How To Ask a Girl/Guy Out On a Date

Dating tips and advice on how to ask someone out on a date, ways to ask a girl out or how to get a guy to ask you out.
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a-dog K

BTW I'm really bored
10/4/2008
Lindsay i like this guy named spencer at plum creek,but he alredy said no.But i dont know what 2 do. 10/3/2008
J-gal i really like this guy, i think he knows i like him and whenever i'm near him, he gets bright red! I'm not sure if he likes me and i want to ask him soo much but he barley talks to me and i'm sooo scared! 9/26/2008
a-dog If he really does like you and you do like him then you should ask him out. The guy doesn't always have to ask out the girl 9/24/2008
snowy Okay Ilike this guy alot and I'm really good friends with him. He always acts funny and stupid, and thats what I like about him. When my friends brings up the subject they will say that he likes me and flirts with me. I want to ask him out but I'm too nervous! What should I do 9/24/2008
JC Edwin, Be yourself and ask her out! Girls LOVE FUNNY! Don't be afraid to tell them how u feel! 9/24/2008
JC I agree with "need help" 100% and guys don't take three years to ask her out, please. same with girls. 9/24/2008
Need Help Just ask the girl out please it would make life alot more simple and girls wont rip your heart out they will just say yes I will be your girlfreind or no I don't want to be your girlfreind same with girls asking you out a simple yes or no would be great.No feelings would get hurt and you can move on with your lives and still be freinds. 9/24/2008
Need Help Ok I need advice from a boy for the question I wrote below and also to add onto it would the boy not want to be freinds after I ask him if I ask him if he says no?And here is some advice for boys above this message. 9/24/2008
Need Help I like a boy and he is really cute I think he likes me and we have known eachother for 3 years I'm in 7th grade and I have never had a boyfreind before should he ask me out or I ask him out or my freind ask for me?
P.S-I'm REALLY shy when it comes to asking someone out and really likeing someone.
9/24/2008
Edwin Can someone tell me how to get a 7th grade girl to go with me.The class clown?i think she likes me 9/23/2008
Jess hey guys take this from a girl herself, I think guys should be open with girls on everything cuz it just makes it easier to connect and have fun. I love it when a guy is romantic and really funny. and for tips on first dates, Id say to hang at the park and play a one on one game or rollerblading and if you don't like sports to lunch. But guys, make sure your breath smells good before you try to kiss her! 9/22/2008
phyzco i need help i want to ask 1 of my friends out but im nerveus we've been friends for like a year and now that were both in 8th i want to finally ask her out 8/31/2008
Jake the Pro its not wierd to ask a guy out and if you guys flirt a lot just ask him like want to go catch a movie or lets hang out sometime. And difrent guys like dif gils like tomboys and girly girls or inbetween but if he likes you there should be no problem 8/30/2008
Meg Are guys unattracted to tomboys well I dont dress that way I am just stronger than all the guys in my class and like rough sports exp. rugby wrestling footbal 8/29/2008
Meg Hey I am in serious need of help. I am a girl so does that make it weird to ask a guy out . I am like dazed about this guy cant stop thinking of him. I now he likes me we flirt 24/7 but he will never have the confidence to ask me. what should I do !

