Sympathy Card - What to Write

People can write out their hearts when it comes to happy occasions. But someone's death is a bitter reality of life which everyone has to face someday or the other. 'What to write in a sympathy card?' is a question that comes to our mind. People hesitate while writing in a sympathy card. Many of them cannot find the appropriate words for the same. Here are some tips on what you can include.

Tips on Writing a Sympathy Card

• It is better to keep the wordings short rather than making them elaborate and long.
• If the deceased person is closely related to you then your sympathy card should express that person's importance in your life and what that person meant to you.
• If the deceased person is not closely related to you then it is better to write a short and simple message.
• Your message should express your recognition about the person's loss for whom you are writing the card.
• It is always good to put your signature at the end of the card rather than your first name or initials even if you have written it for your close relatives because there might be other members in your family having the same name.
• Please do not use phrases like "It was his time to go".

Sympathy Card Samples

You can convey your feelings and condolences through a sympathy card. What to write in it, is a question that generally confuses people. The specimens mentioned below will prove to be helpful in writing effective and meaningful sympathy cards.

Sample 1: Loss of a Father

These messages tell you what to write in a sympathy card for the loss of father.

• Message 1: I am truly sorry for your loss. I know how much your dad meant to you. He was your ideal and a hand to lead you through the dark phases of life. He will always remain in our hearts.
• Message 2: Don't lose hope and faith in anything. And whenever you do, just remember your dad's saying "It could have been worse, dear." I am sorry for your loss.

Sample 2: Loss of a Mother

These examples give you an idea about what to write in a sympathy card for loss of mother.

• Message 1: I don't have words to express my grief. Your mom was a wonderful lady. I remember the wonderful meals your mom cooked for us and the times we spent together. It is really hard to believe that she in not amongst us now. I am really sorry for your great loss.
• Message 2: I am extremely sorry for your loss. Your mom had such a loving and dynamic personality. I am sure none of us will be able to forget her. Please remember that I am always there for you.

Sample 3: Loss of a Child

You can give a short poem or some sympathy sayings in the beginning of the card."As a butterfly graces our lives with one moment's fragile beauty, so too has your baby's presence blessed you, and those that surround you, with his short life and unique spirit. May you find peace, and joy with each butterfly that passes, knowing that your baby lives on in the hearts of all he touched." I am deeply grieved. Please do not lose hope. I am really sorry for your loss.

Sample 4: Loss of a Pet

Pets are our loyal companions and become a very important part of our lives just like the other family members. Here are some examples on what to write in a sympathy card for a pet. You can start the card with a quote or saying.

• There's a special place in heaven
  That's been reserved
  For all the dogs who so faithfully served
  Those of us whose hearts are bereaved
  When our place on earth they must leave.

I am really very sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences for the loss of your loyal and friendly companion.

Sample 5: Loss of a Co-worker

Sympathy cards for co-workers should be simple and to the point. It could be sent personally if you are a close friend otherwise the card should be from all the staff of the company.

• With our deepest sympathy for your loss please accept our condolences for the loss of your mother - Staff at ABC

This was an example of a sympathy card for a co-worker. However, you can modify the message according to your relationship with the person.

It is definitely not very simple to write sympathy cards. What to write in it is a common question asked by people. However these messages might help you in understanding how they are written. You can also modify your messages accordingly.