Signs of Infidelity: My Marriage Made Me Do It
Learn the distinctive signs for one of several different types of affairs.
| Comments on article "Signs of Infidelity: My Marriage Made Me Do It" |
| Name |
Views and Comments | Date |
| stanley |
your views are correct but there is something, you seem to neglect and that is identity understanding. couples need to understand themselves as well known that marriage is not holidays but a life program. |
8/17/2009 |
| Tanya JJ |
So true, Dr. Huizenga! My husband cheated on me and it devastated me. I found a whole bunch of information on the internet and finally figured out that he was the "cheating type." I just chose to ignore all the warning signs. When I found a great article on "players," at dating-relationship-advice-for-women(dot)com, it all just fell into place.
Now I'm seeking out good guys anstead of smooth guys. I'm so much happier! |
7/1/2009 |
| chantica |
I believe this alot i am apart of this type of this relationship |
3/24/2009 |
| Amy |
What happens if you are still in love with them and they are not sure what they want, they just want to get out for now? |
3/10/2009 |
| Marcia |
I found a text from a "Michelle" that my husband first lied about. He travels with Nascar and is gone "alot". I found out, after making TWO attempts at numbers he gave me (wrong ones) that she NO longer works for this company and has gone back to
SCHOOL... and did it three weeks ago! His text has yesterday's date on it.. and he swears he can't delete it.. well, it's locked in.. and I'm NOT that stupid! Then, he admitted to "just talking" to her... he hasn't touched her, he says. I say this is INDEED an affair and I'm hurt and not talking to him at all... even though he keeps calling & leaving begging messages. What do you think? |
8/20/2008 |
| A T |
My own situation is that my husband cheated on me with someone we mutually know. He claims he has ended the affair when I began to be suspicious about the two of them. I believe he still gets in touch with her as she handles his investment in shares of companies in the stock broking company she works with. I've asked him to transfer them to another stock broker but he ignores me. I've found out a lot of implicating calls, pictures and messages on his phone concerning other women but all he did after my confrontations is to always code-lock his phones so that i wont have access to his phones. I've told him several times that he is complicating matters more and I dont even feel like having sex with him again because the thought of his being with another woman is a big turn off to me. At times, I feel so angry and I usually think that two can play the same game. I've never thought about extra marital affairs in this way before but I'm really comtemplating doing it to get back at him since he feels that what I dont know will not hurt me. It should be vice versa too but I'll have the satisfaction of getting back at him. After my anger goes down, I always feel terrible about myself. I've discussed this issue with him several times but he does not take my feelings seriously and now I found out that my feelings about him are not as strong as before because I'm gradually building a defensive fence about myself that will not allow me to be hurt again and if there is need for seperation, then I will be able to bear it more than I thought I could. In fact there was a time I felt I could not bear living apart from him. Our marriage is over 10 years now. We have been through a lot of miscarriages and I'm presently pregnant with what we believe will be our first child. He could be loving if he chooses to and professes love but I feel where there is love and no trust, fidelity, faithfulness, honesty and integrity (just to mention a few) is no genuine love. What do you think I can do or how do you think I can handle such a situation. |
10/10/2007 |
| mary |
am entagled in my marriage made me do it. what is the solution |
9/1/2006 | |
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