First Time Sex

You may be having lots of questions in your mind, especially the first time you are going to have sexual intercourse. You may feel uncomfortable about how you look without your clothes on. It's natural to feel some fears but good communication is the key. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner who is also probably feeling the same will ease the stress.
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xkaka I maked sex like from the age of 6 with my uncle. I am 14 now and have 7 children and i am waiting for a triplets now i am already 8 months pregnat now . 7/26/2008
ms. help thats hawt. 0_0 4/19/2008
abigail sanders do all girls bleed first time having sex 4/18/2008
anonymous if you have sex for the first time. and you dont use a condom...but he does not cum inside of you can you still get pregnant? 3/30/2008
JAMIE wHATS THE BEST SEX POSITION CAN ANY BODY TELL ME AND EX. TO ME PLEACE
2/16/2008
JAMIE DOES EVERY GIRL BLEED IN FIRST TIME SEX 2/16/2008
.david Nude 10/28/2007
lee thanks man i feel a bit less nervous about the whole thing 9/16/2007
francis I was fearing to ask for that but now you helped me to gain carage to face her and say it out it is my fast time.Thankyou 8/20/2007
preet iam getting married in next month.i think he also doen;t know abt sex.he is so simpleand always keep quiet.iam very nervous right know .he is too shy to talk with me.what will happened after month .i don;t know 7/18/2007
twirly girly can someone help me? please!!?!? 7/4/2007
twirly girly i have a serious cheating problem what do i do 6/25/2007
bang bang Im 12 and my c0cks 6 inches long......;D, I lost my virginity a cupple of months ago w00000tt!! BANGGEDD A HOTT GIRL :D 4/16/2007
usuck fcuking bull shiet, grab the gurl, PUT UR c0ck INSIDE HER AND GO BACK AND FORTH! EZ!! 4/16/2007
sanjan thanks man 2/28/2007
sex king man i look like snoop dog and i have so many thing i want to do with women but i need help how do you do 12 at once
2/23/2007
payman the film photo ferst time sex 1/6/2007
virgin girl I'm 13 and I'm not ready 4 sex yet, but a lot of boys like me and they ask me 2 have sex with them and I refuse, but I have a boyfriend and he wants to have sex with me but he says that if I don't want 2 do it he will wait.. So all of u young girls should find a boyfriend that loves you enough 2 support your decision and wait... 1/4/2007
d why don't you just show people's stories? 1/3/2007
Deezy hey everyone I want to know what should I do about my gf shes a virgin n I knoe she is going to bleed but I don't want blood all over my bed. Any suggestions? 12/30/2006
stephanie i think it is good that you have this because somepeople don't want there parents to know. but you have like are you scared to have sex but willing to take a risk for someone they luv 12/29/2006
toya how long will it itake to stop bleeding after your cherry is popped? 9/27/2006
ALEX how do u know if ur cherry is popped or not 9/8/2006
Inderjot Thanks for the help bhaisahib! 9/3/2006
jami like me and my boy/f..had sex 3 weeks ago we didnt use pertection and he came in me but im still a virgin cuz my cherry hasnt popped yet ...could i still be pregnant? 8/10/2006
alex okay..i have had sex over 6 times but in all those times my cherry neva popped ....y? i mean is sumthin' wrong? 8/10/2006
Elly Well the time me and my boyfriend had it for the first time, we foreplayed for about half and hour, and he was really patient and cared more about me, then when i was ready we did it and it was good. well surely it hurt when he began, at that point i thought of backing out, but then again we had already crossed the line.. but as we did it it felt good.. and after a point it started feeling really good.. so ya know u have to choose the right person for it who would value ur feelings.. Now we do it whenever and wherever possible :P 7/28/2006
sam lord woo lets have sex 7/13/2006
JustaGuy To Maya: I doubt your post is real. The vagina is very elastic. However, on the small chance it is real, there are two solutions; a gynecologist can perform an operation loosening your vagina; a less drastic solution is to buy a series of dildos in progessive sizes, from very small to average, and practice using them - a lot. Your vagina will over time stretch permanently to accommodate them. This will take patience, but will absolutely work. In the meantime, practice giving your man lots of good oral sex. This will make him much more patient. Good luck - that is if your post wasn't just a 17 year-old guy's prank. 7/1/2006
Maya we have been trying from quiet a longtime for penetration, but my vagina seems so tight, no matter how hard I try to relax, still it is impossible for my husband. Fingering also doesn't help. Now we are so frustrated by this that we don't have sex at all. I would need some suggestions to get myself aroused, as nothing helps me. We did try using KY jelly still will need more help.Plz Help !! 6/27/2006
jonsbaby are you still a vergin if someone doesnt pop you cherry??
and are there two cherrys they have to pop???cause thats what i herd?
