Signs She's Cheating

Did you think that cheating in a relationship is simply a man's prerogative? Well, you were highly mistaken if you did. Women cheat too. However, a lesser ratio of women would indulge in cheating. This is because women are more emotional as compared to men, and somehow, the emotions of the relationship issues tend to come in the way of the cheating. Nonetheless, women cheat. We are better at keeping it a secret, so you better keep an eye out for these tell-tale signs.

Signs that Show Your Girlfriend is Cheating on You
Alright then, here is a general list on the signs that the woman is cheating on you.

• Change in approach to sex. It could either mean drastic reduction in the amount of times you have sex, or that her craving has increased.
• She has become too nice. Have you heard the phrase, "If it's too good to be true, it probably isn't". Well, that could be the case with your woman. If she becomes too accommodating about your tastes and wishes, there is a chance that she could be cheating on you. Then why would she be nice? One might ask. Well, that is to keep you happy, and to keep her guilt from taking over. This is one of the signs that she has someone else.
• Her dressing changes drastically. Well, if that is the case, then there is quite a chance that she could be cheating on you.
• She has a new friend who she meets regularly. If you don't know this new friend, and she is not willing to introduce, then there is a chance that she is either with someone else, or cheating on you with that friend.
• If you are not her number 1 priority any more, and nor is the family, then she could be indulging behind your back. You need to however, be a little careful with this sign, it could mean that she is simply falling out of love with you. .
• If her general vocabulary consists more of the word "I" where it used to have "we", then she may be cheating on you. This tends to happen if the relationship has been going off for a long time, and things have become mundane.
• If she keeps her schedule and contacts a secret from you, she is definitely cheating on you in one way or another. In any relationship, transparency is of the essence. So, if she is avoiding it, something is gravely amiss. It is a major sign of a cheating girlfriend.

All these signs will take a while to become obvious. Under most circumstances, the men just don't see it coming. So, if she has given you a reason for doubt, then keep a look out for these signs.

Signs She's Cheating in a Long Distance Relationship
Rules for long distance relationships change to a certain extent. The signs we discussed above may not hold true in case of a long distance relationship. So, if one is in a long distance relationship, then how does one know if she is unfaithful?

• If she no longer asks you of your whereabouts, there is a possibility that she could be cheating. She doesn't ask you because she doesn't want you to ask her.
• If she never answers your call at an unexpected time. If you have a stipulated time to talk, then she will make sure that she is free for you at that time. At an unexpected time, she will not always be busy. If she never answers, then something is amiss, big time!
• If you don't hear the urgency in her voice. In most long distance relationships, the couple seems to develop this urgency for each other, due to the distance. If you don't hear the urgency any more, there may be someone else satisfying it.
• If she always insists that she comes to meet you rather than the other way round, it means that she is hiding something from you. In this case, it could be another boyfriend.

Keep in regular contact with her. Make sure that you give her as much attention as possible. This will dissuade her from going outside the relationship. Many couples explore the option of intimacy over the telephone to keep their other senses satisfied and to keep the partner loyal. You can try out that option as well.

In any relationship, there has to be a reason for a person to go out of the relationship. So, if you have a reason to doubt her loyalty, confront it with her. If there is enough love in a relationship, one discretion may be forgotten. So, confront your partner about your doubts, and keep her as happy as you can. This is where I sign off!!