Things Girls Wish Guys Knew

"Guys are simple... women are not simple and they always assume that men must be just as complicated as they are, only way more mysterious. The whole point is guys are not thinking much. They are just what they appear to be. Tragically." ~ Dave Berry

Yes, that is the case in most times. Men and guys really are simple and female emotions are a bit complicated. But that's life and we have to deal with it. Guys have more sorted emotions than most girls but then you need to know what's going on in a girl's mind. For this very reason, here are 10 things girls wish guys knew about them or rather just things that girls wish guys knew. So, let's know them and know them well.

10 Things Your Girlfriend Wants You to Know About Her

It's STILL The Connect
Of all the things, this one is perhaps the most important. Guys often don't understand that at the end of everything, what matters the most is still the connect that two people share. If the moment, that connect or the comfort zone is not so comfortable anymore, the relationship is as good as over. If you are a guy who is just wooing the girl right now, make sure you pay enough attention to this detail. Feelings, sharing, caring and emotional bonding still ranks number 1 for us girls.

Violence ISN'T Macho
This is really something I would personally wish guys knew. Violence and all that macho act isn't going to help you. Yes, it is something when you see that guy you love showing off those muscles and that power but that isn't what we girls look for. Being the tough guy will portray you as the not-really-sensitive guy later. Do I even need to mention how that is going to affect you in the long run? Men and relationships are a strained concept for most women, don't strain it more.

Yes, it's R-O-M-A-N-C-E
Romance is a magical word. It can help guys through absolutely anything. So, you think you've done something wrong? Accept it and apologize. Do this the romantic way! Get the music, the flowers and the candles. Girls are forgiving by heart but never take that quality for granted. Guys have to know that the way to a girl's heart is by through romance. Romance is and always has been the key. As for the girls, they'll probably never want anything more than just a few special moments.

'I Love You' are the Magical words
I call these the magical words because they indeed work like magic. It is very important to say these words even if you don't think so. No matter how many times you say it, girls never get bored and you'll always see them smile whenever you say it. And boy, you better mean it when you say it because we'll know that too. If you can't say it to her face, text them to her, and your work is done.

Carefree and Careless is NEVER good
Guys often think girls like the cool and casual guy hanging around the corner. But very seldom that is the case. Girls like guys who are well grounded and have a stable air about themselves. Carefree literally means a person who doesn't care much and to think of it, who would like that? So, if you are a guy, you now know what it takes to keep your woman well with you forever.

The Art of Pampering
Oh! Don't we all girls wish the guys to master this art? Personally, I feel this is the most important of the things girls wish guys knew about. You have to pamper your girl. You need to take care of her in a way nobody does. Pamper her with small picnics, trips and gifts. However, the most important part is that you pamper your girl with your time and attention. Small things don't make a huge difference. If she's tired, give her a nice massage or just cook for her when she's down. This shows you really want to and are doing something for your girl.

Basic Details Aren't Basic After All...
Girls expect their guy to know everything about them and why not? How are we to know whether you know us at all! Favorites play the most important part here. Favorite color, favorite movie, favorite song, favorite restaurant, favorite cuisine, favorite author...basically favorite everything! Other basic details such as ambitions, academic history, parental background are important too. Knowledge of these will make the girl feel that you actually know her and that you have actually remembered it all. Besides, knowing these may be of immense help too. Next time you want to take her out for dinner, you know what place to go.

Don't Try to Understand, just Listen!
There are times, when guys really don't have to understand. Guys have a lot of questions when it comes to the emotional side of certain things. Take a break here and learn the art of listening. Don't try understanding everything right then and there. Keep your questions for later. There are times when we girls just want to talk our hearts out and don't want/need/require interruption.

Too Touchy? Not Good!
This dating tip for men is relevant for those who love hurrying into things. This is something all women and girls wish guys knew about them. They don't like guys who hug, hold hands and kiss for no real reason. This can make the girl extremely uncomfortable and can also send wrong signals from your end. If you have just met the girl, avoid holding hands and kissing on purpose in movies and cafes. It will get her irritated and make you look really stupid. Give her time and wait until she feels okay with it.

.. And Yes, Gifts are ALWAYS Welcome
GIFTS! Small ones, big ones, nice ones, not so nice ones, all of them are welcome. Guys often waste a lot of time thinking what to gift girls, but they don't know that anything they give, will be appreciated and treasured. For guys who don't think, this is free advice. Buy something nice for your girl and make her feel good. Even flowers work wonders. And yes, you need to gift not because it's compulsory or something but gifting something will make the girl feel that you thought of her and took this extra effort. This is one of the many things of what girls want guys to know.

So now that you know all the things girls wish guys knew about them, it is time to keep them in mind and play the game. Try to implement the above mentioned things and some flirting tips in your relationship with her and I'm sure it'll help both of you more than you expect it to. This ain't any secret formula but if used well, it surely will give you results you like. If you haven't understood anything of the above mentioned stuff, just make sure you be the person you are and you don't need anything else. Keep it simple!