| Name |
Views and Comments | Date |
| plplpop1/Zack |
if my advice helps and you need more advice
contact me on youtube or myspace and my username is still the same on them: plplpop1
even if your a guy, i know things about girls
i kinda understand them
and i also hear that if your able to spot that person you like quick, then you really do like them.
quick tip: when asking out someone, dont start with "would you like to go out sometime with me?" cuz then the person gets all tense and nervous and they might even say yes so that person doesnt hurt your feelings and date you when she really doesnt like you much and trust me i should know that cuz it happens alot of times. |
10/31/2009 |
| plplpop1/zack |
heres another tip
when a person says they love you or any other compliments, act perfectly normal. during a day or two, think of positive things of that person, you might start to like that person. if you dont, after the day or two or when you see that person again, tell that person the truth in a nice and gentle way and dont look sad or excited or nervous, just act normal. that person could get sad but then you say if you two could still be friends which is classic and if that person doesnt reply, that person wasnt a good person and if that person says ok then its alright |
10/31/2009 |
| plplpop1/zack |
here is a very good tip
be perfectly normal
think of what to say first and practice in the mirror
pretend that person was your normal friend
if you are normal, that person wont be all tense and say in his mind that theres something wrong with you
if you cant be normal then your chance is lowered than 100%
like to about 75% |
10/31/2009 |
| Gwennith |
HELP! A guy that I really like asked me if I like him and I said yes. Now he keeps staring at me (but not like loving staring, creepy-ish staring) and I'm not sure if he likes me back. Every time I talk to him, it's really awkward and I want to ask him if he likes me back but I don't want to be too straightforward with it. HOW DO I DO THIS? |
10/21/2009 |
| Kaylin |
I need help my guy friend (ONLY FRIEND) and I were in Wal Mart and I had to go so I hugged him and he kissed me (on the lips) and told me he loved me and said I was sexy and all that what do I do!?!?! |
10/21/2009 |
| Layla |
I like this dude and he likes me but he is going to dump his popular girlfriend that everyone likes even my bffs and there all mad at me for saying yes to him as soon as he dumps his girl and ALL my friends say thats cheating on him and i wasn't supposed to tell anyone but i did and now everyone knows and i got cheaked out early on the day he was supposed to dump his girlfriend for me and i don't think he is going to do it without me so when i show up tommorow that girl might be mad at me depending on what he does if he does dump her and all my friends hat me what do i do! yet this one girl that is supposed to be my friend is so mean and stuboren and so i can't do anything and i f i do go through with this im going to be an outcast with this group and one of my friends is the one that everyone recolves around her HELP! if she hates me everyone will |
10/19/2009 |
| panda lovers |
please help? |
10/17/2009 |
| panda lovers |
ARE THERE ANY BOYS OUT THERE THAT CAN HELP US? |
10/17/2009 |
| panda lovers |
Please? sombody help! ANSWER! ANSWER! ANSWER!11 |
10/17/2009 |
| panda lovers |
help! love this major cute guy and really need help! some one halp me because i dont know how to ask him out! |
10/17/2009 |
| panda lovers |
wow! i am in fifth grade and i have this major crush on this boy. so does my best friend,and my other one. we dont know what to do because we both want to ask him out.what do we do? |
10/17/2009 |
| Michele |
Theres this guy i like and he just said i was cute. What do i do? |
10/4/2009 |
| Brandt White |
Well here is the deal guys when you are teenagers love/dating is deff new, so I won't discourage yall. But here is some advice. As far as you 13-17 year old males go. Just start off small talking about somethings.
Compliment the girl on her hair, eyes looks ect. Ask her what are some of her favorite things to do what are some clubs/sports shes involved in ect. and go from there. The trick into getting a girl or girls is to just be yourself and be confident, dont be cocky and egotistical thats a big turn off.
Just be honest and take one day at a time. Also if you are a christian and involved in a youth group or a youth choir or something like that go on an outreach help some of the girls out with some of the projects. also girls like to hangout in groups at first at least untill they know the guy first. |
9/18/2009 |
| Brandt White |
Hey all I am a 25 year old male and I got some advice for you guys. As far as you 13-18 year old boys mainly the 13-17 year old guys. dont worry too much about finding a gf. and same with us older adult men.
The reason I say this is you should enjoy your life the way it is. And I too am a lonely man with no luck with the ladies because of some of my fears of asking girls out too. Dating isnt about everything. However if you guys do want to date and know how to ask out girls I can give advice on that as well.
