Is She Cheating on Me?

Cheating can be a little bit tricky. There's emotional cheating as well as the actual act. Emotional infidelity of your partner is more hurtful. Having sex with another person is simply presenting evidence to prove the fact that your girlfriend is not in love with you anymore.

So, is she cheating on you? How to tell if she is cheating? For a guy, it's extremely difficult to look for signs of cheating in a relationship. Let's face it guys, when it comes to emotional issues, we start to closely resemble African monkeys. Know more on some tell-tale signs of a cheating girlfriend.

She does not receive your calls
Even though you've tried calling her many times, she is repeatedly not receiving your calls. What's worse? She doesn't even return them. And when you ask her about it, she will always have a work-related story ready. Guys, this is the age of cellphones! If she really wanted to call, she would have called.

Lying about her guy friends
Why in the world would you lie about anything? And of all the things lying about guy friends. You need to confront her about this. A word of advice to all members of the male fraternity, clear the air about your girlfriend's guy friends. This is one of the clear signs that she is cheating!

Continuous arguments
You watch TV and she argues. You stop watching TV and she still argues. You go out, she argues. You don't go out and all hell breaks loose. Do you see a pattern here? Maybe there is a hidden message in all these forced arguments.

Awkward silences
Ever get this feeling that your girlfriend is just not talking to you (even though you are spending like $ 100 on a dinner date). Dude, talk to your girlfriend on a date. Eating is less important. She might very well be thinking,"This is exactly what I did not have with "...", well the other guy.

General lying about all the stuff
Lying about guy friends is one thing (she might just be testing your jealousy levels), but lying about almost everything and that too without any logical answer, now that's a different thing altogether. Confront her! Ask her to stop lying.

Prefers other people's company
She is always interested in other people's company! Whatever you do, she simply does not want you around! You have to ask yourself this question, when was the last time you guys enjoyed something together?

She is not even interested in cuddling
Some truths need not be told, girls like cuddling and we all know what guys like. Make a mental note, guys! When your mate refuses to cuddle with you, there is something very fishy going on.

New friends? What are you talking about?
You should be all thumbs up for your girl if she has a life beyond your relationship, but dude she fervently denies that she has any new friends and even if she grudgingly admits to it, she refuses to introduce you to them. Why? Why? Why?

The above signs will help you find out if she is cheating. However, if you are still not sure whether she is cheating on you, Here's what you do:-

Assess whether she is still in love with you
Try to answer this simple question. Is she still in love with you? Apply some logic. If the answer is yes, then there's some point to the relationship. If the answer is no, then what is the point in you taking it forward?

Assess whether you are in love with her
Think of the reason why you loved her. Think of the things because of which you fell in love with her. To quote a cliche "love is all you need for a relationship".

I really hope that the above elaboration, presents an interesting view to the question 'Is she cheating on me?' If you do not pay heed to above warning signs of infidelity, well you may have a serious problem on your hands. Read more on:

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