Common Causes and Reasons for Divorce

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kassa Teshome indeed, divorce is the most common problem in our world, but I appreciate you by carryout research on such issue. if possible try to translate it in to different languages! thank you! 2/8/2012
nelly PLEASE ADVICE ON HOW TO STOP A DIVORCE 2/7/2012
carolyn zaremsk well this is my 2nd marriage and i am not living with him we dated for 4 years but our relation together was off an on he saids mean things i do not love you he is very wishy washy type guy i married him because i love him but he said i do not feel the same way you do and then said i love you too he is very mixed up but i tried to work it out it is either his way or no way he does have a good heart and if you talk again he saids i heard before he did not make me feel loved so i lelf him we agree it will not work out and his dad gets into it and makes nasty comments too what a mess so i lelf he realy needs to think about it and he will not let go of the pass it is just a big mess his dad kinda push him he realty did not want to i just need some answers 2/3/2012
livingston GOD only who make a wondering family life 1/2/2012
mm it is more short than necessary 9/30/2011
mary ann pineda im agree with divorse when its not worth it and many causes... 9/6/2011
Bonsai MARRIAGE is a right and becomes a privillege depending on the person himself. 8/23/2011
Bonsai thanks for these information. it really gives important knowledge on us.. it really could help to those readers who are preparing to get married, for atleast they will be informed in advance what are the do's and don'ts in engaging into ths kind of passionate relationship. 8/23/2011
nicksy shane no comment 8/9/2011
yunus idrees thanks so much, all d afformentioned points are very accurate but it failed to make the point of the importance of premarital and marital counselling to be necessary in choosen partner and help to uphold marriage, that when it lack in marriage it can cause problem which can latter lead to marriage dissolution 6/10/2011
John T J I have a woman have i married, though the marriage was not done properly which i am planning towards its actuallising for us to be bound as husband and wife. I do everything to see i make this woman happy, i sponsor her in school to see that her future will be bright, but still yet this woman sees me wit an eyes of boyfriend and girlfriend, i do my best to make understand that she is no longer a spinster but my efforts are not yielding any good things out of it. Trully due to some of her behaviour i am really sacred to take her to the alter. Pls i need an advice on what to do. Because of sending her away from me, but i will take care of my daughter. 5/21/2011
amanda i like goat cheese 5/13/2011
Esther Thats a nice article. Very candid one indeed. I love it. Keep up the good work 5/7/2011
newman benedict what if i caught my wife with another man in my matrimonial bed what we i do 4/29/2011
newman benedict is divorce good. 4/29/2011
coral I think sometimes divorce is better to live with struggle. 4/13/2011
Napoleon Agyei The matter regarding divorce is one of crucial essence that does not require random speculation and opinion making. It must be approached with all seriousness and honesty. Issues of divorce occur by the interplay of a host of variables. While divorce might temporarily cure some of the aches of a family, it is still apparent that not divorce has itself been free from meaninglessness. No matter a person's academic, religious, economic or social circle, divorce can inflict untold havoc ... and render traumatic stresses to as far as innocent children. And that might explain how ruthless divorce can be. 3/30/2011
Batou M. I'm not married but I engaged ,but I don't think tthat alla those reason are enough to destroy my life . I know that the one must be patient. 3/29/2011
nujuum jimi i believe marraige is not for everybody, its only for some people who are very lucky. 3/26/2011
a divorced chld the thing is the parents say they think about the children but they actually dont before you get married you need to sit down and say look one day your going to have children and we need to step up to the plate and make better or for worse be our relationship you shouldnt get married unless you can own up to it those words 3/17/2011
Ostem Yeah i totally agree with this article,it has help me alot. 3/14/2011
mar Jun For me, Divorce must be legalized because the couple are pity the both of them... 2/20/2011
Hamzat Wasiu What can we do to afford divorce of any form 2/16/2011
dan kuwornu when couple come to realize that God put them together for a purpose, they are more likely to accomodate each other to fulfil that goal 2/15/2011
Fil is it possible to know some bibliography about this argument? 2/4/2011
gabriella explain broadly the major causes of divorce 1/29/2011
julie thanks! it makes a lot of help with my homework.. 1/27/2011
Lisa R. Rickard Divorce can get very ugly. In my case my ex-Husband was a cheat, sneak and liar. He had a new girlfriend every 2 years. He spen all of our money and lost our house. You think MAYBE they will change, but it gets worse. I am very happy now that I rid my life of susch a horrible person. He has the Devil in him and to this day he continues to do his dirty work. He is a bit more discreet now. 1/27/2011
Josie I like this website.
