Interesting Things to Talk About

Jessica and James were in love with each other. They were made for each other. But one thing kept bothering Jess. She and James never spent one single minute all alone. In fact it seemed to her that James did not want to spend much time with her alone. When they were in a group, everything was just great, but when they were alone, it seemed as if they were tongue-tied. She kept worrying about her relationship until she heard James one day telling his friend that how she, Jessica could not come up with an interesting conversation, something which even he could participate in. Every time it was either make up or dresses or about how her friends are cheating their boyfriends, how they are becoming fat, etc. She also heard him say that, he pretended listening to her only because he loved her. But honestly, he felt bored in her company. Jessica was hurt. But she was not mad at James. She knew that she could not come up with interesting things to talk about when she was with James, she got tongue-tied. She had no idea what to talk about, that would interest him. So you know what she did? She decided to change her conversation style. How did she do that? Well, all she had to do was read this article and voila! Now when you meet her, it won't be too difficult for you to spot the difference.

I am sure that there are many girls out there, who when they are with a guy or with their boyfriend, sometimes have no idea as to what to talk about. They have no clue as to what are the various conversation starters with a guy or what are the various question to ask a guy. If we are with girls, we can talk about endless things, such as clothes, makeup, jewelry, cute actors, the cute looking guy, our crushes, the cute looking guy again, food, beauty tips and the list goes on. But put a girl and a guy in a room all alone (ahem! to talk), and yes, probably the first half an hour, they will be comfortable talking to each other, but after that, (if they have nothing in common), they have nothing interesting to say. You cannot discus the above list with a guy. The topics to talk about with guys and boyfriends are different. So what now? Does that mean that we can never talk to a guy for more than half an hour, without the guy dozing off? I don't think so. Here are some tips, girls which you can make use. They are sure to keep the guy's attention glued to you and no one else.

What to Say or Talk About

A boyfriend is someone special with whom, you talk about a lot of things. But, even though I am not a guy, I am pretty sure that a guy would not love to hear an hour long conversation about the black sexy dress that you saw, or how the cost of mascara has gone up or how you desperately need to have a haircut, no matter how much he loves you. But, that does not mean that you have to improve your taste and preferences for him. There are many interesting topics to talk about which will surely interest both of you and you would also get to know more about him. Here are some steps and tips on how to talk to a guy.

• Hey! Tell me about your hobbies? Do you like to travel?
• What are your goals in life? what would you like to do after you finish your high school?
• What is the craziest thing that you have ever done? Were you scared? Given a chance, would you so it again?
• Hey, did you see the baseball game today? I loved the way Rodrick played. That reminds me, my brother has a baseball match this weekend. I am not much of a sports person. You think you can help him? (BANG! You've just got yourself a date).
• What was the funniest thing that you had done till date? (Guys love to talk about funny things, therefore if you start off your conversations with some funny conversation starters, you will have some interesting conversations on the phone)
• Did you just see the news about the gruesome murder of the young girl? What is your opinion about it?
• What is it about girls that you like a lot? (Now you cannot ask this question to your boyfriend, otherwise you will be all jealous)
• Which is your favorite music band? Have you ever seen them perform live? (Now do not ask this question if they say that 'Beatles' is their favorite, unless of course your friend is in his 50s)
• Who is your favorite sports star? Which sports do you love to play the most?
• What kind of movies do you like to watch? (After he replies) Oh! that? I loved it too (do not say this if you have not seen the movie). Did you like the way the actress was portrayed in the movie?
• Who is your favorite author? Did you read (name of a book) of hers/his? What is your opinion about the book?
• What is your favorite dish? Where do you love to eat?
• I like your tattoo! Where did you get it done from? What does it mean?

Jessica, after reading this article, now spends more than 7 hours with James, just talking and also on the phone for at least 4 to 5 hours, nearly every single day. They have so many interesting topics to discuss. Both of them now agree, that they thought they were in love, but they never knew much about each other. But now they were sure that they were in love and they knew more about each other than they had done earlier. All this was partly because of the fact that Jessica now knew, what were the various topics to talk about with a guy. Here's hoping that it has the same effect on you girls too.