6/26/2006
Angel My boyfriend came in me but im on birth control, will i get pregnant? 6/22/2006
issam some one told me that there will ne blood over the girl is that too much or a little and please if u can send me a pic of how much blood u will make me comfortable.... 6/17/2006
bABiMiLA X0 HII TEENS ARE NOT ABNORMAL JUST BECAUSE THEY DIDNT DECIDE TO WAIT UNTIL THEY WERE 16 OR MARRIED!! ITS OUR DECISION. DONT U THINK WE SPEND NIGHT AFTER NIGHT THINKIN BOUT IT? ME && MY bF HAVE DONE ALOT NOT YET SEX THOUGH..WERE THINKIN BOUT IT. IF YOU WANT TO DO IT...DO IT. MAKE SURE YOU WONT RESENT IT..BUT TRUST ME..WE ARENT THE ONLY TEENS 13-16 HAVING SEX. f THOSE WIT THEIR JUDGEMENTALNESS AND DO WAT YOU WANT. =]

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6/11/2006
LOL I want SEX so this was GREAT to read 5/27/2006
bob joe good.....i liked it 4/29/2006
joya hend*8/ Yeah this is an awesome website. Thanks for the good advise 4/28/2006
amanda after having sex as a virgin, when will you start to bleed?
4/23/2006
Kiran I have had sex 3yrs before for the 1st time,now i am getting married,just want to know will i bleed again. 3/27/2006
Erini My boyfriend is soo boring and lately he's been asking me to have sexual intercourse with him but im afraid i will fall asleep before i get a chance to climax, is this normal 2/27/2006
rose if i had sex two days befor my period is there a chance i could get pragnat still 2/4/2006
yea`man yea 2/1/2006
Suzzy When i had sex for the first time i didn't bleed is that normal? 1/29/2006
Elizabeth i didn't bleed the first time i had sex. Is that good?
1/29/2006
fayes im 23 and want to have sex but im so scared what do i do to overcome being scared 1/29/2006
jakejakejake w/e u had sex with yr cousin 50 times u immature gay, get a life and dont spoil this forum for people that use it correctly :@ 1/24/2006
Stop &Think WAIT! all of you idios should wait especialy if you are 13. it's the stupidist thing you can possibly do at that age. It wouldn't killyou to wait a few more years. 1/20/2006
fuck me more wen i wa having sex i was like hell tired but was still asking 4 more and he kept on grinding in to me and i was starting 2 bubble everywhere out of my vagina and i was hell horny still is it normal??????????
1/19/2006
sally can u get pregnant if your boyfriend inserts his penis a little bit into you and cums? 1/18/2006
nicky I love to make love with my boo and eat candy 1/18/2006
beksta i had sex wit my boyfwend n i waznt even scared 2 huv sex 1/18/2006
christina i had sex with my cousin n we had sex bout 50 time and im scared coz i will be preganncy and im always worried 1/18/2006
christina hi my name is christina n i had sex wit my cousin jamie n timmy wit ma 4 boiz dat are my cousin n im soo scared if i get pregnacy n i had sex wen i waz 12 yr old n now im 14 1/18/2006
tee i had sex three days befor my period can i be preganat 1/17/2006
louise the first time i had sex his penis wouldnt fit up y woz this 1/16/2006
TreyHoV You should just have sex don't think about the risk and have a lot of sex. If you think about it something bad will happen. Just do it 1/12/2006
J190 ok so i have been with my girl for almost a year know and we have done other stuff sexually...... we are talking about sex, shes older than me and already lost her virginity and I havent, this may sound weird but what do you do when the penis is in the vagina, is there a certain place it goes and what do you do when its in there, do you jus go... in - out ect until u both wanna stop? 1/11/2006
jonjon how can i get us both relaxed and comfortable 12/31/2005
NiteFOxx how to do it right the first time ? 12/29/2005
lindsey when you have sex and you start bleeding will it be really bad? 12/28/2005
suga thanks tonight im going to have sex.
