| Name |
Views and Comments | Date |
| pamela |
Hello my name is pamela and i go to bay view and i was giong with this boy name vance and he was my baby it the time and we break up April 16 ,2008 but i think we are friend now after we break up but now i am happy i go with someboby esle so yeah he is out my life for good but i miss him and he was my baby and now i do not have feel for him like at was at one time |
4/16/2008 |
| sig |
All this talk about the couple is fine, but what about the family and friends that have been hurt. My daughter's engagement was just broken off a few weeks ago but she still wants to be friends. I'm ok with her being friends, but she insists on keeping the plans for her 21st birthday trip to Vegas just as they were before the break-up. The couple are still driving up together and staying in the same room. The rest of her family and friends do not like him and have not had enough time to adjust. Most importantly, my daughter is sharing a room with her ex. This idea is just not sitting well with anyone, but she is resolved that her ex should not have to pay for a room alone. He has friends that will be there but are there for another friend's bachelor party, but my daughter does not give a valid reason for him not staying with them. She is angry with me for trying to convince her to stay in our room or with one of her friends. As no one likes the guy, she feels it is out of the question for her friends to stay with her and her ex. I don't think she has let go. I don't think you can go from being engaged straight to friends. |
9/9/2007 |
| Meg |
i amtrying to stay friends with my ex but i feel that she is purposly trying to hurt me. i ask her if she wants to do something as friends and she makes excuses not to and then i find out that she went with her other friends and did the exact thing i wanted to do. I think that staying friends after a break up is really hard and that both people need to make the effort to make it work. it is not going to work if it is only one sided. |
5/23/2007 |
| ric |
a bit vague |
9/20/2006 |
| Jaki |
after a year and a half my boyfriend and i decided a break up would be better for the both of us. his and my work committments were creating too many tense moments and disagreements and in the end we thought that the best course of action would be to be just friends. we realised that if we continued the way we were going then we would most likely end up hating one another. neither of us want this. its now been a month since the break up and we've both been the movies together, out to parties with mutual friends and still text one another/call regularly. i'm really enjoying the arrangment that we have at the moment. i dont think things between him and i could ever be awkward coz we want to be in each others lives too much. |
9/2/2006 |
| Gabriella |
I think that it would be good to maintain a friendship after a relationship, but only if you two really cared for each other and didn't end on bad terms.
The hard part is making sure the other party doesn't get the wrong idea. A friendship is totally different from a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship. You have to set it in stone before it begins, there will not be any holding hands, kissing, etc.
I think that with some work having a frienship with an ex is entirely possible. |
3/31/2006 |
| mohamed |
i thing that relationship isen't game,it is source the life |
12/10/2005 |
| mdogo |
I think those are great suggestions. You really can be friends with your ex. It does take time but if you are willing to make it happen, it can. |
10/5/2005 |
| whachamacallit |
I don't think that it is realistic at first -- I think that over time it will be but right away, it just wont work! Too many emotions and one person might be thinking "oh, this can really work as us being friends" as the other says, "gosh, I really think that he might like me" It always ends up not working -- that is what I have seen at least |
10/4/2005 |
| Good Point |
Isn't it important to consider how your next girlfriend/boyfriend may feel about you maintaining a relationship with your ex...yes you broke up, but the reasons you got together did not evaporate into thin air. |
10/2/2005 |