I'm doing a cause and effect essay for Language Arts and this info works great!		 1/24/2011
Allen How do you solve problems in a marrage with no communication? 1/19/2011
L.King After a Divorceing of 15 years and relationship in total of 21 years and 4 children.

I find the above information true, however, if you have not experieced it you might not understand.		 1/18/2011
L.King I broke common causes down this way:

1. Infidelity
2. Finances
3. Abuse (mental, physical and emotional
most of the above come under the umbrella of one of these topics.		 1/18/2011
nj ippolito Thank you for the brief and to the point answers. Except for the beginning blog, the list of reasons was very helpful. 12/28/2010
'SARAUTA2011' I appreciate with the comprehensive result i found. Thanks 12/18/2010
sarah v. i am not satisfied in your data about affirmative divorce.,! 12/13/2010
kaylee like k or somethin :) 12/1/2010
asefa awel i am happy to read about common causes and reasons of divorce .tha nk you. 11/26/2010
MD differences in interest will persist between two individual but problem arises when one don't care about partner's interest n always try 2 load personal interest on d partner n want d partner 2 work accordingly. 11/18/2010
adria i think people who feel like geting divorced need to go to consoling first and if that does not work then go ahead and get divorced. 10/28/2010
jazed i think that divorce can affect famileis espacially children of all ages. 10/26/2010
Vicki How do you deal with someone that has surguey for cancer and is blocking his family out
of his life, He tells his therypist stuff and when we leave the doctor he is back to his old misserable self.. How do you live with that type of person		 10/24/2010
Vicki I thnk some of your coments are dead on 10/24/2010
G Hurt What do you do when its 29 yrs of marriage. He's taken off alot of times. I let him come back. Always said because of our son. But alot of other issues have come up inbetween. This time he kicked me out of our bedroom. I have never kicked him out of the house.I am close to my son. But my husband won't stop the pettiness. He just keeps pushing me away because of it. 10/22/2010
tiffany this was very helpful. i havent been married for a year and im not sure if i want out or not. 10/16/2010
Rosaleighna You know what I never hear about is the positive way that divorce afects children?My daughter has 4 kids and they are a lot happier without their father there to abuse them and their mother! 10/5/2010
Reneeterrinisha really thats is fascinating i had always thought that if you married young that you would have a better chance of staying together forever 10/5/2010
James as someone who is going through a seperation, I can see where I have made mistakes. It took a wake up call to get me to see this. The problem I have is my family. I have always been the person who can take care of it, solve the problem. Well, what wrong with that, I wasnt taking care of MY FAMILY. My wife was telling me, but I wasnt listening, My mistake. Can it cost you your marriage? I am waiting to see, I hope not. 9/27/2010
Joe Judges hate men. You're going to get a screwing in Court for the screwing you got (or didn't) in the marriage. JUST PLAN ON IT! Marriage causes divorce. Been there, done that! Ain't doing it again. 9/11/2010
ROCHELLE these articles leave everyting open ended which"NKTSI'''''' but what works for one nay not not for some. 9/11/2010
V3roBeach well i'm 31 and my husband is 25. We discussed details of expectations before getting married. Both our parents have been married for over 30 years each. We didn't cohabitate before getting married. We actually, just have different religious views which were supposedly discussed thoroughly before getting married. He just has anger management problems. He can't control it and has now become physically violent. The only thing about the research that may be leading in the right direction is the part of the about problems coexisting in previous relationship(s). On my part, I have been doing the exact opposite of what I used to do. And on his part, well, we got married after 6 months of knowing each other and well, here I am, contemplating divorce when nine months ago I didn't so much as think I'd ever get married, much less divorced in less than one year.My only advice is to get to know who you are getting married to. At least give it a year before jumping into a commitment. I'm left feeling embarrassed, ashamed, and I feel like such a failure. 9/8/2010
lurry jane thank u for da info ,,,,its kinda interesting...SO MANY INFO THAT I CAN ACTUALLY GET ...THANKS A LOT 9/6/2010
lurry jane thank u for da info ,,,,its kinda interesting 9/6/2010
Ann Jackson This article addresses real life issues. I am separated and the reasons for divorce apply to my situation. I thought my issues were a fiction of my imagination, but what beats scientifc research findings? I appreciate the insight. 8/22/2010
Srinivasan I would rate communication as a major cause for marital break ups. I have myself written a few articles at my site on the subject 8/2/2010
Sebastian i just divorced from a gay marraige and will never be the same again :'( 6/29/2010
Dave Take that extra cheese and shove it 6/25/2010
Julian I definitley agree with age being a factor in a lasting marriage. So many of my friends from middle and high school who have gotten married are now divorced with children all by age 21. Also a friend of mine married a 17 year old because he took her virginity and she ended up cheating on him and they had a kid within the first year, they're still both unhappily married and under 21. 6/17/2010
jenny All the same divorce some times affect kids in a negative way and parents should be aware of that . 5/22/2010
cecilia I have to agree with you on that .Everything is true that is in the article. 5/22/2010
lilitha povert 5/18/2010
h.hellen cheating lead to divorce at 89% 5/15/2010
dbrhunz I am writing to make reference to immigration circumstance. Take for example when a woman
is brought here by an american citizen
Especially the Nigerian women they begin to act very disrespectful towards the man
With the hope that. because they are here their life is now rosy. Some of them unbeknowing the man get into marriage to get
Into USA. I think when a woman is disrespectful and disregards his feelings he should file a divorce.