So I am going to share some of my experiences later on tonight. but right now I gota go chill with some gals tonight. But I promise Ill give some advice tonight and share some of my stories.
Peace |
9/18/2009 |
| JD |
i want to ask a girl out and dont know how can you help? |
8/31/2009 |
| Wants Advice |
i like a girl and she is best friends with mine and idk if i should ask her out cuz she will tell her and then our best friend will tell her little brother and then heel tell his dad and he will annoy me so idk wat to do |
8/27/2009 |
| daniel |
i am with you i need a 14 year old girl freind |
8/21/2009 |
| mohamad aklou |
ilove angel derchoie i really want ask her out and she always talks like on gradation she was hugingme so help me |
8/16/2009 |
| Quentin Miller |
i like this girl but i dont think she knows me at all. ive never gone on a date but was planning to. any good dating tips?
p.s. im a freshman in high school. |
8/13/2009 |
| steven argo |
im doing this from my dsi. im going into 6 grade.i like this girl alot her name is julianne I NEED HELP! what should i do girls plzzzzzzzz. help! p.s. i go to metro christian acadamy. p.s.s. im in 6 grade |
8/8/2009 |
| Kyle |
Hey, i'm a freshman i asked this girl i like in a note but she was already going out with someone, how long should i wait to ask her out again? |
7/15/2009 |
| anonymous |
This is for all the 13 year old guys. Im 13 just like you and had some fears like you do. So here are a few steps to asking a girls out.
1. Talk to her every now and then(hallways, classes, etc.)
2. Become friends, if you move to fast she might star to think your getting anxious.
3. If you see her outside of school(carnival, parties, mall, etc.) Hang around with her.
4. Confidence. You need to know you CAN do it.
5. look her straight in the eyes and ask her out, it's ahit or miss. If you don't try you will have no chance.
If ahe says yes then congratz, if she says no it,s not the end of the world. Keep trying. Good luck. I'm 13 and this worked for me |
7/6/2009 |
| Maddy |
this is to heather chiles you should ask him 4 some privacy if the dont if he has a cell u could tryy calling him or something im sure he will be willing to talk alone |
6/22/2009 |
| heather chiles |
there this boy name brian and i was in 7th grade and now we both are going into 8th grade but i think hes really cuit and all but i cant get close to him because his friends are always pushing me away from him and i really want to ask him out but i am too scared too ask him because i am afraid we will not get any privacy at all because his friends always by him 24/7 every day...i'm too scared i mean really scared to ask him in a way and unless i think of something i probley can get him to hook up with me so i dont know... |
6/22/2009 |
| heather chiles |
hi i am 14 yrs old and i am too scared to tell this cuit boy who is in 8th grade like me and he is 14 like me and i am too scared to ask him out and we both are in the same grade whitch is 8th grade and
i sit across from him on the bus but i really want to sit with him but i dont know if i can because we are just friends and now one of my friends said out loud that i have a big crussh on him now he knows
and i really want to go out with him but i don't know how to ask him out when i sit by him on the blechers at school but i try to ask him out but i cant get the words out of my mouth and we are just two teens that are the same age and in the same grade...but i dont know how to get really close by him so i have know way to ask him or go on a date with him... |
6/22/2009 |
| Lex the random |
Is there anyone there to help on here or not! :? |
6/15/2009 |
| Chris |
I'm in 6th grade and school ends in a few days. I want to ask out this girl i like but i don't have the guts. someone help me! i really need to ask her out. |
6/10/2009 |
| Hailey R. |
6th gradre here. okay so lasy year i went out with this guy, i loved him and everything, but i wasn't supposed to be dating yet and i was scared my parents would find out. i broke up with him. now i can't stop thinking about him and i cannot focus at all. now this year i barely talk to him... well like 8 times a month at school (and thats for about 30 second convos). i reallt wanna go back out with him, but now i dont no if he likes me and i do not have any guts for asking him out on my own. What should i do? HELP! |
6/8/2009 |
| Rish |
