What Men Find Attractive In Woman?

It is widely held that beauty is subjective. It lies in the eyes of the beholder. While there is a lot of truth in these words, beauty also follows a certain convention. There are aspects that most men would find beautiful or consider beautiful. The most important thing to realize here is that such things are not always skin-deep. There are things like a beautiful mind and a beautiful heart, and these counts much more largely in a deep loving relationship. Yes, physical beauty may not last forever and it is the realization of inner beauty that makes a relationship work over time.

If there is any truth in the adage that opposites attract, it is only natural a man should feel attracted to a woman. There are important and very significant differences - physically, physiologically and mentally – between men and women. Women have been known to have a certain aura of mystery and mysticism about them, and this is what makes them all the more attractive to the opposite sex. Take the enigmatic smile of Leonardo da Vinci’s immortal creation, the Mona Lisa which has intrigued millions of onlookers for ages. We even today are not sure what it stands for. Another figure in history famed for her beauty is the great queen of ancient Egypt, Cleopatra. Her legendary beauty has turned the heads of many great emperors of ancient Rome. Even though the true nature of her beauty has come under a lot of scrutiny in recent times, there is perhaps more than a grain of truth in the fact that she was a truly exceptional woman of remarkable beauty.

However, the topic of discussion here is not Mona Lisa’s smile or Cleopatra’s mystical beauty, but we are trying to understand what men find attractive in women. While the list can truly get very long, the charming smile that most women use to disarm unsuspecting men has to be on the top of it. A beautiful smile can win a thousand hearts in a moment. Most men find a charming, inviting smile too powerful to resist. A smile, it is said, is also the best makeup that a woman can wear. It augments her beauty manifold.

The female form, in general, holds a lot in store for men. The natural feminine attributes of women – their delicate form, long tresses and cool demeanor – all come across in sharp contrast to the general masculine rigidity, and hence are immensely attractive. Some women are blessed with that ‘perfect’ figure, and this alone is enough to lure many a man. Some others have that inviting pair of lips, or the most beautiful locks.

A sweet voice is another attribute that many men find attractive in women. A soft, sweet feminine voice can win the hearts of many men who seek some respite from the din and bustle of everyday life. The perfect end to a busy day perhaps lies in the sweet nothings uttered by your beloved in her sweet voice into your ears. Then of course there is the physical aspect such as the perfect figure that most men just cannot ignore.

Men have been known to get more attracted to women who care more than just their bank accounts and material assets. Politeness is a winner any day. Most men prefer their companions to be less demanding and clinging. In every relationship it is important to give each member his or her own space. Only through such mutual caring and understanding can a relationship bloom into its full glory.

Another very important aspect of women that men like is self-composure. It is always nice to have somebody by your side who has a certain amount of self-confidence. And of course, with a little sense of humor, things can be just perfect for both of you.

Naomi Miller is a relationship consultant and the author of the best-selling dating and relationship e-book, "Meet & Keep the Right Man". Naomi has written dozens of dating articles and has been featured in ezines and print magazines, as well as on hundreds of websites worldwide.

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