Mother of the Groom Speech

Making a mother of the groom speech isn't exactly a standard practice, but if you find yourself in such a situation read on to know how to make a great mother of the groom wedding speech.
Mother of the Groom Speech
So your son has finally grown up and has decided to take the leap of faith. It's one of the happiest days of his life (his wedding day) and you could not ask for a better match for him. What better way to celebrate this joyous occasion than a public display of oratory bedazzlement in front of all family members and friends. It's best to be prepared for such a moment and if you keep a few pointers in mind you will pull off a magnificent mother of the groom speech.

Introduce Yourself
First and foremost everyone needs to know who you are. Attract everyone's attention, ask the band to stop playing the wedding music for a bit of time and introduce yourself as the mother of the bridegroom. Remember not everyone will know who you are so to avoid confusing them, make your relationship to the groom absolutely clear.

Thank Everyone
Next up go ahead and thank everyone for being present there. Comment on what an exceptionally joyous occasion it is and how you're absolutely thrilled that everyone that matters could make it. Patronizing inebriated guests always ensures that they end up having a good time.

Thank the Bride and her Parents
Now you need to address the family that you're welcoming into your life. You must tell them how happy it makes you to know that your son's marrying into such a great family. Mother of the groom wedding speeches are meant to be overboard and over the top, so don't restrain yourself.

Talk About Your Son
Now it is time for you to speak about what a great and special kid your boy is. Recollect memories and incidents from his childhood days so as to make the speech humorous. Embarrass your boy but make sure that you don't end up humiliating or offending him.

Address the Bride
This is perhaps the most important part of your mother of the groom speech. Welcome the bride with open arms into your family and wish her a superb life ahead of her. Pass on some wisdom and anecdotes to her about married life, kids and love.

Ending
Now you can wrap up your mother of the groom wedding speech by quoting a famous line or poem or even composing one yourself. Wedding poetry always does the trick. Ensure that it's witty, appropriate and touching. You have now successfully made one of the best mother of the groom speeches ever.

Tips to Remember
  1. Do not be too drunk while making your mother of the groom speech. You'll only end up slurring your words and making a fool out of yourself. This is general wedding etiquette.
  2. Keep your speech short and sweet. Ideally, it should not last for more than 5 minutes. Guests tend to get bored very easily.
  3. Practice your speech many times before the final edition. You don't want your mind to suddenly turn blank in the middle of your mother of the groom wedding speech.
  4. Just before the speech, go freshen up. Look your best so that you can enrapture your listeners.
  5. Use visual tools during your speech, like videos, photographs or even memorabilia.
  6. Remember to make the speech from your heart and express feelings of appreciation towards the bride. If you're putting on a show, everyone will know it.
Making a mother of the groom speech is a chance for you to express your immense joy for such a happy occasion. So go ahead and make the day even more memorable.

By Rahul Thadani
Published: 9/14/2009
 
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