So, What Do I Want?

Often we deliberate creators get the occasional unwanted thought or negative moment that we dwell upon. Isn’t it funny how it’s never our fault? "My mother made me feel like that" or "If he hadn’t of said that, then I wouldn’t feel this way".

It’s a difficult task to ensure that you are only ever thinking positive thoughts. You shouldn’t be alarmed if you do find yourself thinking a thought that doesn’t serve you. The simple fact that you’ve noticed that you’re not thinking something that will serve you immediately puts you ahead of 95% of the population.

When in conversations with friends or family and the other person starts talking in a negative domineer you have two choices to make. You can either;

1. Continue to listen to it and do your best not to let it affect you. This is pretty impossible since words are what create thoughts in your head which determines your emotions. Unless you completely switch off and do not listen to a word of it, this is going to be a hard thing to do.

2. Make the decision that feeling good means something to you and you end the conversation as soon as possible.

You may be thinking, well I like my brother, mother or friend and I don’t want to just cut them off and not speak to them. We are not encouraging you not to speak to them, we are only encouraging you not to continue dialog with them whilst they are in a negative vibration.

The only reason you were able to speak to that person in the first place is because your vibrations were a close match. Now in the conversation it took a turn for the worse and your friend or family member started to vibrate at a more negative level than before. Do you want to go down there with them?

You can’t help them down there. The best thing for you to do is to recognise that feeling good means something to you and lead by example. Cut the conversation off, go do something to improve your own vibration and do not give a second thought to the other person. They will be just fine and everything that is happening in their own life is perfect for them.

This is a very orderly universe.

When you do notice that you are thinking negatively it is not uncommon for deliberate creators to try and suck that thought back because they know that thoughts are defining their reality. This process of trying to get your thought back is actually activating the thought even more as you are giving it attention.

Instead of flurrying and worrying over a single thought, simple ask yourself the following question:

"So, what do I want?"

And in that moment, give your attention to what it is that you do want. All things that you say you’ve been wanting are on their way to you in abundance, just feel good about it and know that feeling good means something to you.