Taking Back Control - More of How to Get Back With My Ex Girlfriend

In a previous article I laid out how my ex girlfriend threw me out and how I was just devastated. With some advice from my boss, I learned some vital steps on how to get back with my ex girlfriend.

The first thing was to stop all contact with my ex, totally. Then to sit down and figure out what it was that she had problems with concerning me and work on changing those aspects of my life.

Once I'd done that, and I was being really serious about improving myself, my boss told me the next step was to go out and live life. I said, "What are you, nuts? How is that going to help me get her back? Shouldn't I be trying to get in touch with my ex?"

He said, "Not yet. Later. Right now, you need to give her time get over the break up, let her have her space and time to reflect on the past. Let her figure out what she wants to do. But most of all, you want to give her time to miss you."

So, I went out with friends to the bars and clubs, concerts and movies, parties and celebrations. There were some women who were attracted to me and I admit I was tempted, but none of them measured up to my ex. And of course my friends and their girlfriends were constantly trying to hook me up with someone. I mean I still went out on dates but it was nothing serious and I made sure it stayed completely innocent.

It was just that with all the changes I was trying to make, I realized that I was ready to make one of the biggest changes in my life and I wanted it to be with my ex girlfriend. I know there's some guy out there who knows exactly what I'm talking about. My ex was the ONE for me and I didn't want to loose her.

Let's see, by now about three, almost four months had gone by and I hadn't had any contact with my ex at all. My buddy called me at work and said that my ex had left a message on the answering machine trying to get a hold of me. My boss had told me that if this happened, and it probably would, then to go ahead and talk to her, BUT to keep it short and polite.

So the next time she called, I acted like I was about to step out the door to go somewhere and kept the conversation to just a couple of minutes. She was calling because she was missing one of her stuffed animals and she was wondering if in her haste she packed it in with my stuff. I told I'd be sure to check and give her a call back and let her know.

The following week, I called her back, keeping it a short conversation again, and let her know that I hadn't found her stuffed animal. But I asked if maybe she wanted to get together over a drink sometime. She said yeah so I said I'd call later and we'd make plans.

I let her wait a few more days and called again and we played the game of "I've got plans that night, I have to do my hair, I'll be out of town that day" and so on. But I made a date with her to have a drink later the following week.

Now the short and skinny of all this is we eventually did get back together again. It took time and a lot of work but we made it. I remember when we first broke up, I was wondering to myself, "How To Get Back With My Ex Girlfriend?" and if I really could do it. My boss's advice came through for me and now I know anything is possible.

What exactly did my boss advise me to do? He said to check out a website that helped him win his ex girlfriend back and now they are married. So, that's what I did and I will never regret it. My advice to you... find out what else you can do to win your ex back at WWW.HOWTOMAKEYOUREXWANTYOUBACK.INFO.