What It Takes To Become A Man

Although to become a man is not easy as has been said by people and everyone knows that it's a fact... Being a man, is not a day's job nor a month nor year's... Before one becomes a man, one has to undergo some difficulties/challenges, such as mockery, not having much pride in oneself, not having much time for yourself and so on...

Description:

As the name implies "BECOMING A MAN" can be defined as the process or step a person takes to be on a higher level, so as to prevent him from all difficulties or challenges...

When saying higher level, I mean becoming part of them (what I mean by becoming part of them is that, u would be able to walk with high class of people), and by becoming part of them, he can go anywhere at any time, and when I say any time I mean (any second, any minute, any hour, any day, any week, any month or any year)

WHO IS A MAN?

Although,due to little knowledge of science I had and been taught in school if I could recall, I was told a man is a person that was created in the image of GOD, which can be either male or female........

MAN in the other way can be defined as a special animals that are created to be the king of all other "GOD's CREATIONS".. When I say other GOD'S CREATION, all I mean is that all living and non living things in our surrounding or in the whole world, things such as the aquatic habitat (such as the sea,river and all other water bodies), aquatic animals (such as the fish,crab and so on), terrestrial habitat (such as all sorts of land,such as the plain and so on), terrestrial animals (such as all animals living on land,such as wild (animals in the forest) such as LION, TIGER and so on) and domestic animals (animals at home) such as DOGS,CATS and so on...

Although to me, there is no difference between man (SPECIAL ANIMALS) and real animals.. The only difference between us is that we (human) have high quality of brain (i.e our brain is sharper) than theirs. Take for instance ;A DOG AND A MAN ===

A DOG has 4 legs - MAN has 2 legs,
A DOG has mouth - MAN has mouth
A DOG can talk - MAN talks
A DOG barks - MAN shouts
A DOG Sleeps - MAN sleeps etc..

So my dear reader, I think with this little thing I showed you, I think you can see yourself that we are all animals...

Description OF MAN:

Although, described in the recent page, are description of MAN in scientific ways....

But to me, I'll like to DEFINE MAN as; A person who has the ability or has taken the step a person needs to take to be on the higher level, so as to prevent him from all difficulties or challenges.. Example of a man is A WEALTHY MAN, such as A LAWYER, A DOCTOR and so on. And in term of politics: THE PRESIDENT OF A NATION, THE GOVERNOR OF A STATE, THE CHAIRMAN OF A LOCAL GOVERNMENT and so on....

BENEFIT OF A MAN

I think there is no matter how a thing is good there must be the worst part of it... Take for instance, "ELECTRICITY" , we all know ELECTRICITY is a very good thing and also it take so much important role in human life... So as good as it is, When light comes and you open a socket then try to touch the wire with your hands, What Will Happen?. I think you will get a shock... So that means as it plays an important role in a man's life, it's "DANGEROUS" too ...

So my dear reader When I say "BENEFIT OF A MAN", what I mean is that THE ADVANTAGES and THE DISADVANTAGES of a Man...

ADVANTAGES OF A MAN

1. A man will always go for the best thing. Which makes me remember the proverb that says NO MONEY NO FRIEND/WORD
2. A man can do anything he likes at any time (i.e he's free from challenges and difficulties)
3. A man will always be famous

DISADVANTAGES OF A MAN

1. A man always have much problems i.e physically or spiritually than the poor ones.. Which makes me remember a proverb that says more money more problem.... Cos he will like to go for the best house, car and so on.. And also those that sees him as a MAN will always go to him for assistance... And in spiritual way, the poor ones may make a charm on him that he shouldn't be RICH any more so that he will be like them.

HOW TO BECOME A MAN

Although everyone is created to be a successful person in one way or the other,but doesn't know some actual steps to take before he/she can be in his/her promised land..

Well, as for me, I have about nine(9) steps with little explanation here, that can help you to become "A SUCCESSFUL MAN" if you can follow them...

1. MAKING DECISION:
Well as the name implies, I choose it to be the first step a person needs to take before he/she can become a successful man.. Which simply means one has to draw and create a plan for him/herself. Making decision that, should I become a doctor or a lawyer? and so on..

2. HAVING A GOAL:
Having a goal is the second step one must take to become a successful man... That is one must know the exact thing he/she wants to become..

3. WORKING ON PLAN:
This simply means one must work on what he/she plans to do/become.. One of its advantage is "HARDWORKING" ...

4. IDENTIFY:
This simply means that one should know what he can do and what he cannot...

5. READING:
That is one should learn the habit of reading.. It's advantages include:

(a) Reading helps in speaking and writing good ENGLISH..
(b) It helps to gain and increase in reading skills..
(c) With the aid of reading, u know much better about things u don't know or already known..

6. SOME CHALLENGES:
That is one must try to challenge him/herself on some attitudes. Attitudes like learning how to be QUITE, and also learn how to think.. One of its advantage is that it helps one's difficulties to be solved easily..

7. SELF DISCIPLINE:
That is the act of controlling yourself behavior to good ones, so as to make your dream comes true..

8. THE MUMMAR TELEMENT/TELETOLEMENT:
This simply means one having the ability to listen to other people's corrections when doing a wrong thing. And this can be done by going to other people under difficulties..

9. GOD'S FACTOR:
This is the last step to become a successful man. Which simply means to become a successful man u have to have a great faith in GOD and also his fear....

CONCLUSION
Well in my conclusion,i have not many words to say any more, but reader should please try as much as possible to try to become a man so as to be free any difficulties...

Once again, I'm an hundred percent sure that with all this I've said above, readers will be able to become "A SUCCESSFUL MAN" if he/she follows my steps...

Thanks for reading...
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Published: 9/24/2010
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