Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend - Attract a Girl With Your "Gentlemanliness"

Are you deluding yourself that single-blessedness is bliss, but the bubble is bursting? If you really need tips on how to get a girlfriend, here they are, before Valentine's day rolls past and leaves you alone in the dust.

Be visible.

A good way to find a girl would definitely be to make the rounds. Will you ever get yourself a partner if you persist in being holed up in your room, content with fantasizing about having a girlfriend? Go out and meet people. Have friends help you get out of your shell.

If you're uneasy with the idea of meeting a new person, perhaps you could go on a group date. Having some other friends with you for support can lessen the unease and make you feel more confident and at ease.

Take it slow.

Don't rush to be in a relationship. Don't be a pest by calling and emailing nonstop. Ask when it would be okay to phone her.

Let things flow in a relaxed way. Instead of a full-course dinner, just take her out for coffee. A casual setting such as a cafe will give her time to adjust comfortably and get to know you more. If things turn out the way you desired, then you just may ask her out again.

Be sincere.

Flattery will get you nowhere‚ unless you really mean it. Avoid mouthing cheesy lines you've obviously parroted from Jerry Maguire. This will only make you appear pretentious and contrived.

Be respectful.

Treat her the way you'd want other guys to treat your sister, your mother or any woman you care about. If she declines your invitations, do not force the issue. There will always be other opportunities to meet other girls. Who knows, she might even change her mind and call you back.

Be creative and original.

Flowers and chocolates are sweet gifts; but admittedly, they are quite boring and generic. Give her something unusual, something she will truly appreciate, something that tells her you've put a lot of thought into it. You may want to find out what her preferences are and enlist the aid of her friends to discover what she would really appreciate. They will be more than happy to assist you. Not only will this catch her off-guard, pleasantly, we hope, but it will get you the all-important thumbs-up from her friends as well.

Listen.

Don't keep talking about yourself and your most daring exploits. A meaningful conversation is a two-way street. Make eye contact when she tells you something. Give her your absolute and undivided attention, the feeling that your attention is hers alone. Make her feel like she is the only woman in the world to you.

Be consistent.

So she finally agreed to be your girlfriend. That doesn't mean you can slack and simply neglect to woo her. That stage will never be over, even after you've won her over. Keep on wooing her, and make it a daily habit.

Hit the books and movies.

Try to read self-help books and watch movies on how to woo a woman. Even Hollywood has gems of relationship resources. The movie "Hitch" starring Will Smith is the perfect example.

Above these tips on how to get a girlfriend, always bear in mind that being a gentleman and treating her like a queen is the way to her heart. If you want to get and keep her, by all means, go the gentleman's way and woo her with as much romance as you can muster. I'm sure, you won't go wrong here.

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