Signs that Show the Guy is not Interested in You

Are you head-over-heels in love with a man who has no time for you? Or are you with a man who does not even bother to know things about you? Here are some signs that show the guy is not interested in you. Time to take a reality check!
Signs that Show the Guy is not Interested in You
You think of various ways to be with him, yet nothing seems to work. You dress your best yet he never seems to notice although you know you have people admiring you. Somehow, no matter what you do to keep him happy, you never feel completely at ease. Yet you continue to love the man deeply! Well, women often go that extra mile for the man she loves without really knowing if the guy is interested in her or not! Let’s face it girls, you would need the man to be equally interested in you to have a healthy relationship! If you are feeling unhappy about certain things no matter how hard you try, it’s time you face the truth. Here are some sign that show the guy is not interested in you. So brace yourself and get to know the facts and know if you are honestly barking up the wrong tree!

Signs that Show the Guy is Not Interested in You:

You should know a guy is not interested when he…
…never calls you back! Are you the one who is always calling him up to know how he is getting along during the day? Does he ever take the same effort? Sometimes men may play hard to get. In that case, time would reveal his true intentions. If you are the kind who calls him way too often and he only calls back to return your calls or with an excuse he was in a board meeting, it’s better you find somebody who appreciates talking with you.

You should know a guy is not interested when he…
…does not include you in all his plans. How often have you gone out on a Saturday night? Does he even ask you out for a date? Or does he ask as per his convenience? A man who is really and truly interested in you will plan something special sometimes or at least meet you regularly. If he does not bother to ask you out, and you are the one who is constantly making an effort to meet him, then it’s better you read the right signs rather than wait for him to take you out.

You should know a guy is not interested when he…
…does not talk to you openly or make an effort to get to know you better. When a person is interested in you, he/she would try to know loads about your likes and dislikes. He would ask you questions about your hobbies and family. Well, it is also true that certain men take time to open up. You would be the best judge to the amount of time you give to this particular man and how long are you prepared to wait to know if he is really interested in you.

You should know a guy is not interested when he…
…does not even bother to introduce you to his family of friends. He may talk a lot about them and go out with them, but if he does not bother to introduce you to people who are most important to him in life, well, you can definitely know he is not interested. Although, the man may not be ready for it yet, there would soon be a time when you would need to spend time with his folks and friends to get to know him better. It would again be a matter of individual choice for the woman about the amount of time she devotes in waiting for her man to introduce her to his family and friends.

These were some of the signs that show a guy is not interested in you. Of course, you would also have to gauge the situation yourself to know where the relationship is heading towards. Talking it out with the person would be a sensible option. In any case, if the man does not shower you with love, affection, respect and appreciation, he is not worth all the trouble girls! Wait and watch and you are bound to find the man of your dreams soon!

By Kashmira Lad
Published: 8/22/2008
 
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