hey im rish im in 8th grade at foothills Middle School and there is this really hot girl who i kissed. It was a masked dance so she didnt know who it was . I really want to ask her out pls i need tips plspls |
6/7/2009 |
| Desperate for h |
I like this guy and the other day we played this game on the bus and my arm was laying all over his leg and I kept touching his hands and he never flinched like he didnt try to move away
. He is so cute and smart and really nice he even let me have due overs during the game. Does this mean were friends or does he like me? P.S I'm a 7th grader |
6/7/2009 |
| w-dog |
I know this cute nice girl that I wanna ask out to mah first dance but I have know idea what to do! help me out ! |
5/29/2009 |
| Jared M. (R.I.) |
Help! I'm in 3rd grade (don't say im 2 young) And i like this girl. O.K. here my story. Me and my friend were exchanging thoughts of who we like. And now i no who he like, and he no i like, i sit next to her on bus and we just talk about random chatter. Once i asked who she like and she hessitated then said no one. I try to make her laugh as much as i can. That's the trick. HELP! |
5/23/2009 |
| victoria |
hey 5th grade girls/ boys can really need an advise, ok so theres this kid at school named anthony and i really want him to ask me out badly but i dont even talk to him well... i do but he just ignores me everytime i talk to him or chat with him. please help me ive been wanting him to ask me out but when i sit in his table i cant talk to him or look at him plz help me the scl's about to end please ... |
5/18/2009 |
| Hannah |
Hey girls in 4th grade I need ADVICE badly! There is two really cut boys In my grade but they are both in the pouplar group me not as poupular . But I'm kinda ppupular. So any way I'm to nervous to ask ether one out . I would make a fool out of myself. Pls HELP if you can! |
5/14/2009 |
| Michele |
ok so im in seventh grade and i really like this guy in 8th grade, his name is tyler and he's really cute, and he's the son of my track coach who is like really good friends with my dad, and at the last meet we were gonna have an end of season dinner and my friend sophie didn't know i liked him so when i dared her to ask a guy she h8s to sit w/ her she made me ask tyler as a joke so i went up to him and asked him to sit with me but sophie was just a few feet away laughing her head off and so he looked at her and then he looked back at me and he knew it was a joke and he's all like nope and he looked kinda hurt that we would make fun of him and i felt really guilty and then at the dinner sophie went up to him to make it more interesting and said, tyler michelle loves u and he was all like good for her, i hate her, and like we were kind of friends before and i don't know if he was just saying that or if he really does hate me bacus of what happened and i want to ask him out again and tell him how i feel and prove to him that its not a joke but i don't kno how to do it, PLEASE HELP ME! |
5/1/2009 |
| n/a |
i like this 14 year old boy named austin beer and i really want to ask him something.how am i supposed to . |
4/25/2009 |
| n/a |
i like this boy who is 5 years older than me . how am i supposed to
ask him something? |
4/24/2009 |
| Kaleb |
I need help i'm in elementary school and i really like this girl but i don't know what to say. Her friends hate me and that makes her hate me what should i do to get her to like me and for me to ask her out? please help i looked at tons of sites but none of them give me any good advice. Plus she is in the popular crowd and i'm not although i am known by almost everyone in the grade. |
4/22/2009 |
| Kaleb |
I need help i'm in elementary school and i really like this girl but i don't know what to say. Her friends hate me and that makes her hate me what should i do to get her to like me and for me to ask her out? please help i looked at tons of sites but none of them give me any good advice. |
4/22/2009 |
| nick |
hey i like a girl but i cant even talk to her and all my friends try to help me but i am stronger so i push myself away but i need help shes falling for a fat dude plzzzz i really love olivia i cant live without her plzzz help! |
4/21/2009 |
| Chelsea b |
so I'm a junior in high in high school and I like this guy that I don't talk to at all. He hangs out with a totally different crowd than me buy I find myself so attracted to him. How do I approach him?
