First Time Sex

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LIZZY I LOVE THAT 2/14/2012
gotsha sex is for matured enough, certainly married couples. i dont believed for samples okay, if your doing it a game absolutely you regret it later. For marriage an achievement. pleasures a lifetime not 4tester. therefore before you even think of marriage, think about responsibilities first. it needs capital before profits comes. hopefully this comments helps the youngster not easily put their thinking about sex. You GOOD parents should be your model for who you are when you grown-up, so learn to be a good parent before you end your consicoences.(SEX?) 2/2/2012
veelicious gud advices, i just hope that our youth can read more of this to get clarity about love and sex... 9/14/2011
Ruth sex is more pleasurable in marriage. Trust me, its worth waiting 4 4/24/2011
M D ABOUT THE FOUNDATION OF GIVING BIRTH 3/14/2011
someone to no hi want to no if its going to hurt and if u going to bleed and if so how log wuld it be 2/14/2011
gboyex i felt bad 2/10/2011
Mapis Endege Excellent stuff 12/12/2010
mulu very important for me 11/23/2010
hey omg i just want to kno wif you cn get pregnat on your first time! 11/19/2010
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lebo well nice tips.bt does it hurt? 10/27/2010
Kenneth Thank You Dhan. I had my first sex yesterday and it was a total failure. I was embarrassed before my girl. I think I know what to do now. 8/3/2010
crystal hey guys, so i just had sex with my boyfriend of 5 months yesturday he was real considerate and the whole time he kept asking if i was alright and if it hurt, he used a condom and pulled out before he finished except im still alittle bit worried i could be pregnant. he keeps reassuring me that theres no way i am but i cant help but think am i? 7/7/2010
Rita I like your advice its really educating and i have learn alot from it. You know am a girl of 21 years and am still a virgin.i have a boy friend who i find difficult to visit because am shy and afraid to do it but wit what i have read i think i have summon courage for it. 6/28/2010
k.k love relationship create sex 6/10/2010
british im 18 and my man is 22 he is ready for me to go ahead and give it up. i cant because im [so confuse on the differences about it .wat i mean is telling the full truth about himself and giving me a good reason why i should go ahead and face the painful feeling im about to feel before doing it. i want to ask anyone out there can you tell me how to avoid the pain and just let loose of it all 6/2/2010
hannah so u say it hurts. the fisrt time i had sex it did yes but it depends if ur body is ready (im 18) 4/14/2010
Thelma I hv learnt alot thanks 4/12/2010
alex need it now 4/10/2010
LoKis yall need a life sex is not a game is good but only when you are with the right person im 18 and i regreat losing it to the guy i lost it to im with a wonderful guy right now and i wish i would of lost it to him so do some homework and dont worry about sex ... 3/19/2010
raghu kasam se kya bat hai bhai log mai kal hi sex karne wala hu
also so much $lat of thanx dear		 2/22/2010
Adam LeJeune just snuggling in his parents guest bed room after they had gone out to eat. he asked me to let his little dog out to pee. so i happily complied. i bent over and then as soon as the dog was out he tackled me at first i thought he was playining and then he held a knife to my kneck and told me if i screamed i wouldnt know what killed me then he tied me up and he pulled my pants down and he he he he he he did things to me and he did use protection or gel and now im bleeding out of my back and if i tell any 1 2/20/2010
Adam L hello im a 14 year old boy. i lost my viginity to a 15 year old girl when i was 4 and was abused when i was little by my mom, needless to say many women have hurt me in many ways, causing me to become a bisexual and later a secret homosexual. see it started in a trailer park when i was six, after i lost my virginity i was too scared to tell anyone and ever since then ive done it many times with people of both genders. with my permission. but what just happened, it was horrible. see my bf and i we we were 2/20/2010
Mj When I lost my virginity it wad easily the worst pain of my life . And I bled for two days after . Just make sure it's what you really want , cause once it's gone that's it . 2/10/2010
krista I want better and most important longer sex from my second bf , suggestions? 2/4/2010
emilyyy tomorrow im planning on taking another step with my boyfriend and im 14 and my bf is 13 but im kinda scared. but i dont wanna bleed or anything can you please help me and tell me whats gonna happen! 1/26/2010
lynne who ever that 11 year old girl is , really shouldnt be having sex at all , come on girl your a 11 and believe me any guy who 4 years older then you doesnt really care about you hes in his hormone stage, and i think you should really wait till your older, when its more special .because ive been there done that , well not at your age of course 12/1/2009
damnn the frist time i hade sex i bleed i hade 2 time that night then next time the other night dont do that it hurt a lot 11/22/2009
somebody ok so im kinda freaked out by this bleeding thing...when you first have sex do u bleed like while doing it or just after? 11/8/2009
samanta actually i have never had sex before but i think that is right anyway. 8/13/2009
Hilary That small but endless hole makes life sweet 8/10/2009
Eladio Its fine and dandy for you girls but What about me, Im a boy and the guy thts going to do me's got a monster? 7/1/2009
chiquita i am 11 yrs old&i qoin to lose it on a 15 yr old boy & this well help i guess?! 5/19/2009
drew dose it hurt the first time for guys 5/15/2009
LOVE DOCTOR YES YOU CAN JIMMY 4/29/2009
neel its such a gud information 4everyone 4/27/2009
sylvester how right is it when you have sex for the first time at the age of 15yo with a girl 3y older,with the intercourse being her initiative but with you getting aroused when she gets her clothes off?well,you did get pleasure and felt no shame or regrets afterwards but it was one single intercourse so kind of a one-night stand...not that nice and moral,if you ask me... 4/15/2009
waqar lan per voo nahi cahtt what problam 4/12/2009
ashley first time it really hurt i never have sex i think is really earth for me 4/1/2009
Courtney .This advise really helped me I wasn't embarassed at all. My bf liked the experience to. We both couldn't stop licking, kissing, & touching each other. 3/28/2009
Hearts im 19 and a virgin. i know enough to know im not ready to have sex. my sister is going on 20 and has two kids. i love her to death but i think shes to young and i know people who were having sex WAY before they were ready and now they have a kid. i think people should understand what they are getting in to. if you dont what to get pregnant then dont have sex or if you do be REALLY careful. and if your under 16 you should NOT be have sex your still a kid yourself.

