has done wrong, but so should the WOMAN. "Stop your divorce in 4 weeks"?? It's not that easy! Any poor soul out there thinking Larry has all the answers should think twice. There is no "secret path". Larry is a bit full of himself.
7/10/2006
kbilotta I disagree with Jeff completely.

If your wife left you Jeff, maybe it was because of your "anger issues". That was a very cruel thing to say to the author about a "special place in Hell."

If your wife left you, maybe she was lucky she did. I certainly wouldn't want to be married to a man who "dishes" out revenge so quickly.

You sound like a very hateful person Jeff. How unfortunate for you.

Being a woman myself, I agree with the author that "women don't leave great guys".

I've encountered women who were indecisive, inconsiderate and selfish who were married to kind and considerate men.

These women are very high maintenance and usually drive their husbands to feel resentful that his wife is so inconsiderate.

This makes the man turn into a "not so great" husband because of the way his wife treats him.

I think the point the author is trying to make is that if men treat their wives very good, and meet their needs, then they will not leave....which I completely agree with.

3/3/2006
Jeff Gergely WOMEN DON'T LEAVE GREAT GUYS. This is so untrue. What kind of crap are you trying to sell here? Sometimes, people leave a marriage because they're selfish and unable to consider the feelings of the people around them. Anyone who buys your line deserves what they get. You, on the other hand, deserve your own special place in hell. 2/12/2006
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