help
8/29/2008
Charlie Hamner lol i looked myself up on google and it brought me to this XDD 8/24/2008
the real way the best way to ask out a girl is to invite her to a date but not in a way saying "hey wanna go out with me" or something stupid like that because theyll take it that your doing them a favor to LET them go out with YOU. instead invite her to do something fun with you 8/22/2008
A-dog That's definetly is a problem. Just follow your heart. Only you know what's best for you. I saw that in a movie. 8/15/2008
Eric hey i got a problem! plz someone give me some advice. ok well i like 2 girls and there both my realy good friends and they like me back. they dont know each other and they both know i like them and i want to be with them but i hate cheating i I NEED ADVICE! 8/14/2008
A-dog Charlie do you still come on the site? I couldn't find the site for ahwile but somehow I found it. 8/14/2008
um im goin into 8th grade how do i ask out a girl that knows me but not well? over the phone or wat? neither of us have had a gf/bf b4... help! thx already 7/18/2008
j stupid 7/13/2008
nick i need help guys im 13 and i want to ask this 14 year old girl out but im really scared any help 7/9/2008
nick hey dude take a deep breath and be cool about it. then when your cool walk up to her and start talking about her hobbies and stuff 7/9/2008
Nathan Yeah, I did this. I asked her to go to a dinner with me but she hap another commitment. I'm planning to ask her out again. 5/21/2008
natecass yes i got a girl these comments really worked thx a bunch peeps :) 5/17/2008
A-dog I think I might ask out a girl soon. With my friends help. Makes it a lot easier. Hope this works 5/15/2008
Charlie Hamner Lol 5/14/2008
A-dog who likes macaroni? 5/13/2008
A-dog its monday so 5/12/2008
will hey people i am going to ask a girl out monday wish me luck anybody im in 6th. 5/10/2008
natecass Hey peeps... i need help i like this girl in my class and i told her i like her but she dont like me wat do i do? 5/5/2008
Charlie Hamner oh i got one even though im 11 lol 4/30/2008
A-dog I don't plan on it 4/30/2008
Charlie Hamner haha great job but do you have a myspace? 4/29/2008
A-dog I bounce back fast and i'm already over her. I have no clue what I saw in her. 4/29/2008
Charlie Hamner that happened to me,it hurts emotionally 4/29/2008
A-dog I told the girl I like that I liked her and now she hates me. My life is terrible! 4/29/2008
Charlie Hamner how i got the dream girl weas this girl that liked me last year but i didnt butthis year i did,but she hada boyfriend,even though i still asked her out she said maybe but then the next day she said yes and she said she dumped her old boyfriend 4/26/2008
A-dog I am EXTREMELY scared of asking out this one girl and I know that she doesn't like me because we're really good friends. But not as good friends as I would like obviously. 4/24/2008
A-dog Charlie, exactly how did you get your dream girl? 4/24/2008
C.Irvine My boyfriend dumped me and i really want him back. (asking wouldn't help) what should i do????? 4/22/2008
Charlie Hamner Nvm now im not sad or anythin cuz i got the dream girl i wanted 4/21/2008
despretely need i like a girl named lindsay malloy should i ask her if she likes me i in 5th grade so is she 4/19/2008
Charlie Hamner what do i do i love this girl and i always see her but i think she hates me =S what do i do...answer ASAP plzzzz. 4/5/2008
nickolasb. i like my friends friend. a little help here
4/4/2008
boogers huh??? i dont understand what this website is?? 3/31/2008
Fred I like my girlfriends best friend and i dont want to dupe her what do i do???????
ps pls help asap
3/29/2008
jack y don't u dump him??? 3/29/2008
C.Irvine my boyfriend like two of my bestfriends what should I do? 3/28/2008
Charlie Hamner she said maybe next year cuz her family is goin thru alot but her grandpa died and i feel really srry for her but i always check this looking for an answer to my question tho lol 3/18/2008
A-dog Jonas bros are so overrated. I dont know if she's the girl you want.
im just saying.