so that brings me to my questions. how well i know when its the right time to have sex? how well i know when its the right person to have sex with?		 3/4/2009
Caroline it's very nice site.I've really found many interesting articles in this site.Good Luck to all people who work on this site.Thank you very very much.You really help people)))) 2/21/2009
michelle well a 16 and am waiting for the right time. 2/19/2009
rory i agree on the tips 2/19/2009
martha well im 15 years old and i recently lost my virginity. i have always told my self i was going to wait for the right time but i may sound young but its not old you are, i think its about your maturinity stage and be mentally prepare to make such a decision. while attempting this with my partner we couldnt insert his penis into my vagina. after a while we both just loosen up and well we did it. for the women that think that after having sex would you bleed. well it depend on the person . i did not as much as taught.
good luck to everyone who want to try this expiriance		 2/15/2009
love Wait till u r matured enough 2 take decision for a sex otherwise it may hurt u in future 12/7/2008
sam Truly awesome 12/7/2008
ash Thanks m getting married soon. and your information is useful for me. 9/19/2008
xkaka I maked sex like from the age of 6 with my uncle. I am 14 now and have 7 children and i am waiting for a triplets now i am already 8 months pregnat now . 7/26/2008
ms. help thats hawt. 0_0 4/19/2008
abigail sanders do all girls bleed first time having sex 4/18/2008
anonymous if you have sex for the first time. and you dont use a condom...but he does not cum inside of you can you still get pregnant? 3/30/2008
JAMIE wHATS THE BEST SEX POSITION CAN ANY BODY TELL ME AND EX. TO ME PLEACE
 2/16/2008
JAMIE DOES EVERY GIRL BLEED IN FIRST TIME SEX 2/16/2008
.david Nude 10/28/2007
lee thanks man i feel a bit less nervous about the whole thing 9/16/2007
francis I was fearing to ask for that but now you helped me to gain carage to face her and say it out it is my fast time.Thankyou 8/20/2007
preet iam getting married in next month.i think he also doen;t know abt sex.he is so simpleand always keep quiet.iam very nervous right know .he is too shy to talk with me.what will happened after month .i don;t know 7/18/2007
twirly girly can someone help me? please!!?!? 7/4/2007
twirly girly i have a serious cheating problem what do i do 6/25/2007
bang bang Im 12 and my c0cks 6 inches long......;D, I lost my virginity a cupple of months ago w00000tt!! BANGGEDD A HOTT GIRL :D 4/16/2007
usuck fcuking bull shiet, grab the gurl, PUT UR c0ck INSIDE HER AND GO BACK AND FORTH! EZ!! 4/16/2007
sanjan thanks man 2/28/2007
sex king man i look like snoop dog and i have so many thing i want to do with women but i need help how do you do 12 at once
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payman the film photo ferst time sex 1/6/2007
virgin girl I'm 13 and I'm not ready 4 sex yet, but a lot of boys like me and they ask me 2 have sex with them and I refuse, but I have a boyfriend and he wants to have sex with me but he says that if I don't want 2 do it he will wait.. So all of u young girls should find a boyfriend that loves you enough 2 support your decision and wait... 1/4/2007
d why don't you just show people's stories? 1/3/2007
Deezy hey everyone I want to know what should I do about my gf shes a virgin n I knoe she is going to bleed but I don't want blood all over my bed. Any suggestions? 12/30/2006
stephanie i think it is good that you have this because somepeople don't want there parents to know. but you have like are you scared to have sex but willing to take a risk for someone they luv 12/29/2006
toya how long will it itake to stop bleeding after your cherry is popped? 9/27/2006
ALEX how do u know if ur cherry is popped or not 9/8/2006
Inderjot Thanks for the help bhaisahib! 9/3/2006
jami like me and my boy/f..had sex 3 weeks ago we didnt use pertection and he came in me but im still a virgin cuz my cherry hasnt popped yet ...could i still be pregnant? 8/10/2006
alex okay..i have had sex over 6 times but in all those times my cherry neva popped ....y? i mean is sumthin' wrong? 8/10/2006
Elly Well the time me and my boyfriend had it for the first time, we foreplayed for about half and hour, and he was really patient and cared more about me, then when i was ready we did it and it was good. well surely it hurt when he began, at that point i thought of backing out, but then again we had already crossed the line.. but as we did it it felt good.. and after a point it started feeling really good.. so ya know u have to choose the right person for it who would value ur feelings.. Now we do it whenever and wherever possible :P 7/28/2006
sam lord woo lets have sex 7/13/2006
JustaGuy To Maya: I doubt your post is real. The vagina is very elastic. However, on the small chance it is real, there are two solutions; a gynecologist can perform an operation loosening your vagina; a less drastic solution is to buy a series of dildos in progessive sizes, from very small to average, and practice using them - a lot. Your vagina will over time stretch permanently to accommodate them. This will take patience, but will absolutely work. In the meantime, practice giving your man lots of good oral sex. This will make him much more patient. Good luck - that is if your post wasn't just a 17 year-old guy's prank. 7/1/2006
Maya we have been trying from quiet a longtime for penetration, but my vagina seems so tight, no matter how hard I try to relax, still it is impossible for my husband. Fingering also doesn't help. Now we are so frustrated by this that we don't have sex at all. I would need some suggestions to get myself aroused, as nothing helps me. We did try using KY jelly still will need more help.Plz Help !! 6/27/2006
jonsbaby are you still a vergin if someone doesnt pop you cherry??
