Tips on Flirting

Liking a person and not being able to express how you feel is the most horrible thing that can happen to anyone! It is said that the body language in flirting is something that comes naturally, but there are also many people who look, observe and excel in this art. Before I start giving you the most useful tips on flirting, let me make it clear that flirting for me, is the ability or the expression to tell a person that you are interested in being more than friends and NOT otherwise, if you know what I mean!!! This article is strictly about flirting to come close to the person you like, and not to take advantage in the 'other' manner. So are you ready to learn the art of flirting? Well, then let's get started...

Tips on Flirting With Guys

To all the girls who are wanting to tell a guy that you like him, let me warn you...when it comes to flirting with guys, you need to be very very careful in what you do and what you say, when you apply the following tips. The logical reasoning behind this is simple, GUYS HAVE A PRE-DEFINED NOTION for everything a girl does, especially if your guy is the one who happens to have a lot of knowledge about girls!

Smile, But Don't Continue to Look...
The best tip on how to flirt, is that it all starts with a smile! That's your first asset and therefore, you should learn to use it well. Another thing is that this is something that will come naturally to you and therefore you don't have to practice it too much, except making sure that he is watching you smile. When you look at him, smile and then look away, but keep that smile on your face. The guy will find your behavior quite unusual and will more or less, get the signal.

Compliment
Another among the important flirting tips, is to compliment the person quite often. Now the important thing to focus here is the way you compliment him. Guys always run behind things or people who don't run behind them! Compliment him when he is away from the crowd. Also, it is always better to compliment in a low tone. Speak slowly and softly to attract his attention. This tip would be among the effective flirting tips for shy girls as they as it is speak slowly and softly, all you need is the courage to speak to him when he isn't in between a bunch of people. If you can't speak to him face to face, then you can also go through some flirting tips for texting and flirt through SMS.

Don't Blabber..., Just Listen!!!
It is difficult for us girls to not to be our normal talkative self at times. But it is important at times to be a good listener and talk only to speak the word of 'positivity'! There are some guys who don't like girls who talk too much, while there are some who like listening to whatever you say. But, in order to be on the latter side, you need to know how to make a guy like you, right? Guys like girls who can give them a positive vibe. By patiently listening to a guy and understanding what he says, you can just prove to be the girl he wants in his life. This is something that should come naturally to you, if it doesn't, there is no point doing it.

Always Look Your Best
It is sad, but yes, guys always get attracted to good looks and good smell! We can't blame them for that, the same is the case with us girls..., well, most of the time! If you really want this guy to go head over heels for you, then you too, must always look your best wearing a smile on your face and by being approachable! If you have any idea about his favorite color, his preferences, etc., then try to apply them on you. Be the girl of his dreams and he will respond by showing some signs through his body language. Once he responds, he is on his way of becoming your prince charming!

Tips on Flirting With Girls

When it comes to flirting with a girl, though we do not carry a PRE-DEFINED notion, it is difficult to win our hearts! We can get very skeptical at times, so try to be as genuine as you can, when it comes to flirting! We like guys who can understand us, in spite of the fact that we cannot understand ourselves! We look for guys who can take care of us and pamper us. So you have to show us that you care at each and every effort that you take to come near us!

Show That You Care
Like how men tend to flirt usually, is just the opposite of what we want. We don't want them to show us their 'alpha male' behavior!!! Or, the attitude of 'no one else knows stuff that I know'! If you really want this girl to fall for you, then all you need to do is to show that you care about her. You can do this by 'genuinely' complimenting her on her efforts, or by asking her if she requires your help in something!

Support Her
It's not that we think we are weak and want men to support us emotionally or otherwise! Your gesture of supporting the girl that you like just shows that you totally understand and agree with her point of view! Although, don't support her or agree to things that you don't agree with. Be a friend more, and a guide too! Leave the philosophical part for extreme cases! :-)

Make Her Smile
No, I don't want you to dress up like a joker and do this! This works well if you possess a good sense of humor! Girls always get attracted to guys who can make them smile. In fact, everyone looks for people who can make their life a happier one, be it a girl or a guy. So brush up on your sense of humor and be sure to get the girl you want! If you think that you are too shy to do that, the good news is that some girls prefer the guys who are shy as compared to the outgoing ones. They say they can be more loyal and faithful when it comes to a committed relationship!

Body Language is Important!
Girls always notice the body language of a guy, as it speaks for the intentions that lies beneath! So make sure your body language gives approachable and friendly flirting signs and not 'otherwise'! So make sure you have a friendly smile, a genuine liking and a natural nervousness when you approach a girl. It will show that you are just trying to tell her that you like her and are not just 'taking a chance on her'! You will be successful if the girl responds and shows the signs through the flirting body language. If this happens, then be sure that your efforts are being fruitful!

Flirting can be fun, if done in a harmless manner, and these tips and tricks help you in just doing the same! I really hope that these help you in getting the guy/girl that you like, and may you live happily ever after. All the best! :)