And send the divorce decree to the USCIS and the USCIS should immediately cancell all immigration benefits to the woman and have
Deported. As I said 85 % of Nigerian women are not who they claim to be to the man that brougth them
Here.		 4/11/2010
Andrew I do not agree that culture differences are the issue and feel strongly that if for example I a white guy married an asian girl, I can care less about where she is from, however, If I agree with the right attitude that she has, this makes a big difference that me and her can work together in encouragement , Also if the reason you fall out of Love is because of certain issues, they both have to work with each other and try all they can, I the guy does all he can to work, Do Not Put him down because he has not enough money, if the woman is working, Stop putting her down and Help her. 4/9/2010
sara i have a formal relation with my mother in law, but we had never fights or no respects, my husband wants a divorce because im not her mother's best friend, he is not touching me he started to hate me, he said if u r good with my parents i will be good with, i don't want him anymore. our relation depends on his parents 4/7/2010
Leo S. Jealousy for no reason. Creates a hostile relationship too 4/4/2010
Holy Angel We must have a best chose and retain our life with love & loyaly and tolerate the problems just for our spouse. 3/6/2010
senthil the main problem is my father in law & mother in law ,they are not giving prorer advice to my wife ,they are giving mental tocheer for me 2/16/2010
Jimi O Its really complicated, however my personal view is that marriage should be free and divorces cheap. 2/5/2010
BARRON PILGRIM i will have a book out soon about the heartbreak of divorce.see barronpilgrim 1/21/2010
BARRON PILGRIM love is gravity that takes our feet off the ground, when they land everything looks different,even love. 1/21/2010
BARRON PILGRIM hope you liked my comment, i ought to know i have had two successful marriages. 12/17/2009
BARRON PILGRIM when poverty comes in the door, love goes out the window. when the couple stops laughing, its over. 12/17/2009
mahsa wow .your website is fantastic, excellent 11/28/2009
George Good reasons, keep up the good work. 11/11/2009
sara h i am with you this is the main causes but the more important reasult is that what will happen to children are you with me? 11/6/2009
secret i think that divorces are coused because the falt that people have because thay can;t have a good comunication between them.i'll say sth to everybody;cheer up don;t be sad.life goes on. 10/20/2009
hannah i thought Ur right 9/26/2009
Nicole Wow! So right so darn right 8/12/2009
rajalakshmi it is better 7/23/2009
David gai reckless marriage, intimidating cheating these are most destructive to wedlocks. 7/19/2009
desmond A. you are great. check this out 6/29/2009
kaisek what is the most reason for divorce? 5/4/2009
vanessa i think that people who divorce are ignorant irresponsible people who dont hold up to their end of the bargain. 4/28/2009
nichole i love this story 4/17/2009
Sandile sometimes its difficult to detrmine the causes of a devorcing couple.what if i just felt that 'no more with her', may be she is not living up to the expectations.should i be compelled to succumb to the 'non working' marriage? 4/16/2009
vincent Tawiah I really admit the factors contributing to the divorce in marriiage. And like to share my view on communication. Commucation helps spouse share thier views and also creat a room to treat the negative issues that may weaking
the marriage.		 4/3/2009
vincent Tawiah I really like your information on the net,keep it up and may the lord bless you to continue the good work of educating the world. 4/3/2009
sam makes a lot sense! 3/24/2009
namadzavho i totally agree that if there is no communication in the marriage,the marriage will not succed as communication is one of the fundamental elements of a marriage.with this i support that spouses should be able to sit down and talk about their problems. 2/21/2009
hamza good
it helped me with my homework		 2/11/2009
farhan abdi Marriage is a holly happening , the marriage that stablished over
religious principles mainly , will survive , that which over individual
intrests will not , however. prospective couples should have common similaraties. Modern civilisation that let the cat out of the bag is one of the strongest ditructive factor of the marriage.		 2/9/2009
fail this artical is very useful 2/6/2009