and are there two cherrys they have to pop???cause thats what i herd?		 6/26/2006
Angel My boyfriend came in me but im on birth control, will i get pregnant? 6/22/2006
issam some one told me that there will ne blood over the girl is that too much or a little and please if u can send me a pic of how much blood u will make me comfortable.... 6/17/2006
bABiMiLA X0 HII TEENS ARE NOT ABNORMAL JUST BECAUSE THEY DIDNT DECIDE TO WAIT UNTIL THEY WERE 16 OR MARRIED!! ITS OUR DECISION. DONT U THINK WE SPEND NIGHT AFTER NIGHT THINKIN BOUT IT? ME && MY bF HAVE DONE ALOT NOT YET SEX THOUGH..WERE THINKIN BOUT IT. IF YOU WANT TO DO IT...DO IT. MAKE SURE YOU WONT RESENT IT..BUT TRUST ME..WE ARENT THE ONLY TEENS 13-16 HAVING SEX. f THOSE WIT THEIR JUDGEMENTALNESS AND DO WAT YOU WANT. =]

IF ANYBODY WANTS TO TALK IM ME AT XSXiiMNMSX		 6/11/2006
LOL I want SEX so this was GREAT to read 5/27/2006
bob joe good.....i liked it 4/29/2006
joya hend*8/ Yeah this is an awesome website. Thanks for the good advise 4/28/2006
amanda after having sex as a virgin, when will you start to bleed?
 4/23/2006
Kiran I have had sex 3yrs before for the 1st time,now i am getting married,just want to know will i bleed again. 3/27/2006
Erini My boyfriend is soo boring and lately he's been asking me to have sexual intercourse with him but im afraid i will fall asleep before i get a chance to climax, is this normal 2/27/2006
rose if i had sex two days befor my period is there a chance i could get pragnat still 2/4/2006
yea`man yea 2/1/2006
Suzzy When i had sex for the first time i didn't bleed is that normal? 1/29/2006
Elizabeth i didn't bleed the first time i had sex. Is that good?
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fayes im 23 and want to have sex but im so scared what do i do to overcome being scared 1/29/2006
jakejakejake w/e u had sex with yr cousin 50 times u immature gay, get a life and dont spoil this forum for people that use it correctly :@ 1/24/2006
Stop &Think WAIT! all of you idios should wait especialy if you are 13. it's the stupidist thing you can possibly do at that age. It wouldn't killyou to wait a few more years. 1/20/2006
fuck me more wen i wa having sex i was like hell tired but was still asking 4 more and he kept on grinding in to me and i was starting 2 bubble everywhere out of my vagina and i was hell horny still is it normal??????????
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sally can u get pregnant if your boyfriend inserts his penis a little bit into you and cums? 1/18/2006
nicky I love to make love with my boo and eat candy 1/18/2006
beksta i had sex wit my boyfwend n i waznt even scared 2 huv sex 1/18/2006
christina i had sex with my cousin n we had sex bout 50 time and im scared coz i will be preganncy and im always worried 1/18/2006
christina hi my name is christina n i had sex wit my cousin jamie n timmy wit ma 4 boiz dat are my cousin n im soo scared if i get pregnacy n i had sex wen i waz 12 yr old n now im 14 1/18/2006
tee i had sex three days befor my period can i be preganat 1/17/2006
louise the first time i had sex his penis wouldnt fit up y woz this 1/16/2006
TreyHoV You should just have sex don't think about the risk and have a lot of sex. If you think about it something bad will happen. Just do it 1/12/2006
J190 ok so i have been with my girl for almost a year know and we have done other stuff sexually...... we are talking about sex, shes older than me and already lost her virginity and I havent, this may sound weird but what do you do when the penis is in the vagina, is there a certain place it goes and what do you do when its in there, do you jus go... in - out ect until u both wanna stop? 1/11/2006
jonjon how can i get us both relaxed and comfortable 12/31/2005
NiteFOxx how to do it right the first time ? 12/29/2005
lindsey when you have sex and you start bleeding will it be really bad? 12/28/2005
suga thanks tonight im going to have sex.
 12/26/2005
sally my tampon is stuck should i go to a docter and they get it out
 12/16/2005
Shel ive just strared going out with this lad, who is great, he knows that i havent had sex befor but his 17 birthday is coming up and i realy wanner sleep with him but im scared. he knows me realy well and i think i love him but im not sure wot to do. HELP?? 12/15/2005
J!z0hn I Just had sex with my gf and she started bleeding afta i started to pound on her real hard is that ok. 12/12/2005
sarah why do u bleed and get itchy after havin sex 12/6/2005
Lilly its qreat* 11/3/2005
rebecca why do u bleed wen u have sex 11/2/2005
rebecca can you have sex while having your period 11/2/2005
Beonca I think you should atleast wait until your old enough or better yet wait until you are married. You don't want to give your husband or wife a bad report about your history and tell them that you have been with more than five different people. But if you decide you don't want to wait for those things make sure that you sleep with someone you trust. No matter what always use protection because no one is going to just come out and tell you that they have an contagious disease. Also even if the girl tells you that she's on birth-control you still need to use one because they are not always safe 11/1/2005
karissa do u have any videos on how to kiss a guy 10/12/2005
ass it was so so cool have sex WITH NO BODY!!!!
lol HA HA HA		 10/7/2005
little angel. I just got back with my boy friend I have my heart set on him and he said the same for me but he did not seem interrested in getting back with me until I told him about a guy I am only talking to at school so i do not know I want to feel like he is with me because he loves me because the lord knows I love him but all and all I do not know what to do. i am 19 and am turning 20 soon and sm still a virgin but he is not, we have already done his testing for all the desises that you can get but I am just confused, I know I will not feel comfrotable doing anything like that with anyone else because I have know him the longest, I am just praying it works out this time. 9/15/2005
I would like to know why there are no blood coming out. My boyfriend did make love you 3 girls and all of them have blood. What is the difference?
