| Name |
Views and Comments | Date |
| Big J |
Here is what I do to make girls interested in me (and I'm talking about the hotest girls), I make sure that I am the first person to say "Let's just be friends." Or if it turns out that she is the first one to say it, I usually say something like "So wait, what were you expecting, a proposal? I barely even know you, for all I know you could be a psycho. I'm not like other guys who get captivated by a girl's looks you know. I need to find out if your just another pretty face or more than that. I just hope you don't disappoint me and make me waste my time trying to get to know you. So if you are just another pretty face let me know right now so I can move on and not waste my time"
Yea it's kind of a mouth full. The point is, you gotta be confident about yourself and don't be captivated by her looks. Most of all do not I repeat do not let her talk down to you. Be a man and let her know that she has know right to insult you or treat you bad IF you don't deserve it. Even if she doesn't like you, make sure that she respects you. Oh yea and make sure to keep an extra 5 girls or 10. |
8/18/2008 |
| Jodaul |
Fellas one thing you should know: Do not confine yourself to one girl. If one girl can like you, then 10 more girls can like you. I'm not telling you to be a player but you need to keep your options open. Also at first, look for friendship and not relationship. It is easier to get to know someone as a friend than in a relationship. Control your feelings. As much as you may be crazy about a girl, you need to control yourself cause those feelings might just be infactuation and not love. You cannot depend entirely on girls for happiness. You need to be confident and happy about yourself first before you can be happy with someone else. As a matter of fact, because you are happy with yourself, you in turn will make others happy whenever you are around them. And all women want a guy who makes them happy. Thats my opinion anyways. Thats what I have learned. |
8/18/2008 |
| sharief |
This is a very educating article Ms.Pakhare I will try these techniques when I go out with the girl of my dreams and there is one thing that I want to know and it's are you seeing anyone? |
8/12/2008 |
| Francesco |
has it ever worked? |
8/8/2008 |
| ALEX |
NOW I AM VERY HAPPY IWANT TO MAKE MORE GIRL FRIENDS THROUGH CHAT |
5/22/2008 |
| clive |
she doesnt seem to like me how can i impress her |
3/15/2008 |
| levell |
hi my name is levell |
3/11/2008 |
| John |
I will definitely try these methods and I hope for the best. |
2/29/2008 |
| abhishek |
there many girls who like me but the girl i like doesnot like me how do i get out of this problem its been 7 years since my school days plz help so that i can marry her |
2/26/2008 |
| rahul |
not true tried all nothing happened |
2/26/2008 |
| Arun |
I don't think this is good advice. It's not realistic. How many boys who REALLY hope to get a date will talk to a girl rudely?! Coming from a guy, I know that guys will do just about anything to get a girl to go out with them. And I don't mean that badly. I would mean it genuinely, from the bottom of their heart, when I tell a girl I want to go out with her. That is simply not enough.
A lot of this advice, with no disrespect meant to the author, seems to have a "you know, boys would be a lot better if they thought just a little more (as if boys are supposed to understand how much a little more IS) before they spoke, don't dominate (although in many situations, girls will expect guys to dominate, and are quite turned off if they don't -- again, it's upto the girl to decide when this is a turn-on, and when it's a turn-off), and most, most of all... she's made the flaw of assuming a girl will like a boy who's nice.
That is not advice, it's just flattery to the fairer sex's judgement. It most certainly is not true. |
2/22/2008 |
| david |
how do i build up my confedence befre taking to a girl because ive had 5 bad relationships all and evryone of them relationships has ended up cheating on me and my cofedence is low so how do i up my confedence |
1/17/2008 |
| Carlos |
It is great to discover this site It has everything about relationships. To bad now that my wife and I are separate she left me for another person. I think he may read your articles first. |
1/17/2008 |
| Wolf |
Well, this advice is kinda common-sense, but still good (I'm a girl btw). Nobody wants to be around a person who looks like their mother dressed them and didn't shave their mustache or eyebrows. Cestmoi is also right about he said. Also... where did the author get the idea that girls like astrology...?? |
1/11/2008 |
| Danny Zeek |
really good advice..... |
11/15/2007 |
| love frogs |
it is very horrible |
11/7/2007 |
| Maurice |
This does not help a 17 year old like me who is in high school and is just hoping that the girl of my drema likes me too. Isn't there something else I could try or even look for? |
11/1/2007 |
| Nick |
Haha that helps |
10/31/2007 |
| bull |
pure bull |
9/3/2007 |
| Cestmoi |
I disagree with alot of this article. It's very "woman-centric"... i.e. it is written by someone who has no idea what it's like to be the one doing it and very "mainstreamy". I've spent years going the path "always be dressed neat" and "think carefully"...
...only to watch careless vagabonds take all the cute girls right under my nose... no thanks.
Think carefully is the WORST advice women give to men. That's the main reason men creep women out... because they approach whilst being too much in their head and thinking of what to say, instead of just being themselves and letting things "flow".
Not to trump my own friend's horn, but I believe my buddy has an awesome "getagirltolikeyou" blog about this at wordpress and i've always wondered why more guys don't share their experience like that, but rather let women write articles. |
8/28/2007 |
| Erick |
for me this is very difficult; in the beginning i tried to be her friend, but one boy sent her a flower from me and all my plan was destroyed. when she got that flower and i denied it!! , i was to coward to tell her what i felt for her. i feel now i like her very very much, i always see her at school, but always pass away from her, if she only know me, i don't have bad intentions... i've never had a gf, i've even had chances with other ones but havent taken them... because of her. |
8/15/2007 |
| EDWARD |
I THINK THAT GIRLS LOOK GOOD IN DRESSES |
8/14/2007 |
