| Name |
Views and Comments | Date |
| Haru |
there's this girl I like and I think she is into me but when I am around her and her friends, she acts like a snob and now I am clueless! |
11/8/2009 |
| playboy |
i think Mr. uttara is being pesimist,:-) who is trying to ignore all the symptoms of the girls likeness (in few cases he might be right). what he has written is when u know a girl fully, talk to her and its but obvious u can make out if she is interested, but in case u dont talk to that girl then I think the u should depend on the first version |
10/5/2009 |
| Curiou s |
I like a girl but what can I do to make her like me more? What would women
usually like? |
9/28/2009 |
| Justen |
This article was very helpful. i would like a question answered if possible. I will make this short. I am not the most talented at making a move on wemon. I will stare into her eyes and she will stare back, and a smile will appear on her face and laugh grinning. When she thinks i am not looking she lossens up her clothing. She tells me everything and i listen and comment the best i can. The thing that gets me is... She says i like "him". Yet he treats her like dirt in every way shape and form. She will dishim and look me in the eye with a smile. Every day i call her pretty and tell her i like her, but not stright out. Hints like your very pretty, you do not look crazy with out your makeup. She even is dying her hair the color i told her i liked more then completly black. So she is changing her look to what i find more attractive, even though she is pretty the way she is and i tell her so. She will always say she likes "him" no matter what i do. I see her litterly every day, at least twice. Since she lives next door. What should i do? I can answer any questions you have to help you come to a conculstion. Thank you for any help. |
8/22/2009 |
| Zap |
thanks man! ;D it helped |
8/18/2009 |
| steve |
...er... your version is almost like a girlfriend... |
8/17/2009 |
| isaiah |
very thought out |
8/15/2009 |
| Raj |
Uttara, your version really roxx... all d points dat u mentioned are true, bit the one i like, n i think she likes me too, is kind of studious n has a orthodox background... but she does watever u have mentioned... i like her alot... and she too does... |
7/27/2009 |
| buf |
na |
7/20/2009 |
| Frank |
This seems like a compilation of your "I wish" list. Maybe you got hurt bad one time from a girl, and these are some of the things she didn't do for you. This is probably the worst list of things I have ever seen. They would all be nice, but frankly, your going to be a lonely guy if you go by this. This girl would have had to give up her own life to give you this, and that is never healthy. I really hope you and everyone who reads this gets the clue, what you want is control. Give it up and enjoy a woman for who SHE is. Then, and only then, will you ever truly show the woman the respect she deserves. |
6/22/2009 |
| SAN |
Your version is so true.
thanks for such a truthful article. |
6/13/2009 |
| Tim |
The list of points under "My Version" is absolutely wonderful, and really helped me to confirm a suspicion about a lovely girl who I met a little while ago. Cheers! |
6/2/2009 |
| Tiffany |
Yeah i think some of these things are actually helpful! |
5/18/2009 |
| amid dalhari |
good shiet man...good shiet. u r god of love and romance baby! |
5/12/2009 |
| experienced |
There's a difference between wanting to sleep with a man and just merely caring about him.
Girls that want to sleep with you give the "cliched clues." Girls that still care about you, but not necessarily want to sleep with you, give the clues you gave. |
5/1/2009 |
| Mark |
Your version seems a bit biased towards outgoing/open girls. At least in my view, more outgoing/open girls would leave automatic signals or signs for you to see. To me, looking for subtle/specific signs mainly applys to more shy/closed girls. I do, however, agree that interaction is important to build up a relationship. A relationship without interaction will head towards nowhere. |
4/28/2009 |
| Ali Al-Takmachi |
Excellent work. |
2/18/2009 |
| Gus |
Wow man, this list makes more sense than any other one. Good job! |
2/8/2009 |
| Griffo |
Uttara, You missed one thing in your version. Your are right but that is after she has got to know you a resonable amount its also where applicable due to the circumstances she will drop sutle signals. Such as lick her lips, play with her hair, flutter her eyelashes, etc this happens on the first and second and so on dates untill the flirting and suttoe signal behaviours have grown to a point that your verson sugests, of course after your version, she kisses you, you both make love and the relationship becomes fare more physical.
That's how you tell it starts with small signals and grows from there. Like a seed itneeds to be watered to grow into a beatiful flower. |
1/31/2009 |
| Jack |
AWSOME! |
1/30/2009 |
| bigfix |
theres is this girl in my class and she always stares at me every day it never falies do u think she likes me? |
1/28/2009 |
| bigfix |
theres is this girl in my class and she always stares at me every day do you think she likes me? |
1/28/2009 |
| Jim |
I know a girl who did all of these things...however shes not interested in me! |
1/16/2009 |
| Queen |
OMG this was very very true...and I'm a girl so I should know...=) |
12/23/2008 |
| iluv supermac18 |
i am a girl
and i wanted to see if i liked this guy because i have been confused
and all of these are true!
and all of these i do!
i acually do touch my neck!
lol! |
11/29/2008 |
| M.Dogg |
I think this is really good advice ... hats for your good work ... keep it going .. my good wishes are with ya ... |
10/22/2008 |
| Seph |
I think the 7th sign (the good night thing) is something a bit too much to expect from a girl who would still be my friend at the point way before I even think about confessing my feelings to her.
But the rest of your signs are great! Looking at them makes me see that genuine romantic love is established on the emotional connection, compatibility, and maybe, just maybe, even plain old platonic friendship, rather than sex, as implied in other dating advice articles I've read.
Your article in general changed my own philosophies on romantic love. ^_^ Thank you! |
10/21/2008 |
| Mark A |
you hit some pretty great points, because those things of cliche indeed are suspicious and inaccurate, and funny that i matched about EVERY view you had with a girl who does like me, so the whole matching brings some security to me :) |
9/19/2008 |