Why is that so?
I feel kind of weird too and feel sad about this.
Anything wrong with my first time?
 9/9/2005
confused i had sex 4 the first time, and now it hurts to put in a tampon. before, it never hurt. whats wrong with me? is that normal or do i need to see a doctor? 9/6/2005
james i need advise on first time sex with a virgin, i meet a girl who was a virgin of 17, i had sexual intercourse with a condom, before i put the condom on, i tried it without a condom first, not full intercoursed i just wanted to ask, is it possible for her to get pregant? before she started to bleed.
 9/3/2005
jimmy can a virgin get pregnant the first time they have sex with no condom 9/3/2005
I need advice. Well there's this guy that likes me, and I like him. And we've been flirting a lot or whatever, and he wants to have sex with me and I want to have sex with him and I'm a virgin. However, we've only really been talking but 2 months and I don't know if I should wait or just get it over with. I'm like really baffled, because I do want to, but I don't know if it is too soon. But then again, I feel that time is of the essence and I can't put a time limit on it. Ugh, I don't know. Maybe I should just continue to think things through and weigh out the different pros and cons. 9/1/2005
Love I had sex for the first time and It felt great I
It does hurt a lot in the beginning but later it gets easier. I didn't bleed at all during the first time of sex, is that normal? I'm concerned. I have a hard time to reach orgasm, it seems impossible. Can you tell me anything to help this? Thanks		 9/1/2005
Sarah Iam a girl and aim 22 years old and after a month i'm getting married, and iam realy afraid of first time sex what should i do is it realy difficult for the first time? 8/28/2005
little angel This message is 4 confused sxc ga
GIRL& all the other boys & girls sex is what it is sex you all need to find something else to be curious about because it could lead to STD's and Pregnancy if ur older than 13 years old and you don't know what u want to be when u r older or which college to go to how EXACLY r u going to make a big decision like loosing ur viginity think about it dont feel pressured by anyone cause these days there is HIV and once u get that u will never get to do it again like i said THINK ABOUT IT i'm sure if u wait untill u're secure and able to pay your own bills whatever happens u can be able to deal with it trust me I KNOW.		 8/22/2005
Roberto Ibale I had sex with my sister stephanie and I felt up Vivian my cousin in my room. It was so great but I like my sister now, how do I stop this? 8/21/2005
i have a question. how much does penis size matter pain and pleasure wise? 8/20/2005
kho how to relax first time? wat to do? 8/18/2005
CARILONA WHERE DO I GO FOR AN ANSWER ACCORDING TO THE QUESTION THAT IF A GIRL BLEEDS ALOT OR A LITTLE ON HER FIRST TIME CUZ I REALLY WANT TO DO IT BUT IM REALLY SCARED TOO CUZ IM GONNA BLEED AND IM A VIRGIN CAN SOMEBODY GIVE A WEB SITE OR SOMETHING. I DONT KNOW HOW TO FIND OUT
 8/9/2005
JOANA WELL NOW THAT IM READING THIS I FEEL MORE SECURE ABOUT MYSELF AND ABOUT DOING IT TOO BUT EVERYBODY TELLS ME THAT FOR A VIRGIN ON HER FIRST TIME SHE BLEEDS AND IM NOT SURE IF IS A LOT OR JUST LIKE LITTLE DROPS I REALLY WANT TO KNOW CAN SOMEBODY ANSWER THAT BECAUSE THATS WHAT KEEPING ME FROM DOING IT. 8/9/2005
curious whats the best position for tha first time 8/8/2005
OK. Let me clear this up. It really does NOT hurt that bad the first time, the key is RELAX. RELAX RELAX. If you relax, you loosen up and it goes in sooo much easier. I bled a little bit, which is normal, and I noticed that when I sat down for the next couple days, I could kinda feel a little pain. But, its gone now and I'm fine. But I HAVE A QUESTION. Ok, I only had sex once (about 2 weeks ago) and it was my first time. Before, when I put tampons in, it slid in and I was a little tight around there. Just today, I put a tampon in. I put it in, and it kinda fell out while I was entering the tampon in me..like i felt a lot "looser" down there. Is that just because I had sex and I broke my hymen..or does it mean I'm like really "wide?" (I hope not!) PLEASE answer back and give me a mature answer..thanks! 7/26/2005
Sara Im scared that if i have sex i will start to bleed is this true?
 7/24/2005
Sara Everytime that i have i sex afterwards a whit creamy substance comes out of my vagina.Does that mean that i have cum or not ? 7/24/2005
Hurt Im 16 and have a 10 month old baby boy called leo.Me and my boyfriend have just broke up and im scared that he'll want to take leo off me.Is it true that the mother can decide wether to keep the baby beacause she gave birth or is that wrong ????? 7/24/2005
Worried Im 15 and have had sex a couple of times with my 15 year old boyfriend.My mum and dad werent happy.Ihave now found out that i may be pregnant.Ijust want to tell everyone to take precautions and to wait till your 16 to have sex !!!!! 7/24/2005
Lucy The first time sex isnt as good as later on in life.As the man slowly inserts the penis into your vagina it hurts a bit but soon gets more pleasurable.Everyone have fun ! 7/24/2005
Man Wow! Mahendra, interesting that you remember the date you had it first time. I don't remember the date I had first time sex, the year was 1990 ... or probably 1991 I guess.
