Is Your Girlfriend Cheating on You

Do you often get the feeling that your girlfriend is cheating on you? Well most often it's all in your mind. But sometimes, when a man notices sudden changes in the behavior of his girlfriend, he can't help but wonder if she was cheating on him.

Finding Cheaters Out

The definition of the word cheating is very tricky and can be assumed to mean different things. To most people cheating only means having sex with someone else other than their partners. To others, the definition of cheating extends to emotional cheating, where your partner seems to trust someone else, a lot more and shares more time, more feelings and more stuff overall with them. But this article particularly talks about the most common definition of cheating. The sexual one. So the answer can be found if your girlfriend is showing a lot of the behavioral signs given below.

Note the words 'a lot'. Not one or two of the signs given below. A lot of the signs given below. Because one or two of these may simply signal lifestyle changes.

Well, first things first, never ever accuse without proof. Once you have it, then accuse away.

Personally, I'd be terribly pissed off and I'd piss the couple off too. Unfortunately you will perhaps never be able to prove that your girlfriend is sleeping with someone else. Because it is terribly unlikely that they'll be doing it in your bed, while you're around. So, piss your girlfriend off, till she admits that she's been cheating on you. So, what are the cheating girlfriend signs?

Well apart from the terribly obvious one and popularly joked about one, where your girlfriend says 'oh Paul!' in the bed when your name is Bob, here are quite a few cheating girlfriend signs.

Where Are You?
A very common sign is that she becomes a lot busier. Perhaps she's working overtime, perhaps she's joined too many classes lately. And comes back really, really late, almost too often. This is one of the most common signs that she will show, if she's cheating. And one class ends and another starts. Almost too alarmingly quickly. And suddenly there's a lot less time for you.

Catch Her:Demand more time with her. Keep nagging her to go out with you. Eventually, either the girlfriend or the lover will snap, and tell you. Following them is another cheesy way out.

Oh He's just Someone I Know
Some guy ends up everywhere your girlfriend goes? Its annoying even if he's not sleeping with your girlfriend. But suddenly there is this one name which pops up a lot in your conversations these days. He's in her office, her classes, her gym and maybe even in her pants. Watch out for this one.

Catch Her: 'Oh why not meet up?' This will help you confirm if he really is just a friend, or if he's more than just a friend.

Not Tonight Honey, I'm Really Tired
Tired too often? Maybe because someone else is working her out. Although there are two ways this can work. Some women, otherwise neutral to sex, tend to want it a lot more from you, while a normally willing girlfriend wants it a lot less. Funny isn't it? The bottom line is that there is suddenly a change in behavior pattern.

Catch Her: ... I'm as clueless as you are. It's illegal to force an unwilling girlfriend to. If she's extra willing, go with the flow! There's no real way to prove that the girlfriend is cheating.

Sudden Unexplained Gifts
Are there, almost too many new gifts around? Probably from a friend? Probably, treating herself a lot more these days? Well, maybe she is, but often lovers do like to shower their girl with gifts and suddenly, there may be a lot more gifts around the house.

Catch Her: 'You got it? Oh its lovely, why don't we go back and get it?' Because if she got it herself, she'd know where she did, and for how much she did. If she was gifted, she's less likely to know.

Has she learned this new move in bed? Does she have a lot of scratches/bites which you're not responsible for? Does she dress up really well for work/classes? Does she avoid your eyes a lot, while talking to you? Does she fight a lot with you? Does she find the things, she found cute about you sometime ago, stupid or boring? Does she talk on the phone a lot? Has her menstrual cycle changed?

One thing to keep in mind is to never accuse someone without sufficient proof. If there are two relationship issues which hurt someone a lot, they are infidelity and accusations of infidelity. So be sure that you see most of these signs she's cheating before accusing her of anything.