| Name |
Views and Comments | Date |
| mary |
I want to know why men say hateful things like leave, even though they are joking around, it still hurts. |
8/26/2009 |
| jay |
We leave because it gets fustrated feeling alone when we are with someone. Especially if and when they do need the female she is not there, we feel abondanded* |
8/3/2009 |
| Kay |
Will a man sometimes make up a story just to get out of a relationship with someone that he says he loves because of fear, etc.? |
1/23/2009 |
| mike villanueva |
The article is boring and exagerating... |
1/19/2009 |
| Anna |
I think this article is probably true. All good points to the writer of the article.
It just makes me angry again at men who punish us women for their own faults. I have suffered so much because of that in my life and its not funny. I am not able to forgive them I want something or somebody to compensate it for me. But it will probably never happen because if there was God he wont let this universal unjustice and cruelty of mens psychology happen. It does not help that I understand it - understanding does not take away the hurt. |
11/17/2008 |
| autumn |
I am in love with a guy that was attracted to me and now he is only my room mate. We sleep together have sex together and go places together. But he treats me like dirt. The only time he treats me right is when he wants something. I am stupid I know. He said to me I needed lipo and breast implants. I lost a lot of weight and I still do not look good to him. I have seen the pics of the girls he chats to they are fat so what is the big idea? He used to call me beautiful and now he is a slob and has taken over my life. |
10/9/2008 |
| chee chee |
uhh.......... i kinda thought this was a teen web site
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2/4/2008 |
| Srtodd |
My man constantly tells me i dont understand him or his country(panama) |
1/23/2008 |
| god_hottie |
If like this, I think that kind of men fit to CASUAL, to casual, no strings attached. If you're happy and comfortable with the relationship for long time not leave relationships that means that relationship is your love.
(some of my friends get some success from CASUALLOVING). |
1/10/2008 |
| NINA |
"Affairs are not the cause of a relationship break-up…instead they are the symptom of a relationship that is highly lacking!"
I agree the words in my friends blog at "CASUALLOVING COM". |
12/9/2007 |
| Nena |
I now have a better understanding why he left. Is it possible they would also leave if you are more intelligent than they are. You are not letting them lead the way. The relationship becomes competition and they don't want to lose so they leave. |
10/30/2007 |
| frankie |
Brenda Shoshanna fails to mention the reasons men leave women are that some women are simply crazy, some are controlling, some are demanding, some are manipulating....etc. It has everything to do with the women men are with! I thought it was a good book but all it really does is bash men, saying men have issues...and at the same time lift women's egos by telling the women that nothing is their fault. |
3/19/2007 |
| Carol |
I live in Alabama and my boyfriend who came from Washington state moved out of my house last April 2006 after he moved in August 2005, because he told me that he was insecure within himself, so he said and after his son moved in, and my two grown kids moved back in and that is was getting a little too crowded for him around here . I later learned from his mother and son he had been chatting and talking on the phone with another woman in PA a week before Thanksgiving and just before Thanksgiving he went up to PA where she lives and stayed two weeks with her and left his son down here who is 18 who does not drive, does not work, and does not go to school because of severe emotional problems alone at his house. I asked his son what was going on and he told me it was another woman he went to visit and that they were going to move in with her and her 14 and 19 yr. after the first of the year. Now remember one of his excuses for moving out of my house was because of too many people in my house. This was decided by his father the second week he was up there. When he came back the earlier part of this month and admitted that he had known this woman, Suzi is her name, for three years longer than he knew me and that he always had an interest in her and that he was waiting to make it happen at the right time for them. He also told me that they had always loved one another and did not realize how much until now. He told me he just wanted us to remain as friends and I told him I did not feel that it would be appropriate to remain as friends with him since he would be living with another woman. He told me that she had her friends and that he had his as long as they were not intimate with them. He still talked with his ex girlfriends and some were his best friends! I think not!!! I do not trust men who talk to OTHER women online and that it can lead to other things just in my case! I have asked other men and women who are in relationships including my son and his fianance and they both said NO WAY! She would not trust that nor would he. I asked others and they felt the same way. Not online with someone they never met and did not know!! My boyfriend did not meet his new girlfriend until three years later and when they met at Thanksgiving they decided to live together!! We have known each other since Feb. 2005 almost two years...and he knew her longer than me. He told me his orginal plans were to move to PA and when he met me he decided to give us a try first and see if it worked out, which it did not. She was on his mind the entire time.
Also, you do not really know someone until you have dated them for a while and then you decide if it is the right time to move in with each other....then that is when you REALLY get to know them...Two weeks does not get it....it is only the honeymoon stage in a relationship...the real skeletons do not come out of the closet until you have be with them a while....right?
I learned this after he moved in with me and seven months later he and his son moved out and I saw him gradually move further away from me in the relationship and unbeknowing to me he was developing a much closer relationship with this woman. This is what I learned from my own experience and she is going to learn this also. She has kids and he has his handicapped son who has problems....he collects a check and does not work right now...too...he says he is going to get a job as soon as workmen's comp trains him and finds him a job....oh sure..he has not worked in five years from an on the job accident. He fell and crushed his ankle and leg and has had 12 surguries and almost lost his leg. He had to go through two more here in Alabama. He is scheduled to be released 1/10/07 he thinks. Then he is leaving at the end of Jan.
Men can be crazy when they lose interest in one woman and developes interest in another women. This is what I have learned from my own experiences. |
12/27/2006 |