Anyone here remember their dates? Post them!		 7/24/2005
mahendra i am 34 year old first time sex 22feb. 1992. 11pm 16 year old girl 7/24/2005
briana i just wanted to kno if it really hurts the first time 7/18/2005
Rose do you have to bleed the first time you have sex? 7/13/2005
jane im cant what 2 have sex i have not had sex be four im wourd what it be like. 7/10/2005
i'm 13 && i've had sex with my boyfriend [of almost 10 months] we've done it a lot. && to everyone who is soo worried about it. well your vagina does hurt. and you DO bleed. but it'll go away the next day. after having sex a few more times it doesn't hurt or bleed anymore. just don't go having sex right after you've done it for the first time. it'll literally kill your vagina. 7/8/2005
mrs.whitaker what happen to your body when only done it one time and you are a female and its been 2 years ago? do your hole close up ? 6/29/2005
BabeFace I have had sex now more then once.. and I just did today.. and Now I am bleeding.. is that normal? 6/29/2005
japan_fellow Because of age difference. Should a 14 yr old male virgin have first time sex with 21 yr old female. 6/21/2005
kool jack i want to know what it's like the first time,but I'm waiting till im married 6/15/2005
Krystina well i never had sex before I just here about other who did so I'll know what to expect 6/15/2005
wait and to all the 13 yr olds... you need help.. jus wait if youwant it b4 marrage then wait till you can actually get horny... god... 6/12/2005
wait wait till marrage you idiots... 6/12/2005
olga is bleeding after first time sex surely normal ? 6/11/2005
confused sxc ga i relly want to have sex and i'm only 13 everyone in my skool iz talikn about sex and it makes me frustrated wot should i do? 6/8/2005
Ranae I want to knoow how long a woman is suposed to bleed after having sex 6/7/2005
tanish i had sex just a half an hour ago. my boyfriend tended to push his penis in my vagina a little to hard than normal. now i'm bleeding alot and i'm walking really diffrent. how long will this last and what should i do? 6/1/2005
ray for the first time do you ejaculate faster 5/27/2005
becca can u tell me does it hurt the second time you have sex?
 5/26/2005
Candy its not my first time I have been in a relationship 3 years does it supose to to hurt 5/22/2005
Ashley m. What do i do if my boyfriend wants to sex but i have douts? 5/18/2005
ann i have just started dating a dishy guy i want to sleep with him for the first any ideas how to spruice up my sex life 5/17/2005
steve long i think its very good 5/14/2005
hey i realli need some help

i had sex for the first time this sunday, and since then ive been like bleeding only it doest look like blood most of the time it looks brown... i need to know if this is natural? i have no clue wat to do i cant tell my mom caus she'll totally flip out at the fact that i have had sex... please help

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peace My fionce tried to enter his panis to my vagina....but is was very difficult and painful to enter......it seems like something i sblocking the way.......how to we go about this.... 5/9/2005
chika i think your solution as same as with me. I agree with your statement. 5/7/2005
Me and my partner are both virgins. I the male am not sure how to enter the penis into the vagina. Does my penis need to be rock hard and completely upright? Does the female need to be fully lubricated too? How do I make these two factors work best? 4/28/2005
--- i am still confused about the bleeding, my bf and i have discussed having sex, and we are both ready for it, any advice? 4/28/2005
dawn thanks so much for the information that you posted, it made me feel alot better about sex! 4/27/2005
june IT was nice very nice ,esp with a freand ,in 16,in WC. 4/27/2005
june it was happy,esp with a freand. 4/27/2005
brittany do u cry when u are doing it .wat do i do 4/25/2005
brittany do it hurt when u have sex how do it feel .do u bled when u are doing it 4/25/2005
bowleggedgurl hey i had sex w/ this guy a couple of times,and i was wonderin if im suppose to cum all the time? 4/20/2005
Well it will be my first time, and i am kind of worried. Hmm i am worried about not being able to fit his penis in my vagina. hmm im not excacly sure what to do and niether does he. 4/19/2005
barbara how long is a woman suppose to bleed after her cherry gets popped? 4/18/2005
rmc boy i think 'seks bebas itu haram dan ia memang haram. jikalau kamu tidak bertaubat sampai mati, nescaya neraka lah tempat kamu'. 4/11/2005
vulva queen I love vulvas! 4/8/2005
as ah.... wala lang
 3/26/2005
hana wow.. wat an amazing research or topic for people of first time sex. its great and good motivator for girls. 3/22/2005
Bagel Steala Thanks for the little pep talk I will use that tech for the first time with the whole gently touching and everything. I hope your advice works to my benefit. 3/20/2005
i want to know if boys blood when having first time sex 3/18/2005
saurabh great 3/14/2005
JESSE24 i need help wit my girl...she is so tight i can fix py penis in there..the fingering part doesnt help out at all..is there anything i can do or any thing she can.like any certain postions? 3/4/2005
ann i have heard it can hurt the time you have sex with a man 2/24/2005
ssell okay what positshon do i have to do?
do i have to come quickly or do i have to take my time plez tell me now. coz she is coming over in the next 2 hrs.
 2/20/2005
ssell=g is there no one awake 2/20/2005
crissy good 2/14/2005
for you It will hurt for a couple of days and there is some bleeding, but nothing that you can't handle. After a while it feels good 2/12/2005
Myrtha rene if you are a virgin will it hurts a lot when you are having sex with your partner? 2/4/2005
kateyd all i want to know is if the cervix opens during sex?
i have not had sex yet but want to be prepared before i do what all can i expect?		 2/3/2005
simi i have just got married and it took me nearly to let my husband have sex becz i was finding it painful, i think it was due to psycholigical reason. My question is few days i did let him do it but since past few days it has been bleeding very little and i am wondering isit normal becz i know that when u have sex first time it suppose to bleed but i didn't bleed just after the first time sex as i noticed very little blood the next morning from my vagina 1/27/2005
Lucy Guys can bleed from breaking a vessel in their penis. It happened to one of my friends when she was having sex with her boyfriend. 1/26/2005
brian i had sex for the first time but i dont beleive i cum at least it didnt feel as though i did does that mean i still cum? 1/24/2005
david Here are some guidelines for the beginners i.e. if you are going to have sex first time. It can help you to explore the pleasure in a better way.

