Modern Wedding Invitation Wording

Although the wedding ceremony is something that is supposed to be traditional, I believe that every generation has contributed their own modern touch into it. The traditional ceremony with a personalized modern touch, is something that most couples go for. So, how to go about the wordings in a modern wedding invitation card?
Unlike traditional wedding invitations, modern wedding invitations give couples and their families more chance to open up in a creative way. You followed your heart and are marrying a person whom you want to share your life for eternity, so why not follow your heart and frame the wordings that are efficient enough to tell people that they are important enough to be a part of your celebration. You know, at times simple modern wedding invitations are preferred more than the complicated ones. The basic rule is to make sure that you have included all the necessary information and details.

Must Have Details on a Wedding Invitation Card

Before you frame the structure and the wordings on your wedding invitation card, it is very important to keep in mind what are the essential information that you can't afford to miss. The main purpose of a wedding invitation card is to tell the invitees that a wedding is taking place and that they are requested to be a part of it. Therefore, it is very important to include the following information.
  • Who is the host?
  • Wedding time and date.
  • Venue
  • Reception details.
  • RSVP
  • Optional details
Once you have all these details checked, it will be easy for you to frame the appropriate wedding invitation wording.

Modern Wedding Invitations Samples

The first step to write a wedding invitation is to mention the host who are paying for the ceremony. Traditionally, it's the bride's parents who host the wedding. But in modern times, there is no hard and fast rule for addressing wedding invitations. We see the parents of both the bride and groom hosting the wedding together, many times the bride and groom themselves host the ceremony. Below are the wedding invitation samples based on different approaches. You can have a look and choose which style and approach suits you the best.

If the Bride's Parents are the Host

Mr. and Mrs. David Smith

request the pleasure of your company

at the marriage of their daughter

Jane Smith

to

Robert Johnson

Saturday, the sixth of November

at two o'clock in the afternoon

Terril United Methodist Church

1234 Hector Avenue

Terril, Virginia

If Both Parents are the Host

Mr. and Mrs. Ron McGrath

and

Mr. and Mrs. David Smith

invite you to share in the joy

of the marriage uniting their children

Jane Leigh

and

Robert Wade

Saturday, the sixth of November

two thousand ten

at two o'clock in the afternoon

Rose Well House

Bloomington, Indiana

Reception immediately following ceremony

Indiana University Auditorium

If the Bride and Groom are the Host

Robert Johnson

&

Jane Smith

request the pleasure of your company

at their wedding

Saturday, the sixth of November

at three o'clock

in their home

123 North 7th Street

Seattle, Washington

Reception immediately following

If the Bride and Groom are the Host but Want to Mention The Parents

Together with their parents

Jane Leigh Smith

and

Robert Wade Brown

request the honor of your presence

at their marriage

Saturday, the sixth of November

at three o'clock in the afternoon

Terril United Methodist Church

1234 Hector Avenue

Terril, Virginia

Important Things to Note in the Above Samples
  • The day and the month should always start with a capital letter.
  • If the ceremony is at a holy place, then always include the term, 'request the honor of your presence'. If the ceremony is at a secular location, you can use other things.
  • Most of the samples include long-handed numbers. There is no hard and fast rule to it, however keep in mind that 4:30 pm when written in words should either be 'four-thirty in the afternoon' and not four thirty. Likewise, years are spelled out without using '-' sign.
Unique Modern Wedding Invitations

The aforementioned wedding invitation samples were simple and appropriate, derived from more of a traditional way. However, as I have mentioned earlier, when it comes to a modern wedding invitation, you can experiment as far as your creativity takes you. Most of the couples also go for red wedding invitations as red is the color of love and romance. As long as you are doing what you like and entering all the information necessary, you are good to go.

Sample#1

Because you have been an important part our lives

with your valuable Friendship and Love, We
Jane Leigh Smith

and

Robert Wade Brown

ask you to join us for an intimate ceremony

to celebrate our Love

on Sunday, the seventh of November

two thousand and ten

at three in the afternoon

Miami Beach Botanical Garden

2000 Convention Center Drive

Miami Beach, Florida

Sample#2

As unique as a seashell
as deep as the sea
As eternal as the waves
our love is meant to be
It is with joy that we,
Jane Leigh Smith
and
Robert Wade Brown
invite you to share
in our happiness
on Saturday, the sixth of November
two thousand and ten
at four o'clock
Terril United Methodist Church

1234 Hector Avenue

Terril, Virginia

The aforementioned are just a few examples. You can also create your own unique contemporary wedding invitations according to your style.

RSVP Sample

Also keep in mind that you put an R.S.V.P card along with it, mentioning the email address to respond to and the date by which the invitees are expected to reply to your invitation. An example for the same would be -

The favor of a reply is requested

Please respond by

June nineteenth

M_________________________

Will_______________________

# of guests ______

Just remember, try to keep it unique by writing what you feel. It is your special day, and if you are not following the tradition, you have set rules to follow. As long as the guests know when and where to come, you are good to go. Creative wordings for wedding invitations should be something that personalizes the invitation so that your invitees are bound to come with the same amount of love and affection with which you have invited them. All the best! :)
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Last Updated: 9/27/2011
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