First Time Sex

You may be having lots of questions in your mind, especially the first time you are going to have sexual intercourse. You may feel uncomfortable about how you look without your clothes on. It's natural to feel some fears but good communication is the key. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner who is also probably feeling the same will ease the stress.
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URSHER im 13 and i tried to have sex with my girlfriend but i couldn't get my penis into her vagina what should i do next time to assure i can get it in to her? 12/16/2004
zarina me n my boyfriend were gona have sex but evertime he tried he couldant put his penis in .so he tried to finger me to see if that would help but nothing .can u help me n tell me wat the best think is to do to make it easer on both of us.n can u tell me is it gona hurt really bad n how long will a bleed for...!!! 12/15/2004
DBELP for the girls :it hurts a little and it bleeds 12/14/2004
nikki Michelle if ur asking how u do it all u have to do is relax but dont rush into things if ur not ready u will b tense and it may hurt more.Have u got a steady partner? 12/14/2004
Michelle where and how do we do it? 12/13/2004
Nikki Hi for all u first timers out there.I was really scared on my first time.I dont have a bf so when i went out clubbin one night i ended up having a one night stand(not a very nice way to loose your virginity) i was very drunk and it hurt very much and didnt stop bleeding intill the next day and i didnt use a condom or anything. my advice is dont jump into bed with just anyone wait intill its the rite time 12/13/2004
melissa I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend just had sex last night. He couldnt enter inside me and when he did it hurt soooo bad!!! Afterwards, when I had to pee, it hurt. I woke up this morning with brusises on my legs and I was all tired today. Is this normal? 12/11/2004
star seeker I am afraid that doing it still hurt my girlfriend. we have done it so far a couple of times. but afterward, shen she passes to the toilet, it hurts her. do you think she should visit a doctor? or is it normal? 12/10/2004
born to be wild you will only enjoy doing it, if you chose the right time; when emotions are involved 12/10/2004
marina does sex hurt the first time? 12/7/2004
someone when u first have sex do u bleed cuz i nedd to know before tonight

 12/7/2004
some one afraid my stomach is a little.......... big but i still look skinny and iam about to have sex i think so whut should i do maybe i wont turn my partner on so plz whut should i do to get over my fears
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sOME ONE cONCerned		 12/7/2004
tjspassion Hi Jessi!
As I said before, it's very important to use a good lubricant, but I think it would be a very good idea to visit your local Family Planning Clinic or your personal Doctor, to make sure that there are no health concerns involved. You cannot be to cautious, when it comes to this subject. Your Doctor can give you confidential advice, and make sure that you're healthy at the same time.		 12/7/2004
jessi I was wondering if there is anything that I could do to make sex not hurt as bad. I have had it a few time and it hurts...what should I do? 12/6/2004
tjspassion Yes, first time intercourse does feel very uncomfortable. Just make sure that you do use a good lubricant, and not KY Jelly. That is for pap-smears and other uncomfortable stuff at the doctor. You also have to be careful to get something that is specified as a lubricant, as some things could possibly cause an infection, if not meant for this purpose. 12/5/2004
amber does sex hurt the first time 12/5/2004
tjspassion You definitely need to use a good lubricant, preferably water-based, during intercourse. It will help for the first time, and it also sensitizes the area, to increase arousal. I also carry products, that are unisex, that increase arousal by bringing blood flow to the genitalia, and they contain and increase the chemical that your body produces naturally, to arouse you, and make you orgasm. It is also great for women who have had hysterectomies, and can't lubricate naturally. 12/5/2004
Msconfused Hey, me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time but his penis wouldn't go into my vagina it kept sliding out. What should i do to fix this problem? 12/2/2004
carla i just had my first time sex with a guy i know for almost 12 years and i was a virgin still at the age of 27 but i didn't know what to do that night at all, now what can i do i have not seen him since then........please give me advise! 12/2/2004