Relaxation is the key. Have sex when you and your partner, both are relaxed. There is not a specific time to have sex. May it be the break of dawn, afternoon or the darkness of night. More important than time of day is the time you have to spend. Have a lot of time to have sex the first time. For 'lot of time' I mean at least the whole day, including sleep time.

So, what do you do if you haven't had sex before? You were friends and now you are in a loving relationship and now you both are sure that the time is right to move on. But first of all make a mental check list of the things that matter. Here are a few thoughts:

Be sure you both want to go further. Alternatives are there - mutual masturbation and oral sex are often just as satisfying, for example. Find a comfortable place where you feel safe. The back seat of an auto, jeep, car or truck isn't a great sensation enhancer. Sex is an intimate activity, but many times people are more reluctant to discuss it. If you can't talk openly, then maybe you need to rethink your plans. You must be legally able to have sex. You must think about contraception and protection from sexually transmitted diseases. The latter being more important if one of you is not a virgin
1/22/2005
hey do the guys ever bleed and why 1/22/2005
Johnny Wazek Alex what is wrong with you? freak 1/20/2005
Alex I am 15 years old and relly want to have sex with this girl from my school. I really want to sextually active with her and have oral sex and intercourse.Do you think i should do this? Why? I sometimes masturbate by looking at her in class.

Please email me with your comments ArmenianPolice@aol.com		 1/19/2005
amber is 13 to young to have sex? well i rle love my boyfriend and he rele loves me and we have done everything but sex!! and i kno that getting him sex will rele make him happy watt should i do should i lost my virginity ?ohh and i have used a dildo b4 and my pussy is not as tight any more am i still a virgin ? 1/19/2005
Beth Okay, so i see a lot of people on here asking about girls bleeding their first time, i'm guessing "popping the cherry." Well, me and my boyfriend had sex for my first time about two nights ago. I'm gonna be honest, i had been drinking that night. But, after we had sex we saw that there was a lot of blood. I was most certain it didnt come from me, but i'm not for sure. Is it normal to bleed that much after your first time having sex or could alcohol have affected it too? 1/19/2005
Ben Has anyone seen the episode of friends when Monica is helping Chandler with his sex life and she draws a womans body and give each part a different number, which parts of the body do the numbers go with? 1/18/2005
for you you don't have to use lubericant unless it starts to hurt the girl when you first enter 1/15/2005
Me Do you HAVE to use lubricant the 1st time? 1/13/2005
John Thank you, finaly a web site that actualy makes sense. I have looked every where to find a brief description but every where expects you to know everything about sex before you have even lost your virginity 1/13/2005
jnc Is there an odor when you have sex, do every girls bleed their first time? 1/10/2005
Bunny Sex for the first time should be "magical" and taken very slow. Kissing and hugging, touching and talking are the main things you need to go through. Make sure that you are comfortable with the whole "sexual intercourse" thing....and most of all, make sure both you and your partner are ready for it!!
Condoms are VERY necessary!!! (You dont wear em?? then you take care of the concequences)
Have fun!!!!!!!!!!and goodluck!!!!!!!!! ps. sum girls bleed alot, but sum dont even bleed at all!!
Thanx, Bunny		 1/9/2005
didi does it hurts 1/5/2005
jen my boyfrend and i plan to have sex this summer for the first time and im worried about the bleeding. How much will i bleed and should we stop i if start bleeding in the middle of having sex? Also is there any special brand of condom that is better in protection then others? 1/5/2005
sara what do you mean to make sure everything is ok? 1/3/2005
Nikki yep dont worry about the pain and yep you might bleed for a couple of days but if you have it more than a week i wud advise u go to the doctors just to make sure everything is ok .

1/3/2005
sara Hey everyone, i have a question that hopefully yall can tell me if all this is normal? the other night i had sex for the first time. It hurt to much to actually go for a long time, but my boyfriend put the condom on well actually it took both of us to put it on cause it wouldn't go on right. we looked at it and made sure it was ok to go. and then we started. nothing happened like he didn't come or anything but i did start to bleed. so we stopped.i have only had a little bit of cramps here and then and its been about 3 days. is all of this stuff normal? 1/2/2005
Simone i was just wondering how long do you bleed for after you loose your virginity?and how much, even tho so far it hasn't seemed like much. it seemed like it was alot when it first happened. Ever since i have bled occasionaly cause i just lost mine the other night and i have had a litttle pain ever since and it happened about 2 nights ago. I don't know if it is pain or cramps? cause im not suppose to start my period for another week and a half. 1/1/2005
Nikki Hey lex. Dont worry u n ya boyfriend will be fine. Yes you will bleed so u might need a pad but everyone is different so u might not bleed a lot at all. If ur tense it will hurt more than normal but if u and ur bf r relaxed the pain wont be bad. Dont b nervous !!! 1/1/2005
lex me and my boyfriend r plannin to have sex this summer. its the first time for the both of us.but i read some of the stuff on this site and its makin me a lot nervous. is there anyone that can help? plz i need to kno. do u realy bleed?how much?do i need a pad isf i do or do i just let it flo?pls answere me. 12/30/2004
Nikki Ive lost my virginity a couple of weeks a go now and just wanted to give advice to ppl cause i think it helps .
for me and a couple of friends of mine it hurt as soon as the hymen broke but after wen u start to relax it dont hurt so much most girls do bleed some just a little some quite a bit but if u relax the pain and the bleeding is a lot less than if ur tense.good luck!!
