Swinger Couples – 5 Great Tips for New Couples Looking to Swing!

Want to spice up your love life by becoming a swinger? Then take a look at these important tips that are necessary for any new couple. You'll find out how to handle this swinging lifestyle safely and what the best ways are to find other swinging couples are.

My wife and I have been swinging for over 4 years. We also run our own website that gives more swinging tips and advice. Currently, our main method of meeting new swinger couples is through the use of married personals such as Ashley Madison Agency. We have received tons of e-mails requesting newbie advice, so we thought that we would write up some VERY IMPORTANT tips that would benefit a lot of couples that are new to swinging:

1. Do not let them know about your identity. The reason is because if the person you're going to see is cheating, then you won't want them to know too many details about yourself. For example, if your new partner is a woman and her husband finds out that she's cheating, then you won't like the scene that will come afterwards when the angry husband comes along.

Try and book a hotel room so that they won't know the location of your home. Don't let them know your real name (or at least your full name), don't tell them where you work and what you do, and don't leave anything lying around that may contain your ID (such as a wallet or purse).

2. If you and your partner are not sure whether or not you would be comfortable with swinging, we have a suggestion: Try and do a little bit of role playing. By role playing, you'll be able to get yourself ready for the actual sex fling. For example, a good method is using blindfolds. You and your partner take turns putting it on each other while pretending that the other person is a complete stranger. Do you two feel comfortable? Does it feel more sensual than usual?

3. Since you're new at swinging, it's a good idea to find another swinger couple that's new too. It can feel sort of intimidating when you do it with someone experienced, so when everyone's not experienced, it doesn't seem so scary and makes the night much more enjoyable.

4. How do you mention to your partner that you would like to give this swinging lifestyle a try and that you would like to consider married personals? This might be a hard topic to bring up in a married relationship. However, the best time for you to bring this up would be during lovemaking. There are many other methods out there of bringing this topic up, but after speaking to several other swinger couples, I have come to the conclusion that this is the most popular and successful method.

So when you are having sex, bring up the topic of bringing another person or couple in to bed with you two. If possible, see if you can turn this into a role playing session. If you partner seems to be enjoying it, then make a suggestion to give it a try.

After you two are finished with sex, bring the topic back up again. If your partner says yes to it, then that's great! Almost 99% of the time, when they respond well to it in bed, they WILL respond well to the idea afterwards too! Now, you've successfully brought up the idea of trying the swinger lifestyle and using married personals!

5. Do your best to get to know about your new partners online. Before me and my wife meet up with the other swinging couple, we talk with them and learn about them as much as possible. As I've mentioned previously, my wife and I like to use
Ashley Madison Agency to find other swinger couples. Online personals are quick and easy, and you'll be able to browse through hundreds of people. Also, you'll know that they're looking for the same exact type of fling.

We recommend that when you find other swinger couples, you chat with them online for approximately a week. You should talk on the phone, exchange photos, and send messages to each other. Soon, the two couples should meet each other in a non-sexual setting. An example would be for coffee, lunch, some drinks, etc. They may seem like great people online, but the attraction may not click when you see them in person. When you meet them this way, you'll find out if they're a good couple to swing with.

I hope my tips helped all you potential swingers out there! Be sure to follow these tips when you're looking at
married personals, and play it safe when meeting other swinging couples!