3/18/2008
Charlie hamner her friend keeps saying im not gonna end up with her and her friend says shes gonna date someone from jonas bros. 3/14/2008
A-dog The Jonas brothers really, are you serious. I wonder if she knows that that's never going to happen
3/14/2008
charlie hamner and the girl i like she likes someone from jonas brothers!!=(...i hate them!!! 3/14/2008
charlie hamner i live in lousiana{baton rouge} and theres this girl i like her name is tayler 3/14/2008
Brett E. I want to ask a really cute 7th grade girl out, but other people in my school think I don't stand a chance with her. How should I ask this girl out? 3/6/2008
Jacob hey Michelle can i have your number please 2/18/2008
michelle well I wont to ask a guy to the dance but i said no when he asked me. but I am going to tell him/ask him any way. If this is your situation you should to 1/28/2008
C.Irvine If you are really having a hard time asking him/her out and you really love them just ask a friend to ask for you.Trust me it helps. 1/21/2008
Need a date im a girl i need a date
1/12/2008
Amber he has to be in 5th grade like me, im really 10. 1/12/2008
Amber need the guy by valentines day. so i can go out with him maybe on that night
1/12/2008
Amber ppl i need a bf and im 11. plz help me. 1/12/2008
ADPine hi this is for girls and guys first try to be friends with the one u like and then when u think it might be the right time to ask her/him out u will be less nerviouse and also thares maby more of a chance of a yes 1/11/2008
Shyann Jessie i would ask him because grass on the out feild is still green... So you got to play cause sone one else might just get him... so jump on that .... If you really like him what is the wirse that can happen him say no big deasl he is just a guy there is other fish in the sea..... 1/11/2008
Shyann This is my first tolo and im reall scared:((((
bUt my friends all already asked there dates... But there is one of the guys buddies that doesnt have a date and he is cute.... So they want me to ask him cause he dont think any one will ask him... But i nedd a cute way to ask him.... So if you have any cute ways please help....
1/11/2008
Quasar You are what you percieve yourself to be, nobody can tell you otherwise. 1/2/2008
Quasar Tay Tay, it's not about what "we" feel. It's about what "you" feel. There isn't a sign saying you can't ask him out, you can do that. You're stopping yourself because you're not confident in yourself or you rather distrust the people around him. If that's the case just go in and ask for some privacy, depending on your relation with him being in the past or not at least ask if he would like to go out. Be frank, straight forward and yourself about it. Really, everybody! It's all in your mind, these insecurities. 1/2/2008
Quasar devilboy, confess that you like her. If she doesn't feel the same, more so if she doesn't give you a chance or treats you unfairly, chances are its better than winning her over and finding out she's not the person you really want to have to love. There is a possibility that she might find out you broke them up, she might like you or dislike you for it. If you don't have the courage to do that then you shouldn't do anything, she might dislike you from the start or like you always perhaps insecure that she needed someone before you, or faun over you for some superficial reason because you happen to pass by or interupt their ebb and flow. It's your perspective, the most important question is: what is love? Is it materialistic. Perhaps egotistical. A disease. Pheramones. Hormones. Warped reality. That needs to be clarified and examined, observe your partner and ask yourself if it feels right to be near that person or far away. If you are fighting this comment tooth and nail and denying any possibility then I would say you are very predictable and easily fooled. 1/2/2008
devilboy i have a big crush on this girl but shes going out with one of the best friends :( and i am actually thinking of breaking them up but they rely like each other but what sould i do 12/21/2007
Tay Tay Hey peeps i no how u feel im 11 and the guy i like is 11.He nos that i like him but i cant seem to ask him out.Hes always with the other guys and he never alone.Help!!!
12/6/2007
Deathangelgal Hey everone
I have some advice 4 every one
DOnt worry what people think of you
if you like someone that other ppl think is ugly or dorky tell them to mind there own business
It wont be them having to live with the little quistion in the back of there heads sayin "Should i have gone out with him/her" or "urrr. Now ill never get to know him. MOST IMPORTANTLY NEVER CHANGE YOUR PERSONALLITY TO GET PPL TO LIKE U!!! If they dont accept you as who you are then they will never really like the real you. Theres nothing worse then having 2 personalleties. Its not worth it!! BY the way with the age differance stuff... who really cares. if you have a connection then does age differance really matter? .
If you really love someone then keep percisting, If they say no just ask them again. You never no... He or she kould have just gotten out of a really bad relationship or been dating someone olse. If you really love this person you wil never give up.