Oh by the way California rocks! Sf bay! |
4/8/2009 |
| mike |
im in third grade and idk if this girl likes me her name is lisa she is real cute and we might go out soon but idk what to say |
4/7/2009 |
| sangay |
i have a aim it is coolsangay |
4/1/2009 |
| selena |
hi i like this guy but i dont idk if he likes me... for real. So if any guys would like 2 tell me a good way to ask him plz tell me. |
3/20/2009 |
| HIS MIDGET |
I really like this boy...but the thing is he has a gf...they say he likes me but idk know if its true...he even gives me a nickname nd he doesnt give here one... |
3/11/2009 |
| Need Help |
There is this girl at my school that i want to ask out but i dont know if she likes me. I know she does not have a boyfriend and she has ever had one. She is really cute and has buetifuleyes.(exuse me for my bad spelling) i am also thirteen so if another thirteen year old can give me advice, that would be great. |
3/10/2009 |
| T-Pain |
I like a girl but i dont know if i will be shut down or she doesnt like me can some one please tell me what to do |
2/8/2009 |
| Tom bellamont |
Guys come on I'm a blonde male model so mabey it's easy for me oh and I'm rich but the point is I have gone out with so many 16 girls and I'm 12 I learned don't be nervouse joke alot be popular and most importantly have fun with it. Jess I totaly agree want to hang out some time on my yacht I can pick u up by private plane if you want. |
1/14/2009 |
| a-dog |
first comment of the year! and it's 13 days into the year |
1/13/2009 |
| a-dog |
chances are, she still likes you. so you should ask her out. let say that she says she doesn't like you anymore, if you wait she probably will come crawling back to you. Lolz! |
12/29/2008 |
| Sean |
k theres a girl said she like me and i said i wanted to b friends and then a few days later i really wanted to go out with her wat should i do |
12/27/2008 |
| AJ |
First go up to her say she is whering nice.Then walk away.Do not walk to far away ...She might give you her phone number or ask you to come over or sompthing. |
12/21/2008 |
| jake |
There is this relly nice and cute girl i like and i want to ask her out but idk if she likes me 1s shes said i love you to me idk if she meant it.. i just dont have the guts to ask her out i was going to ask her out at this dance we had at are school today but i didnt have the guts plzzzzzzz help! i relly want to ask her out and were real good friends so plz i need tips! |
12/12/2008 |
| morgan |
I like a guy named D.J he hats me he is my sisters freind when he slep over i kissed him 2 times i trid to do a 3rd but he woke up and he is so so so so so so so hot he is blond i am in 3rd grad and ha is in 8th or 9th |
11/27/2008 |
| gunn |
Got me slapped around the face and ten lost a friend |
10/28/2008 |
| Erica |
This was so helpful, and surprisingly, I'm not as scared to ask him out! I will comment again after I ask him to say how it went. |
10/18/2008 |
| a-dog |
K
BTW I'm really bored |
10/4/2008 |
| Lindsay |
i like this guy named spencer at plum creek,but he alredy said no.But i dont know what 2 do. |
10/3/2008 |
| J-gal |
i really like this guy, i think he knows i like him and whenever i'm near him, he gets bright red! I'm not sure if he likes me and i want to ask him soo much but he barley talks to me and i'm sooo scared! |
9/26/2008 |
| a-dog |
If he really does like you and you do like him then you should ask him out. The guy doesn't always have to ask out the girl |
9/24/2008 |
| snowy |
Okay Ilike this guy alot and I'm really good friends with him. He always acts funny and stupid, and thats what I like about him. When my friends brings up the subject they will say that he likes me and flirts with me. I want to ask him out but I'm too nervous! What should I do |
9/24/2008 |
| JC |
Edwin, Be yourself and ask her out! Girls LOVE FUNNY! Don't be afraid to tell them how u feel! |
9/24/2008 |
| JC |
I agree with "need help" 100% and guys don't take three years to ask her out, please. same with girls. |
9/24/2008 |
| Need Help |
Just ask the girl out please it would make life alot more simple and girls wont rip your heart out they will just say yes I will be your girlfreind or no I don't want to be your girlfreind same with girls asking you out a simple yes or no would be great.No feelings would get hurt and you can move on with your lives and still be freinds. |
9/24/2008 |
| Need Help |
Ok I need advice from a boy for the question I wrote below and also to add onto it would the boy not want to be freinds after I ask him if I ask him if he says no?And here is some advice for boys above this message. |
9/24/2008 |
| Need Help |
I like a boy and he is really cute I think he likes me and we have known eachother for 3 years I'm in 7th grade and I have never had a boyfreind before should he ask me out or I ask him out or my freind ask for me?