12/26/2005
sally my tampon is stuck should i go to a docter and they get it out
12/16/2005
Shel ive just strared going out with this lad, who is great, he knows that i havent had sex befor but his 17 birthday is coming up and i realy wanner sleep with him but im scared. he knows me realy well and i think i love him but im not sure wot to do. HELP?? 12/15/2005
J!z0hn I Just had sex with my gf and she started bleeding afta i started to pound on her real hard is that ok. 12/12/2005
sarah why do u bleed and get itchy after havin sex 12/6/2005
Lilly its qreat* 11/3/2005
rebecca why do u bleed wen u have sex 11/2/2005
rebecca can you have sex while having your period 11/2/2005
Beonca I think you should atleast wait until your old enough or better yet wait until you are married. You don't want to give your husband or wife a bad report about your history and tell them that you have been with more than five different people. But if you decide you don't want to wait for those things make sure that you sleep with someone you trust. No matter what always use protection because no one is going to just come out and tell you that they have an contagious disease. Also even if the girl tells you that she's on birth-control you still need to use one because they are not always safe 11/1/2005
karissa do u have any videos on how to kiss a guy 10/12/2005
ass it was so so cool have sex WITH NO BODY!!!!
lol HA HA HA
10/7/2005
little angel. I just got back with my boy friend I have my heart set on him and he said the same for me but he did not seem interrested in getting back with me until I told him about a guy I am only talking to at school so i do not know I want to feel like he is with me because he loves me because the lord knows I love him but all and all I do not know what to do. i am 19 and am turning 20 soon and sm still a virgin but he is not, we have already done his testing for all the desises that you can get but I am just confused, I know I will not feel comfrotable doing anything like that with anyone else because I have know him the longest, I am just praying it works out this time. 9/15/2005
caracara56 I would like to know why there are no blood coming out. My boyfriend did make love you 3 girls and all of them have blood. What is the difference?
Why is that so?
I feel kind of weird too and feel sad about this.
Anything wrong with my first time?
9/9/2005
confused i had sex 4 the first time, and now it hurts to put in a tampon. before, it never hurt. whats wrong with me? is that normal or do i need to see a doctor? 9/6/2005
james i need advise on first time sex with a virgin, i meet a girl who was a virgin of 17, i had sexual intercourse with a condom, before i put the condom on, i tried it without a condom first, not full intercoursed i just wanted to ask, is it possible for her to get pregant? before she started to bleed.
9/3/2005
jimmy can a virgin get pregnant the first time they have sex with no condom 9/3/2005
ThatCandyGirl I need advice. Well there's this guy that likes me, and I like him. And we've been flirting a lot or whatever, and he wants to have sex with me and I want to have sex with him and I'm a virgin. However, we've only really been talking but 2 months and I don't know if I should wait or just get it over with. I'm like really baffled, because I do want to, but I don't know if it is too soon. But then again, I feel that time is of the essence and I can't put a time limit on it. Ugh, I don't know. Maybe I should just continue to think things through and weigh out the different pros and cons. 9/1/2005
Love I had sex for the first time and It felt great I
It does hurt a lot in the beginning but later it gets easier. I didn't bleed at all during the first time of sex, is that normal? I'm concerned. I have a hard time to reach orgasm, it seems impossible. Can you tell me anything to help this? Thanks
9/1/2005
Sarah Iam a girl and aim 22 years old and after a month i'm getting married, and iam realy afraid of first time sex what should i do is it realy difficult for the first time? 8/28/2005
little angel This message is 4 confused sxc ga
GIRL& all the other boys & girls sex is what it is sex you all need to find something else to be curious about because it could lead to STD's and Pregnancy if ur older than 13 years old and you don't know what u want to be when u r older or which college to go to how EXACLY r u going to make a big decision like loosing ur viginity think about it dont feel pressured by anyone cause these days there is HIV and once u get that u will never get to do it again like i said THINK ABOUT IT i'm sure if u wait untill u're secure and able to pay your own bills whatever happens u can be able to deal with it trust me I KNOW.