Well i hope this helped some ppl
Deathangel
11/25/2007
zach s. :( i did like this girl named deseray but she moved to a different school 10/31/2007
Rachael g um hii i like this guy and he knows i like him, i asked him out and he said no and i really so badd want to go out with him what should i do? 10/28/2007
alisa so im in seventh-grade, and there's this boy that's in eight grade and I think he's cute. The other day, me and my frends we're at lunch and his friends just go over to my table and ask me if I think he's cute. I didn't really know what they were saying so I just shook my head and ignored them. The next day, the boy that I like goes up to me and asks my name, I ask why and he says it's for his friend and points to his friend. His friend is kinda ugly so I didn't give him my name. The next day, I pass by him and he tells his friend, "Look there's that girl that won't talk to me." I ignored him and kept walking. Today, I found out he's second period is near mine and as I was walking into my classroom, I could feel him staring rite at me. Do you think it's his friend or him that likes me? 10/26/2007
asdf im 12. theres dis boy that always stares at me in class and sometimes i stare back and he always makes these stupid faces and I just laugh at him. Outside of class, we talk to each other and kindaa flirt. He asked me out the other day and I said no cuz people say he's ugly and weird. But I kinda like himm. But after I said no, he still keepps flirting with me and stuff, and I kinda flirt back. Anyone think he'll try to ask me out again? 10/26/2007
Joey Guys just relax. If the guy or girl says no dont take it personnaly. And if he knows u like him dont like not to him or her becuz thats wat most ppl do. Thats what i hate! Trust me ive been in many relationships
10/18/2007
Jessie I need help! There is a school dance coming up and the guy I like just said no to the girl he was going with. Should I ask him to go with me? 10/9/2007
Arden I have liked this guy since iwas in the 3rd grade, i'm in the 6th grade now and all through my elementary years i have asked him out but he has always said no... last friday he asked me out to the movies (him and the other guys are my really good friends, i have know them since preschool) and he sat by me and put his arm around me!!! So i thought that maybe he liked me and that i could ask one of my friends if he liked me... all of them said ask him yourself, I'm kind of a girl who doesnt have alot of confidence and i dont know who to look up to i the situation. 9/10/2007
andrew hi it's me andrew again i realy need to know how to ask tory out or even just get to know her pleas talk to me :( 9/1/2007
andrew i like this girl named tory she goes to my school and i like her a ton but i don't know if she even knows i'm there, what do i do? 9/1/2007
Andrew Martinez does this girl named Brianna likes me her moms name is Ricki and Brianna is 13 8/18/2007
anon. yeah,um i like this guy and i want to ask him out but i really fear rejection plus my friend asked him out , he said no, and i will be a traitor for admiting i like him, not to mention embarassed 8/12/2007
hillsman i need some help! my sn on aim is jakedacornflake and im 12 and i want to ask a girl out that is a little bit older than i am but im in junior high and shes in high school so we dont see each other much so i have ask her out via aim thanx 8/6/2007
Carrington P.S. hes 2 days older than me ! with is really ironic. 8/3/2007
Carrington Im almost 11 and like a guy who likes me his friends say hes to shy to ask me out i would ask him out but i have fear of rejection and im shy too. And im a total tomboy so my friends make fun of me. Please help!!!!! 8/3/2007
Jessica I like this guy and I want to ask him out but My friends will make fun of me and I don't want that so want should I do? 7/3/2007
haya how can i have a guy that i like n we only know each others names? 7/1/2007
bobbyjoemam ass i have a question 4/5/2007
Kenneth V. to keep a guy; 1st, have Biblical standards, don't date a non beliver-keep conversation constructive. Make sure ONLY hand to hand contact, most of your body restricted till marriage. Peck on check good nite 11pm you are out the door. It will work! 2/22/2007
chrystal yeah dats kool im 10 turning 11 on christmas day and thats pretty good advice only that its a bit technical 4 me but thanks ill try it 11/22/2006
Ashley In english please?? 10/7/2006
cristina i ok i know this is so off but i asked out this boy and i kept on asking and now he doesnt like me and i am so upset. please help 9/15/2006
Sara I think this is awesome advice. It actually reiterates something one of my friends just told me the other day. I'm thinking about going for it. Wish me luck! 9/14/2006
jisnmitch i like it 8/5/2006
ken it's good info i like it i'm going to try it. i asked a girl for her number n got hella scared this should help a lot thanks 8/1/2006
Jim Ash I thought it was badly written! 7/4/2006
tia aaron is your last name stewart? 6/17/2006
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