Why do Women Dump Men

It was a usual day when Tony called up his girlfriend Tanya to confirm the venue for their date. She didn’t sound like her regular self that day… "Maybe she is tired from a hard day’s work," he thought. They met at their favorite restaurant. Her apocryphal smile had his heart beating faster. "What could be wrong," he was calculating in his head by now. She lazily browsed through the menu without even looking at him. "Bloody Mary for you darling, your favorite drink to cheer you up?," he asked, trying to figure out a way to get her talking. "I want to try something new, I am so fed up of the same old…," she said with a distinct undertone of authority in her voice, as she set aside the menu card and looked straight into his eyes. The moment he looked into her eyes, he knew she was not just talking about the cocktail…

Getting dumped is perhaps one of the most difficult situations in life. It is only natural for some people to get bitter about such experiences. Remember the Bon Jovi song You give love a bad name? The lyrics exactly capture the bitter words from a broken-hearted lover, who has been dumped! Well, why do women dump men people ask? Well, the reasons are plenty. I am not saying that the women are always right. Sometimes the expectations are ridiculous and irrational, sometimes they are just plain confused, but most of the sane ones have reasons that are justified enough to dump a guy.

Why do women dump men? Why do some relationships fail to last? There are plenty of reasons that we hear normally. Some of the usual ones being, ‘we had nothing in common’, ‘he had commitment issues’, ‘his friends were annoying’ or the most clichéd one being ‘we did not click!’ We’ve heard a lot of reasons about why women dump the men, here is an attempt to analyze all the possible reasons and answer the frequently asked question - Why do Women Dump Men?

For guys who have been dumped, this article will help you to realize what went wrong, and for guys who are currently single, dating, engaged or married - this article will guide you about ‘what not to do in a relationship'. Well, don’t get me wrong since I do not mean to say that it is always the guy who is responsible for the break up - I feel that the success as well as failure of a relationship lies in the hands of both the people involved in it!

There are a few things about men, which are completely unacceptable to women, the first and foremost being - Infidelity. No woman will tolerate a cheating spouse and there is absolutely no reason why she should! One of the other prominent reasons why women break up with men is the lack of attention. No self-respecting woman will stay with a guy who treats her like a doormat. It is just about spending some quality time together and the sweet little things which show how much you care - that is not too much to ask for!

One of the most depressing types of break-up is that involving abusive relationships. Abuse can be either physical or emotional. There is no other way than to dump a guy who harasses you, looks down upon you and dominates you. In addition to this, there are plenty of other reasons that explain why women break up with men.

In addition to all the other reasons, what I feel is that nowadays, a large number of dating men and women are open to the no-strings-attached relationship concepts and hence, opting for relationship breakup or dumping someone is soon becoming a habitual affair. Often at times, we tend to be in a constant search for someone who is better than our current partner, in the hope of having a better relationship or a better boyfriend. The idea of a perfect partner or a perfect relationship is only a mirage, no matter how much you chase it, you’ll never have it! So the next time, you think it is time to dump your boyfriend just because you are bored of him, think twice! I’ve been in a long distance relationship for the past two years and I can understand that there are times when you want to walk out of a relationship - it is only normal to feel frustrated and angry at times. Relationships do not sustain themselves on their own, you always need to work on it, keep the flame alive! When you have your heart and soul into a relationship, no matter how many times you fight and argue, the love will never cease…you just need to re-discover it time and again!