P.S-I'm REALLY shy when it comes to asking someone out and really likeing someone. |
9/24/2008 |
| Edwin |
Can someone tell me how to get a 7th grade girl to go with me.The class clown?i think she likes me |
9/23/2008 |
| Jess |
hey guys take this from a girl herself, I think guys should be open with girls on everything cuz it just makes it easier to connect and have fun. I love it when a guy is romantic and really funny. and for tips on first dates, Id say to hang at the park and play a one on one game or rollerblading and if you don't like sports to lunch. But guys, make sure your breath smells good before you try to kiss her! |
9/22/2008 |
| phyzco |
i need help i want to ask 1 of my friends out but im nerveus we've been friends for like a year and now that were both in 8th i want to finally ask her out |
8/31/2008 |
| Jake the Pro |
its not wierd to ask a guy out and if you guys flirt a lot just ask him like want to go catch a movie or lets hang out sometime. And difrent guys like dif gils like tomboys and girly girls or inbetween but if he likes you there should be no problem |
8/30/2008 |
| Meg |
Are guys unattracted to tomboys well I dont dress that way I am just stronger than all the guys in my class and like rough sports exp. rugby wrestling footbal |
8/29/2008 |
| Meg |
Hey I am in serious need of help. I am a girl so does that make it weird to ask a guy out . I am like dazed about this guy cant stop thinking of him. I now he likes me we flirt 24/7 but he will never have the confidence to ask me. what should I do !
help |
8/29/2008 |
| Charlie Hamner |
lol i looked myself up on google and it brought me to this XDD |
8/24/2008 |
| the real way |
the best way to ask out a girl is to invite her to a date but not in a way saying "hey wanna go out with me" or something stupid like that because theyll take it that your doing them a favor to LET them go out with YOU. instead invite her to do something fun with you |
8/22/2008 |
| A-dog |
That's definetly is a problem. Just follow your heart. Only you know what's best for you. I saw that in a movie. |
8/15/2008 |
| Eric |
hey i got a problem! plz someone give me some advice. ok well i like 2 girls and there both my realy good friends and they like me back. they dont know each other and they both know i like them and i want to be with them but i hate cheating i I NEED ADVICE! |
8/14/2008 |
| A-dog |
Charlie do you still come on the site? I couldn't find the site for ahwile but somehow I found it. |
8/14/2008 |
| um |
im goin into 8th grade how do i ask out a girl that knows me but not well? over the phone or wat? neither of us have had a gf/bf b4... help! thx already |
7/18/2008 |
| j |
stupid |
7/13/2008 |
| nick |
i need help guys im 13 and i want to ask this 14 year old girl out but im really scared any help |
7/9/2008 |
| nick |
hey dude take a deep breath and be cool about it. then when your cool walk up to her and start talking about her hobbies and stuff |
7/9/2008 |
| Nathan |
Yeah, I did this. I asked her to go to a dinner with me but she hap another commitment. I'm planning to ask her out again. |
5/21/2008 |
| natecass |
yes i got a girl these comments really worked thx a bunch peeps :) |
5/17/2008 |
| A-dog |
I think I might ask out a girl soon. With my friends help. Makes it a lot easier. Hope this works |
5/15/2008 |
| Charlie Hamner |
Lol |
5/14/2008 |
| A-dog |
who likes macaroni? |
5/13/2008 |
| A-dog |
its monday so |
5/12/2008 |
| will |
hey people i am going to ask a girl out monday wish me luck anybody im in 6th. |
5/10/2008 |
| natecass |
Hey peeps... i need help i like this girl in my class and i told her i like her but she dont like me wat do i do? |
5/5/2008 |
| Charlie Hamner |
oh i got one even though im 11 lol |
4/30/2008 |
| A-dog |
I don't plan on it |
4/30/2008 |
| Charlie Hamner |
haha great job but do you have a myspace? |
4/29/2008 |
| A-dog |
I bounce back fast and i'm already over her. I have no clue what I saw in her. |
4/29/2008 |
| Charlie Hamner |
that happened to me,it hurts emotionally |
4/29/2008 |
| A-dog |
I told the girl I like that I liked her and now she hates me. My life is terrible! |
4/29/2008 |
| Charlie Hamner |
how i got the dream girl weas this girl that liked me last year but i didnt butthis year i did,but she hada boyfriend,even though i still asked her out she said maybe but then the next day she said yes and she said she dumped her old boyfriend |
4/26/2008 |
| A-dog |
I am EXTREMELY scared of asking out this one girl and I know that she doesn't like me because we're really good friends. But not as good friends as I would like obviously. |
4/24/2008 |
| A-dog |
Charlie, exactly how did you get your dream girl? |
4/24/2008 |
| C.Irvine |
My boyfriend dumped me and i really want him back. (asking wouldn't help) what should i do????? |
4/22/2008 |
| Charlie Hamner |
Nvm now im not sad or anythin cuz i got the dream girl i wanted |
4/21/2008 |
