What do men want?

Men are always accused of being prey to some things they just don’t have any control over. They are termed as demanding, bossy, egoistic and even clumsy especially when it comes to sex.
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Will Oh and for your information, many studies have shown men to have higher spatial awareness and ability to visualise form. 12/1/2009
Will I find this highly insulting to men. You imply that men are just brainless, thoughtless animals and it comes across as if you are insecure in your sex. 'all men are trained in the practical things like making a tree house or fixing the house' where as the woman is the genetically predisposed poet etc... I suppose the fact that 80% of great writers and poets are male is lost on you?

I would like to see a man write an article like this and see how the women would react...
12/1/2009
jay-r Very well 11/6/2009
tanha ch ch ... i can say nothing more than that lolzzz ... 10/18/2009
sweety pie it was fantastic n i cud relate maself to it
good job
10/6/2009
scorpio not always yo
its a spiritual thang 4 me
8/12/2009
bob very true. 5/21/2009
reema truee 5/17/2009
Harvey STRANGE... 4/12/2009
Ashish Kaushik Superb thoughts... 2/19/2009
stacy d this stuff is great and its so true 9/29/2008
Gary Wow, I don't know what experiences you have had in life, but your views on men are ridiculous. Can you stereotype men any more than you do here? Your views are very shallow. To picture how ridiculous your "argument" is, imagine a man making similar charges against women--you would probably think he was an idiot. That is pretty much what I think about you after reading this. You are doing yourself a disservice; take some time and consider the issue as objectively as you can. This rant is worthless if you are trying to start any real (mature) conversation about the desires of men. I feel sorry that you feel like this; it is sad. Also, you are reinforcing myths about both men and women and you are doing disservice to women also with this. 8/2/2008
David You are insane. 8/2/2008
Troy This lady sounds like she never met a real man before...I feel sorry for her. I don't think it is fare to all the good men out there to say those bad things about us. 11/7/2006
Ben I agree with some of the things you write, but you are off on other of the generalizations. Men are as different from each other as women are, and in truth I think match well for those who know how to find the qualities they are looking for. Many men like to watch, many women like to be watched. But also many men prefer emotional connection with women, just like women do, while some women are very visually stimulated as well.
I don't think it can be said that men or women are worse than each other, but in a world focused on sex it is not many men and women who spend much time to try to understand eachother. Women complain that many men don't take the time to understand and get to know them, but in truth women are equally bad at this.
As much as it is true that men and women are very different, it is equally true that their is an equal match in how good and understanding different men and women are.
To ask what men want in general you would have to go down in very deep basics, such as knowledge, power, happiness and ability etc
But with regards to what we look for in sex and women, we are at least as different from women.
I for one do not like the idea of multiple sex partners, nor the idea of blood or a women in pain doing sex.
I would prefer a virgin, but this so because I recognize the importance of trust and respect in a deep lasting relationship and a person who has given sex with little resistance is likely to be capable of doing so again in later stages of a relationship. So the emotional and intellectual part of a relationship is huge to me, as it is to many other men.
10/12/2006
Andy You sound confused and inexperienced. These are not men you speak of. How can you discern that which you do not understand? Try again! 9/9/2006
Thabisa I think man are so confused they get the best but they so quick to spoil it and I want to know how do get him to be yours alone and for him to belong to you and no one else, 9/1/2006
rouge not all men are alike!..are you all hard core feminist lesbians?lol you have to know what you want from a man to get him to treat you the way you want to be treated. 12/13/2004
jmf I think most men are just perverted and the women who give it such perversion are just as bad. 12/10/2004
FEd I tell you what I think-while understand what the men are saying in this article-I still think they don't have CLUE about how to please a woman. It's all abouth "HIM" and what he wants, which in my oppinion is a turn off to a lot women 12/10/2004
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