Lust is Good

I suppose that I have been lucky. I have been the closest one can be to being lesbian and yet I have always admired men.

I know that this is unusual because most women talk of love, trust and comittment. I would love to jump on my man and fuck his brains out.

But it doesn’t work like that, does it? Even if a woman climbs on top (done it many times) she’s still stimulating his penis with her vagina.

I had a horror of tits. I was late developping so, in a way, I was relieved to have anything but I wanted to be a woman not a lactating cow.

Equally I didn’t want to be the boyish no-tits lesbian. Other women seem to be more at ease with the female package, whether it’s big tits, huge thighs, the big mama complex. I wanted to be the woman that lusted for her man and could enjoy mutual sexual satisfaction.

Well it’s not that easy. At least I never found it easy. I guess I was hoping for the wrong things. Women hope for babies and I got those. Men hope for good sex and, for me, I felt that sex was always over-sold.

Leastways where women are concerned. Christ – I haven’t met a woman that has even hinted at lust. There’s superficial bravado but no heart-to-hearts. No woman has ever talked about sexual frustration.

I reckon there’s lots of it about if you’re a woman. Someone please tell me I’m wrong and that if I were a true woman I would be happy with emotional and loving feelings from my relationships. I guess I landed on the wrong planet and out there somewhere things are more equal. Men share the babies and women share the joy of sexual lust.

Until then, dream on babes…

The fact is that orgasm is much, much more difficult to achieve with a partner than is commonly suggested. The core of the problem is that women use sexual fantasies during masturbation but these can be difficult to use during sex with a partner especially if they are surreal/kinky in nature (which they usually are).

I am not trying to belittle men by suggesting that women deliberately deceive them (although this is sometimes true). Equally, I’m not trying to belittle women who are convinced that orgasm happens the first time and every time during sex.

I’m just pointing out to those who know what orgasm is from masturbation that other women are, often quite innocently, mistaken. Since they never masturbate they never learn how their sexual arousal works or how to reach orgasm by any means.

Think yourself lucky…

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