 12/30/2004
Laryn I just had sex with my boyfriend tonight and all the questions you guys have, i had. If you would like some answers you can email me newyorkbabi224@msn.com I would be more than happy to help you out with your questions. To answer some of your questions that i read though.. it does hurt a little bit but nothing unbearable. If you don't feel comfortable being able to talk to him and tell him if it hurts or ask him to be more gentle than i think you should wait. Also you bleed because your hymen breaks (pop your cherry) and it doesn't mean you have a disease it's natural. It helps if he fingers you beforehand (make sure he wets his fingers first) and is very getntle. The pulling the condom off first and then putting it back on i think is a bad idea because it could make the gurl very nervous about being pregnant. Any questions please email me. I wish i foudn this site before i had sex. I definitely don't regret it 12/29/2004
Jess I agree with that all. I also think though that you really need to communicate during the experience. I know my first time, it was a realli important factor that me and my boyfriend could talk and if it was hurtin a lil more than it should've i was able to tell him. 12/29/2004
Today i went to visit my boyfriend, we've already discussed having sex and i feel ready... but today we were sort of in a public place (his truck) so instead of just goin into sex he decided to finger me. It hurt so bad! We are both virgins so i dont know if he has clumsy hands since that was his first time or its normal for it to hurt. We were their for 20 minutes but the pain didnt subside... right now it still hurts w/ this go away if i keep doing it? If u have any help for me plz... email me at maria_liliana@msn.com (suzie) Thank u's 12/28/2004
Stephanie i am a virgin. i'm scared to have sex with my boyfriend because i heard that it hurts like hell. I also heard that if the vagina starts to bleed that someone has a disease. If anyone has any comments, e-mail me at sexy_juicee01@hotmail.com 12/27/2004
RMW21 Alot of people told me that the first time having sex hurts? Is the first time painful? and if so how long? 12/27/2004
chase but i prematurely egaculate what should i do?
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just adding on to my last post, if any1 requires further help on this topic feel free to email me tluha1@bigpond.net.au 12/22/2004
hey ummm pplz that need help i guess i can help you ... i have been reading alot of the posts in this topic and alot of them seem to be i cant get it in and bleeding etc. so anyway my names ty im 16 yrs of age and me and my g/f just had sex last night for the 1st time after many hours of attempts to get it in it didnt work so ... i tryed puting baby oil (lubricant) on her vagina and fingering her with 4 fingers really carefully and that loosend her up a little bit ... so than i tryed putting my d**k in again and it did not work .... so i took the condom off and i found not using a condom for the 1st few inserts allows ur penis to go inside the vagina and allows her vagina to get use to your penis. so after a few inserts you put the condom back on and it goes in fine ... and the bleeding occurs shortly after u insert and it doesnt hurt when the hymen breaks ... bleeding is roughly 10 / 11 ml's which is about 10 drops of blood. its not much blood but yeah , and u will find after bout 20 inserts she will start to enjoy having sex. anyway good luck pplz and have fun. 12/22/2004
Kristen im still a virgin,,butim afrriadto have sex because i have heard that u bleed alot and i think that would be very embarassing...and anyone help me to know what goes on ??? 12/20/2004
mic sad 12/19/2004
sum1whoknosumtn when it hurts u that means u werent wanting it even if u think u did want it when u r excited about it and u want to do it it shouldnt hurt now i have never had sex b4 but i think my advice is right so ur first time should not hurt if u really truly want it and r excited about it. besides u should be married b4 u have sex but i cant stop u so take my advice about really want it 12/18/2004
URSHER im 13 and i tried to have sex with my girlfriend but i couldn't get my penis into her vagina what should i do next time to assure i can get it in to her? 12/16/2004
zarina me n my boyfriend were gona have sex but evertime he tried he couldant put his penis in .so he tried to finger me to see if that would help but nothing .can u help me n tell me wat the best think is to do to make it easer on both of us.n can u tell me is it gona hurt really bad n how long will a bleed for...!!! 12/15/2004
for the girls :it hurts a little and it bleeds 12/14/2004
nikki Michelle if ur asking how u do it all u have to do is relax but dont rush into things if ur not ready u will b tense and it may hurt more.Have u got a steady partner? 12/14/2004
Michelle where and how do we do it? 12/13/2004
Nikki Hi for all u first timers out there.I was really scared on my first time.I dont have a bf so when i went out clubbin one night i ended up having a one night stand(not a very nice way to loose your virginity) i was very drunk and it hurt very much and didnt stop bleeding intill the next day and i didnt use a condom or anything. my advice is dont jump into bed with just anyone wait intill its the rite time 12/13/2004
melissa I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend just had sex last night. He couldnt enter inside me and when he did it hurt soooo bad!!! Afterwards, when I had to pee, it hurt. I woke up this morning with brusises on my legs and I was all tired today. Is this normal? 12/11/2004
star seeker I am afraid that doing it still hurt my girlfriend. we have done it so far a couple of times. but afterward, shen she passes to the toilet, it hurts her. do you think she should visit a doctor? or is it normal? 12/10/2004
born to be wild you will only enjoy doing it, if you chose the right time; when emotions are involved 12/10/2004
marina does sex hurt the first time? 12/7/2004
someone when u first have sex do u bleed cuz i nedd to know before tonight

 12/7/2004
some one afraid my stomach is a little.......... big but i still look skinny and iam about to have sex i think so whut should i do maybe i wont turn my partner on so plz whut should i do to get over my fears
X signed X
sOME ONE cONCerned		 12/7/2004
Hi Jessi!