kyra How long does sex for the first time hurt? Do you bleed long? 12/1/2004
Suny I have a girl friend, and i want to sex with her. she also want sex with me, but she is only 13 years and she is virgin, Can u tell me how i can enter inside her first time? 12/1/2004
Amanda Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex the other night. It was going to be the first time for the both of us. But when we got to it, he couldnt get his penis inside of me. What should I do? 11/29/2004
Nana how bad dose it hurt? how long do you bleed for? 11/18/2004
Frenchy Me and My boyfriend have triend several times to have sex but every time he enters me it hursts alot!! Am I just going to have to fight through the pain and put up with it or is there something I can do to make it less painful? 11/17/2004
satish how to test weather the girl is vergin or not? 11/16/2004
Shy I have been talking to this guy for a while and our realtonship is awesome we have so much in common its scary i think im ready to have sex with him but im scared ill do something wrong! what should i do 11/16/2004
chopra can u show me pitures how to do it 11/14/2004
Bunnie I am not turned on by my boyfriend's small penis. I thought I loved him but now I am not so sure. Will it grow? 11/9/2004
destiny davis does it hurt the first time 11/5/2004
babyc if i'm going to have sex with someone what if I get too nervous and his penis cannot enter my vagina and what should i do when it enters and it's hurting me? 11/3/2004
play can u show me pitures how to do it 11/3/2004
lazyman i have never had sex but my gf wants to can i see some picturs of were to insert my penis and were tha sperm comes out 10/31/2004
somerandomgirl My boyfriend and I recently tried to have sex for the first time, but, like silky, penetration wouldn't happen, we couldn't do it, plus it really hurt me. We tried again and although we managed it this time, it really hurt, and it didn't feel good at all for me, only for my boyfriend. I'm confused, is this meant to happen...? Can anyone offer any advice?
Thanks		 10/30/2004
rizwan do all the women reach orgasim? 10/28/2004
Al I am making my first time making love special is that ok? 10/26/2004
Unanomous Ive never had sex for the first time so tell me everything i need to know how it goes and what i do, and can u get pregnant if u have sex for the first time is that possible 10/19/2004
ushha do you bleed the first time u have sex and if you do, is it right away? 10/16/2004
Tasharra How long can a boy's penis grow ? 10/16/2004
Lindsay What pain is there .. If any ...and .. is there any blood ... ive heard there was i was ??? 10/14/2004
tim what to do? 10/12/2004
bubba what position is the best for first time sex? 10/10/2004
LaToya I can't stop thinking about sex its in my mind and it won't go out how can i resist having sex 10/4/2004
katy CAN ANYONE HELP?
ON THE FIRST TIME WHAT SHOULD I DO JUST LAY THERE OR WHAT IM WORRIED!!!		 10/2/2004
Jane Does the male know when hes breaking the females hymen?
Can someone please help!		 10/2/2004
INA247STAR WHAT POSITONS SHOUL YOU HAVE SEX IN IN ORDER TO HAVE AN ORGASIM FOR THE FEMALE?
 9/29/2004
UNANAMOUS DOES THE BOU HAVE TO BE LIKE ROCK HARD BEFORE HE ENTERS YOU? 9/29/2004
Erika Do you bleed the first time you have sex? 9/20/2004
mel I just had sex for the first time and i bleed. if i do it again will i bleed again? and should i wait a certain amount of time before i do it again? 9/7/2004
Jane If your female and your a virgin does the male who has had experience know that you are a virgin when you the female are having sex for the first time? I quess what im trying to say is does he know he is breaking the hymen? 9/7/2004
Brooke But the aftermath..you bleed yes, but the second time should you bleed then too? because i did adn i don't know if its right 8/30/2004
Silky2004 we have been trying from quiet a longtime for penetration, but my vagina seems so tight, no matter how hard I try to relax, still it is impossible for my husband. Fingering also doesn't help. Now we are so frustrated by this that we don't have sex at all. I would need some suggestions to get myself aroused, as nothing helps me. We did try using KY jelly still will need more help. 8/28/2004
susie thank you for the sex advice...i found it very helpful.x 8/25/2004
amit i am new show me some pictures, where to insert penis & have baby 8/22/2004
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