8/22/2005
Roberto Ibale I had sex with my sister stephanie and I felt up Vivian my cousin in my room. It was so great but I like my sister now, how do I stop this? 8/21/2005
jimboicecream i have a question. how much does penis size matter pain and pleasure wise? 8/20/2005
kho how to relax first time? wat to do? 8/18/2005
CARILONA WHERE DO I GO FOR AN ANSWER ACCORDING TO THE QUESTION THAT IF A GIRL BLEEDS ALOT OR A LITTLE ON HER FIRST TIME CUZ I REALLY WANT TO DO IT BUT IM REALLY SCARED TOO CUZ IM GONNA BLEED AND IM A VIRGIN CAN SOMEBODY GIVE A WEB SITE OR SOMETHING. I DONT KNOW HOW TO FIND OUT
8/9/2005
JOANA WELL NOW THAT IM READING THIS I FEEL MORE SECURE ABOUT MYSELF AND ABOUT DOING IT TOO BUT EVERYBODY TELLS ME THAT FOR A VIRGIN ON HER FIRST TIME SHE BLEEDS AND IM NOT SURE IF IS A LOT OR JUST LIKE LITTLE DROPS I REALLY WANT TO KNOW CAN SOMEBODY ANSWER THAT BECAUSE THATS WHAT KEEPING ME FROM DOING IT. 8/9/2005
curious whats the best position for tha first time 8/8/2005
KnockyourJANK OK. Let me clear this up. It really does NOT hurt that bad the first time, the key is RELAX. RELAX RELAX. If you relax, you loosen up and it goes in sooo much easier. I bled a little bit, which is normal, and I noticed that when I sat down for the next couple days, I could kinda feel a little pain. But, its gone now and I'm fine. But I HAVE A QUESTION. Ok, I only had sex once (about 2 weeks ago) and it was my first time. Before, when I put tampons in, it slid in and I was a little tight around there. Just today, I put a tampon in. I put it in, and it kinda fell out while I was entering the tampon in me..like i felt a lot "looser" down there. Is that just because I had sex and I broke my hymen..or does it mean I'm like really "wide?" (I hope not!) PLEASE answer back and give me a mature answer..thanks! 7/26/2005
Sara Im scared that if i have sex i will start to bleed is this true?
7/24/2005
Sara Everytime that i have i sex afterwards a whit creamy substance comes out of my vagina.Does that mean that i have cum or not ? 7/24/2005
Hurt Im 16 and have a 10 month old baby boy called leo.Me and my boyfriend have just broke up and im scared that he'll want to take leo off me.Is it true that the mother can decide wether to keep the baby beacause she gave birth or is that wrong ????? 7/24/2005
Worried Im 15 and have had sex a couple of times with my 15 year old boyfriend.My mum and dad werent happy.Ihave now found out that i may be pregnant.Ijust want to tell everyone to take precautions and to wait till your 16 to have sex !!!!! 7/24/2005
Lucy The first time sex isnt as good as later on in life.As the man slowly inserts the penis into your vagina it hurts a bit but soon gets more pleasurable.Everyone have fun ! 7/24/2005
Man Wow! Mahendra, interesting that you remember the date you had it first time. I don't remember the date I had first time sex, the year was 1990 ... or probably 1991 I guess.
Anyone here remember their dates? Post them!
7/24/2005
mahendra i am 34 year old first time sex 22feb. 1992. 11pm 16 year old girl 7/24/2005
briana i just wanted to kno if it really hurts the first time 7/18/2005
Rose do you have to bleed the first time you have sex? 7/13/2005
jane im cant what 2 have sex i have not had sex be four im wourd what it be like. 7/10/2005
x__romance i'm 13 && i've had sex with my boyfriend [of almost 10 months] we've done it a lot. && to everyone who is soo worried about it. well your vagina does hurt. and you DO bleed. but it'll go away the next day. after having sex a few more times it doesn't hurt or bleed anymore. just don't go having sex right after you've done it for the first time. it'll literally kill your vagina. 7/8/2005
mrs.whitaker what happen to your body when only done it one time and you are a female and its been 2 years ago? do your hole close up ? 6/29/2005
BabeFace I have had sex now more then once.. and I just did today.. and Now I am bleeding.. is that normal? 6/29/2005
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