Relationship Advice for Women on Understanding Men

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nancy sometimes if we will just understand the differences between men & women - we can save a lot of fights. I strongly recommend reading the article "why women want to talk while men want to rest" (google it). 11/28/2011
emily When asking your boyfriend questions about your relationship. What does it mean if he gets defensive and very angry physically. 1/24/2011
Kate Are you serious? This the biggest load of rubbish I've ever read! This is basically saying "Anything that you've ever wanted, desired or deserved from your man you won't get because he's ignorant...BUT THATS OKAY! Thats how men are, so lets just accept that you're never going to be happy."

Totally got W T F's back on this one.		 9/5/2010
jack men should not get married on time 7/6/2010
Monica i realy had a problem with what men think but now i got the message 6/3/2010
Mimi WOW.. good info! I just had an argument with my boyfriend I wish I had read this first! 5/19/2010
Dejan Hi, I'm 25 years old, and yes, I'm a dude reading advice for women. :D
There is only one thing a woman needs to do if she wants to be attractive to men: be available. There is no way you can misinterpret this word and no way to go wrong if you are available. This requires no coaching, no books, lessons, whatever. :D
Men don't think about sex every 7 seconds, they think constantly about how to get a woman in bed in 7 seconds. :D		 4/15/2010
neluónde n How do i know my boyfriend love me 3/11/2010
Rami Madbouli Hmm... well I bet a woman wrote this because it's vauge and inaccurate. I'll try to modify it bluntly. First of all, guys are romantic. And they do think about romantic ways to sweep their girl of their feet. They just arn't always good at expressing that or they are to scared/timid to do so.
Men love it when their girl shares their feelings and problems with them. Girls, dont hesitate to ask your boyfriend for a sholder to cry on. It helps to stenthen the bond you share and makes the guy feel that he wants to sheild you from what you're going through.
Ok, us men are not robots. We have deep feelings about the girl we like and if these feelings appear not to "be there" then just remember, underneath every guy's outtershell, there is a soft, breathtaken person who could be madly in love with you. So dont ever try to think about what a guy is feeling because we can be ver very very vauge or unclear.
Can i try and explain the unfaithful part? This is by NO means an aliby or an excuse. It is simply a reason why they do sometimes cheat. Every guy LOVES a challange. And a thrill. Let me give u an example: A guy would rather go out with a reasonably attractive woman who plays hard to get than a beautiful girl who is openly desperate for his love. Thats the truth. And when a guy wants a thrill what does he do? He breaks rules. And i know thats pathetic but it is true.
And the last and final defence of the Male gender I would like to add is the part where Natasha Bantwal says: "These mixed messages that they always ended up sending us, left us feeling bewildered and confused." Honey, take it from an extremly confused guy. You've got the wrong end of the stick. That's a two way street. Guy's can be just as confused and bewildered. As for the mixed messages: they are often a result of mood swings, an event, or from neveousness. If any of these three become apparent in a conversation, try not to think too much on the mixed messages the guy might be sending you.
Thank's guys, sorry if i've been blabbing a bit. I just wanted to help straighten a few points out :)
Cheers!		 12/29/2009
ysmael tomawis Hi am ismael i am married with for kids for almost 11 yrs know
as time goes by me and my wife had arguiments aboutt things financially and all sort of thiings we got married coz of my parents
a tradition being practice by muslim people. As we go on i met someone my co worker shesnot that lovely compared to my wife but i was attracted to her so much because of her inner self
i courted her and she accept my love with out regret knowing that am still married and still were bougth inlove with each other un till know for almost 2years and 4 months weve shared our life with each other... my plans is that i will marry her for i love her so much
please if any one can read this share me your thougths about it am having a big question in my heart and mind...		 10/31/2009
w t f f__ this! why should we compromise for him? where's his compromise? why shouldn't he try to understand the situation from OUR point of view? 9/27/2009
becky c your colounm has been the hit of my coursework so thank you for that, however, i must say by investigating your work i find your entire attidude to be gaged towards what men want and placing a very sexist and stereotypical viewpiont on women. 'man is the pillar in society' i mean really? 'sex is the only way they can achieve emotional closeness'? it never has been the only way and surely by excepting this your willing to let your partner cheat on! my investigation was based on they way authors protray men and women in thier text... and you... you are trashing your own sex in ways that i dnt even think you realise! women... do not except this, this doesnt even come close to relationship advice unless your willing to put your hands up and let a man do whatever the hell they please, and not talk to you because thier excuse is they were taugh to 'disconnect thier inner-most feelings'... this article is stereotypical rubbish! 4/17/2009
Alexis I wish I'd read this before this evening... might not be in the trouble we are in now. All I wanted to do was talk and vent for the past 3 days and he didn't seem to care anything about me so he left and said he's not coming home tonight and he'll be moving out. Sigh... misty water-coloured memories... 7/21/2008
colins am mr colins am from uk i need a woman so anybody interested in me should just email me bac 2/2/2008
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