Ways To Attract Women Using Words

There are plenty of ways to attract women, but did you know that sometimes all it takes is your words? If you are shy or awkward around women, you've probably never been able to see the benefit of using words to get the girl, but lots of women find a well-turned phrase to be quite attractive. Take some time and read these great tips about how to talk to women and make sure that they have only good things to say back!

1.Have something to say
Avoid being the guy who walks up, says "hi" and then stands there awkwardly. When you are getting ready to engage a pretty woman, don't put the burden on her to carry the conversation. Surely something brought you over to say hello. Were you enchanted by the way she wears her hair, or do you really love the book she's reading? Open up the conversation with a question, but once she's answered it, be ready to come back with something else. The art of conversation's an easy one to learn with just a little bit of practice.

2.Compliment authentically
Every girl loves to be told she's beautiful, but not when it sounds like a line. The problem with pickup lines is that, even if they're true, they sound fake; they sound like one among the million of lines that can be used. What's worse is that they are interchangeable. Don't give the possible girl of your dreams the idea that you consider her interchangeable, so when you compliment her, make sure she knows that you've got her, and her only, in mind.

3.Pay attention
Backing up a little bit, take some time to check the girl of your choice out. What's her style? Does she dress wildly and outrageously or does she prefer to blend into the crowd? Does she look like a goth Elivira wannabe or is she more the sunshine and sage Earth Mother hippie type? The way a person choses to present herself is the way she wants to be seen, so think about what kind of message she wanted to get across when she walks out the door and compliment her on it.

4.Draw her friends into the conversation
While some guides will tell you to get her away from your friends as quickly as possible, this can actually have the drawback of making you seem predatory. Engage her friends in the conversation, but make sure that they one you're giving the lion's share of attention to is her. You can judge a person by the company she keeps, so look at how she treats her friends and vice versa. See how they react to what you say and you'll already have a great idea of the kind of girl you're talking with.

5.Relax!
Nothing says awkward like someone who doesn't know what to do with their hands and body when they are talking. Don't flail, but don't plant your hands in your lap or flat on the table to avoid fidgeting, either. Body language says a lot so don't give the wrong impression with yours. Stay loose and relaxed and pay attention to her body language as well. One great hint is the more squared her body is, the more it is facing you, the more interested she is!

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