As I said before, it's very important to use a good lubricant, but I think it would be a very good idea to visit your local Family Planning Clinic or your personal Doctor, to make sure that there are no health concerns involved. You cannot be to cautious, when it comes to this subject. Your Doctor can give you confidential advice, and make sure that you're healthy at the same time.		 12/7/2004
jessi I was wondering if there is anything that I could do to make sex not hurt as bad. I have had it a few time and it hurts...what should I do? 12/6/2004
Yes, first time intercourse does feel very uncomfortable. Just make sure that you do use a good lubricant, and not KY Jelly. That is for pap-smears and other uncomfortable stuff at the doctor. You also have to be careful to get something that is specified as a lubricant, as some things could possibly cause an infection, if not meant for this purpose. 12/5/2004
amber does sex hurt the first time 12/5/2004
You definitely need to use a good lubricant, preferably water-based, during intercourse. It will help for the first time, and it also sensitizes the area, to increase arousal. I also carry products, that are unisex, that increase arousal by bringing blood flow to the genitalia, and they contain and increase the chemical that your body produces naturally, to arouse you, and make you orgasm. It is also great for women who have had hysterectomies, and can't lubricate naturally. 12/5/2004
Hey, me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time but his penis wouldn't go into my vagina it kept sliding out. What should i do to fix this problem? 12/2/2004
carla i just had my first time sex with a guy i know for almost 12 years and i was a virgin still at the age of 27 but i didn't know what to do that night at all, now what can i do i have not seen him since then........please give me advise! 12/2/2004
kyra How long does sex for the first time hurt? Do you bleed long? 12/1/2004
Suny I have a girl friend, and i want to sex with her. she also want sex with me, but she is only 13 years and she is virgin, Can u tell me how i can enter inside her first time? 12/1/2004
Amanda Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex the other night. It was going to be the first time for the both of us. But when we got to it, he couldnt get his penis inside of me. What should I do? 11/29/2004
Nana how bad dose it hurt? how long do you bleed for? 11/18/2004
Frenchy Me and My boyfriend have triend several times to have sex but every time he enters me it hursts alot!! Am I just going to have to fight through the pain and put up with it or is there something I can do to make it less painful? 11/17/2004
satish how to test weather the girl is vergin or not? 11/16/2004
Shy I have been talking to this guy for a while and our realtonship is awesome we have so much in common its scary i think im ready to have sex with him but im scared ill do something wrong! what should i do 11/16/2004
chopra can u show me pitures how to do it 11/14/2004
Bunnie I am not turned on by my boyfriend's small penis. I thought I loved him but now I am not so sure. Will it grow? 11/9/2004
destiny davis does it hurt the first time 11/5/2004
babyc if i'm going to have sex with someone what if I get too nervous and his penis cannot enter my vagina and what should i do when it enters and it's hurting me? 11/3/2004
play can u show me pitures how to do it 11/3/2004
lazyman i have never had sex but my gf wants to can i see some picturs of were to insert my penis and were tha sperm comes out 10/31/2004
My boyfriend and I recently tried to have sex for the first time, but, like silky, penetration wouldn't happen, we couldn't do it, plus it really hurt me. We tried again and although we managed it this time, it really hurt, and it didn't feel good at all for me, only for my boyfriend. I'm confused, is this meant to happen...? Can anyone offer any advice?
Thanks		 10/30/2004
rizwan do all the women reach orgasim? 10/28/2004
Al I am making my first time making love special is that ok? 10/26/2004
Unanomous Ive never had sex for the first time so tell me everything i need to know how it goes and what i do, and can u get pregnant if u have sex for the first time is that possible 10/19/2004
ushha do you bleed the first time u have sex and if you do, is it right away? 10/16/2004
Tasharra How long can a boy's penis grow ? 10/16/2004
Lindsay What pain is there .. If any ...and .. is there any blood ... ive heard there was i was ??? 10/14/2004
tim what to do? 10/12/2004
bubba what position is the best for first time sex? 10/10/2004
LaToya I can't stop thinking about sex its in my mind and it won't go out how can i resist having sex 10/4/2004
katy CAN ANYONE HELP?
ON THE FIRST TIME WHAT SHOULD I DO JUST LAY THERE OR WHAT IM WORRIED!!!		 10/2/2004
Jane Does the male know when hes breaking the females hymen?
Can someone please help!		 10/2/2004
INA247STAR WHAT POSITONS SHOUL YOU HAVE SEX IN IN ORDER TO HAVE AN ORGASIM FOR THE FEMALE?
 9/29/2004
UNANAMOUS DOES THE BOU HAVE TO BE LIKE ROCK HARD BEFORE HE ENTERS YOU? 9/29/2004
Erika Do you bleed the first time you have sex? 9/20/2004
mel I just had sex for the first time and i bleed. if i do it again will i bleed again? and should i wait a certain amount of time before i do it again? 9/7/2004
Jane If your female and your a virgin does the male who has had experience know that you are a virgin when you the female are having sex for the first time? I quess what im trying to say is does he know he is breaking the hymen? 9/7/2004
Brooke But the aftermath..you bleed yes, but the second time should you bleed then too? because i did adn i don't know if its right 8/30/2004
Silky2004 we have been trying from quiet a longtime for penetration, but my vagina seems so tight, no matter how hard I try to relax, still it is impossible for my husband. Fingering also doesn't help. Now we are so frustrated by this that we don't have sex at all. I would need some suggestions to get myself aroused, as nothing helps me. We did try using KY jelly still will need more help. 8/28/2004
susie thank you for the sex advice...i found it very helpful.x 8/25/2004
amit i am new show me some pictures, where to insert penis & have baby 8/22/2004
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