What do men want?

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Name	Views and Comments	Date
Jack	Great article but I didn't like how you talked down on men at the end. That sex is just "a beast-like affair" etc..Men have feelings	6/9/2011
maccotterell	its good, bt i didnt realy get d real tin i needed.	4/12/2011
chocolate	i need to know what can i do to make the chemitry work to satify the man all night doing foreplay	11/30/2010
angel	i want to see the videos	11/20/2010
SKM	Glorified Rubbish	10/13/2010
Scott	Even endowed a virgin need not be injured to release her virginity long	8/10/2010
sara	My question is when is a man satisified?or what are the signs that he is	8/3/2010
Scooter11	What men want is a steady turnover of sweet young hotties that are willing. That fact - and that most men are ugly ape-like creatures - has created our monitary system, global division, and propelled us into space.	7/18/2010
jeebus	An interesting perspective but somewhat narrower in focus than the title of the article suggests. Where the article falls down is that it includes assumptions that men as a whole fall into a few different types with particular inclinations. There are statements that one man stated " it was most important for men to experience the first bout of sex with a virgin". Do all men believe this? No. And why use the word "bout"? Is sex a violent contact sport? Perhaps the writer believes that, for most men, it is. Wrong. If you gain anything from a survey of "wild sex" (whatever that is), please use standard survey and analysis techniques, and make a report that represents it honestly. Do ninety four percent of men prefer "animated sex" whatever that is? Do they believe that drugs are important? Is sex a beast-like affair? Merely a release of tension? Can men not understand images? Are they the ravenous beasts that are portrayed in this article? No. Without going further, this article is a bigoted rant against a particular kind of man that might, or might not, have been encountered by the writer. Before writing this article, the writer should have got out more, or attended college and discovered how to write articles. Or, preferably, both.	5/24/2010
Spokesman	Please dont pay attention to things like this. They arent accurate at all, and far too generalized or focussed on the swinger crowd. If you want to know what a man wants, ask him. Try different things and see what he responds to. Also, express what you want as well, and be quicker to guide than to dismiss failed attempts to satisfy. Chances are any guy would be happy to oblige, and can only improve with the right stimulus.	5/20/2010
Will	Oh and for your information, many studies have shown men to have higher spatial awareness and ability to visualise form.	12/1/2009
Will	I find this highly insulting to men. You imply that men are just brainless, thoughtless animals and it comes across as if you are insecure in your sex. 'all men are trained in the practical things like making a tree house or fixing the house' where as the woman is the genetically predisposed poet etc... I suppose the fact that 80% of great writers and poets are male is lost on you? I would like to see a man write an article like this and see how the women would react...	12/1/2009
jay-r	Very well	11/6/2009
tanha	ch ch ... i can say nothing more than that lolzzz ...	10/18/2009
sweety pie	it was fantastic n i cud relate maself to it good job	10/6/2009
scorpio	not always yo its a spiritual thang 4 me	8/12/2009
bob	very true.	5/21/2009
reema	truee	5/17/2009
Harvey	STRANGE...	4/12/2009
Ashish Kaushik	Superb thoughts...	2/19/2009
stacy d	this stuff is great and its so true	9/29/2008
Gary	Wow, I don't know what experiences you have had in life, but your views on men are ridiculous. Can you stereotype men any more than you do here? Your views are very shallow. To picture how ridiculous your "argument" is, imagine a man making similar charges against women--you would probably think he was an idiot. That is pretty much what I think about you after reading this. You are doing yourself a disservice; take some time and consider the issue as objectively as you can. This rant is worthless if you are trying to start any real (mature) conversation about the desires of men. I feel sorry that you feel like this; it is sad. Also, you are reinforcing myths about both men and women and you are doing disservice to women also with this.	8/2/2008
David	You are insane.	8/2/2008
Troy	This lady sounds like she never met a real man before...I feel sorry for her. I don't think it is fare to all the good men out there to say those bad things about us.	11/7/2006
Ben	I agree with some of the things you write, but you are off on other of the generalizations. Men are as different from each other as women are, and in truth I think match well for those who know how to find the qualities they are looking for. Many men like to watch, many women like to be watched. But also many men prefer emotional connection with women, just like women do, while some women are very visually stimulated as well. I don't think it can be said that men or women are worse than each other, but in a world focused on sex it is not many men and women who spend much time to try to understand eachother. Women complain that many men don't take the time to understand and get to know them, but in truth women are equally bad at this. As much as it is true that men and women are very different, it is equally true that their is an equal match in how good and understanding different men and women are. To ask what men want in general you would have to go down in very deep basics, such as knowledge, power, happiness and ability etc But with regards to what we look for in sex and women, we are at least as different from women. I for one do not like the idea of multiple sex partners, nor the idea of blood or a women in pain doing sex. I would prefer a virgin, but this so because I recognize the importance of trust and respect in a deep lasting relationship and a person who has given sex with little resistance is likely to be capable of doing so again in later stages of a relationship. So the emotional and intellectual part of a relationship is huge to me, as it is to many other men.	10/12/2006
Andy	You sound confused and inexperienced. These are not men you speak of. How can you discern that which you do not understand? Try again!	9/9/2006
Thabisa	I think man are so confused they get the best but they so quick to spoil it and I want to know how do get him to be yours alone and for him to belong to you and no one else,	9/1/2006
	not all men are alike!..are you all hard core feminist lesbians?lol you have to know what you want from a man to get him to treat you the way you want to be treated.	12/13/2004
jmf	I think most men are just perverted and the women who give it such perversion are just as bad.	12/10/2004
FEd	I tell you what I think-while understand what the men are saying in this article-I still think they don't have CLUE about how to please a woman. It's all abouth "HIM" and what he wants, which in my oppinion is a turn off to a lot women	12/10/2004

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