Signs of Attraction

Some say that human beings are born to procreate, and as such it becomes impossible to ignore some clear cut physical signs of attraction. It's natural human tendency (for men and women) to see an attractive person of the opposite sex (or the same sex), and have a strong desire to look again. What is it, that drives people to be attracted to each other? It's a primal instinct that has always been present in us, and it will never fade away.

Now, since this is a common occurrence that has been happening since time immemorial, there are some glaring signs of attraction that show if a person is attracted to another person. You may find that some people are more perceptive to these physical signs of attraction, and sometimes, this is just something that you have to live with. Let's have a brief look at some of the most obvious signs of attraction, that clearly indicate the presence of some love juices flowing at the sight of another person, and also marks the beginning of a relationship.

Men
Men are often accused of being greater philanderers than women, and are said to possess more of a roving eye. This is true to a certain extent, as men are more vocal about such things. Women are not far behind in this respect, but are a little more conservative regarding this, in most cases. But women are better at veiling and disguising their feelings of attraction, and as a result of this, it is easier to detect signs of attraction from men.

You'll see many men getting the jitters around an attractive woman, and more often than not, it will be pretty obvious that this man has developed an affinity for her. Appearing nervous, stammering, sweaty palms, and incoherent blabbering are just some of the signs of attraction that a guy likes you. If a guy is suddenly dressing up more often when he meets you, or is unnaturally smelling like he's bathed in cologne, maybe he's trying to tell you something.

Take my word for it when I say that guys are bad listeners. It's probably not in our nature to genuinely hear what another person is saying, and this shows some undoubted remnants of the caveman instincts that fail to leave us. But, if you suddenly find that a guy is all ears and is a willing listener to inconsequential gibberish about your cosmetics, and shopping habits and other 'womanly' matters, then maybe you need to get wind and realize that he's attracted to you.

Out of the many signs of attraction that a guy likes you, it does not get clearer than when he misses his favorite game to talk to you. Or passes up a chance to hang out with his buddies in order to spend some time around you. If you're looking for a guy to cling on to, this could be him. Because after all, women constantly need an ego massage every now and then, and who better to start a relationship with, than a guy whose mightily attracted to you.

Women
As I said before, women can easily disguise their signs of attraction and as such it becomes extremely difficult to be perceptive to these. But there are cracks here and there, which can shade some light on the fact that a woman is attracted to you. There are some clear body language signs of attraction like a lot of smiling, a lot of touching while speaking. Most men have no clue about such things though, and women being the mystifying creatures that they are, have the ability to completely astound and stupefy a lesser man.

As it works with men, if you find a woman taking keen interest in things, that barely interest them, for your sake alone, then you probably don't need a clearer indicator. When she talks to you about your favorite games and teams, you know that she fancies you. Over a period of time, you'll start seeing things in a clearer light, and you'll become more receptive to all the body language signs of attraction from women.

At the end of the day, it's all about being comfortable in your own skin. Learn to love yourself and who you are first, and it'll rub off on the people around you. Looking for signs of attraction does not imply that you need to alter who you are. Do not try and change yourself too much for the sake of others, just be yourself and have faith that sooner or later you'll find someone who appreciates you and respects you for who you really are.