What to Say to a Girl You Love

It is a dilemma for men of all ages, right from a teen who has fallen in love for the first time to a thirty year old who is perhaps in love this time for keeps. The reason behind their confusion is that most men find women very unpredictable and difficult to understand. Men are not sure how a woman will react if they tell her that they are in love with her. In fact, some men do not even know how to approach or talk to a woman. If all this sounds very familiar to you and you are wondering, what to say to a female you love, given below are some tips on conversation starters with women and how to make women like you.

Sweet Things To Say To a Girl

If you want to tell a woman that you like her, there are several ways to go about it. I would suggest that you first try to befriend her. Become her friend and know about her likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc. Pay attention to what she is saying and be there for her whenever she needs someone. Becoming a friend will also help you in knowing whether she is single or not. Once you have reached a certain comfort level with her and you know for sure that she is single, it is time to express your feelings.

Most women appreciate honesty and straightforwardness in a man. So, instead of beating around the bush, tell her directly that you like her and would want to date her. Be ready with the reasons of why you like her. Tell her honestly some of her good things like the way she laughs or the way she argues or how you love spending time with her. All women love to be complimented so even if she does not like you yet, she will feel flattered.

If the girl reciprocates your feelings, good for you! However, if she is still thinking and taking her time, you need to make some more efforts. Once you have told her that you like her, do not pester her or repeat the same as all this would not make her like you in return. Now, instead of thinking how to make her like you, it is time for some action. Through your actions, show her that you care. Open doors for her, pull chairs for her, in short be a thorough gentleman. If you have the same set of friends and have gone in a group together at night, make sure to drop her home safely. If she is ever in some kind of a problem, be the first one to help and support her. As is said "actions speak louder than words", she will soon realize that you are indeed a genuine person.

Let's say that finally she does agree to go on a date with you, now the onus to impress her lies completely on you. Believe me, all girls are suckers for mushy romance stuff so it is time to put your sensitive side forward. But do not be over dramatic or clingy. Be confident and most of all be yourself!

Plan a unique romantic date for the girl. A good idea would be to make dinner for her yourself and arrange a romantic setting, complete with candle lights, red roses and wine on your terrace. The girl will surely appreciate your efforts! Compliment her on her dress and the way she looks. One of the sweet things to say to a girl is to simply tell her how amazing you find her and how lucky you are that she likes you back. Sound very genuine when you say this as girls are pretty good at spotting fakes! If you are really serious about this girl and are thinking "long-term", tell her exactly that. Most women look for lifelong commitment and security from a man. So, if she too likes you genuinely, she will be over-joyed. You can say something like, "I loved you yesterday, I love you today and it's going to remain the same forever"

In the end all I can say is that the outcome of relationships cannot be predicted as the girl may like you or she may totally ignore you. But at least by telling her how you feel, you will know exactly where you stand. And even if things do not turn out the way you want, there are plenty of fish in the water, right?