Katie E I definately agree that it takes two wholes...and even though I haven't worried about marriage yet...I don't want to get a divorce ever in my lifetime. I hope that the world can open their eyes and notice the difference between lust and love and maybe there'll be less divorces. 1/12/2009
rakesh kumar in case if tough matters are there efforts can be made to resolve the problems 1/6/2009
rakesh kumar its global issue and burning problem is based on ego more than that of sometime real problems in case more attention is paid to some extent

problems can be resolved		 1/6/2009
moon early marriages and mental incompatibility are the big causes of divorce. 11/4/2008
morri yo pienso k una de las causas del divorcio es la falta 10/31/2008
your gay totally gnarly bro. 10/12/2008
nina thanks that was a great article 10/12/2008
diane educational 10/5/2008
bervernica Why do people get married knwoing that there is aresult of divorce when there is no love nad honest between each other? 10/3/2008
caitlynn i am writing an essay on the causes of divorce today and this helped me alot! Thanks so much for your input 9/26/2008
jennie dush divorce is mainly caused by lack of interested which causes the relationship to ponder. and family's are broken souled. 9/3/2008
beatriz contrer first of all, i like the information that it's here because i share the mayority of the reason that are here. however, in my point of view i'll rank the lack o f comunication as the first cause of divorce. 6/9/2008
josh the divorces in canada are mostly for these reasons 5/31/2008
tierrah i really can relate to this section because me and my boyfriend are not communicating and it can lead to an divorce because you dont know what he's feeling if he may feel the same way that he do becuase he dosen't tell u anymore how he may feel 4/21/2008
anonymous i HATE ccac boyce right now..

what kinda of school makes you start at 8 am.. this is ridiculous...		 4/3/2008
esra i think marriage is very good i am very happy that i am married. 3/20/2008
dan I recently had very difficult time as a teacher that immersed me into not only losing my appetite, but my sexual interest for my wife. She refuses to talk to me or even let me try to have sex due to my inability to get an erection. She now does not me even to touch her because she has seemed to get tired of my constantly trying. This only brings me to think that either she has someone else in mind or has had someone else already. She does not communicate that matter because she sais she is not interested about having sex. I was thinking of moving to another house which is close to my children so I won't lose contact with them because i love them very much. I also love my wife. But i don't think she will tolerate my situation and i don't blame her in the sense that i have not had sex with her for 2 months, or with anyone else!!! Please give me some advice, please!!!! 3/12/2008
runette These are some good advices but, what roles does society plays in
part in the increase of marriages.		 2/20/2008
John Aloh what does sonia panse means by 'backward' countries?in my opinion divorce occurs mostly were there is severe societal and moral decadence.let her name me just one divovrced american presdident.So that president should be 'backward' and he ruled the U.S?Mental inbalance is more dangerous to the world today than global warming.So watchout and treat them fast. 2/16/2008
jerika heyyy hoe 2/8/2008
manish Unreasonable expectations from your partner 1/28/2008
Rachel I think that it's complete pride on both parts. You cannot have a good marriage on 50% from the husband and 50% from the wife, they must have 100% from both of them in order to maintain what true marriage is all about. 12/28/2007
Janarthan when it comes 2 problems in life ppl should b more optimistic in life n their parthway....more over they should b more frank over the problem so that things can workout well n solve in proper manner...cheeers! 9/3/2007
trine my wife is constantly saying i don't care enough about her and that i cause her to be upset on purpose. what can i do to help her understand that she has a problem 8/27/2007
burns What do you call it when your husband never live with you when at all from the time of dating being engage and being married he's been living with his parent since he was twenty years old and know he's forty seven years old I'm thirty eight we've been married one year and four months been together for five years 7/20/2007
The facts man. Does no one site statistics any more? I need to know what percentage of marriages end in divorce over finances. 5/24/2007
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